First impression

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As Valentine month has finally arrived, let me ask you one simple question.
As it is told, "First impression is the best impression", is it applicable in the case of love also? What is your opinion? :)

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I think First Impression is last Impression work on every type of performance not only love.
yes I believe this that first impression is the best,after that impression will be less and after 20 years it will be nil. Sasi , post a quotation if possible.
First impression is last impression in all matters. That is why one must be very cautious when meeting some one for the first time. It is very difficult to erase the first impression later.

I have personal experience. On my posting to a unit, the concerned officer had impression that I was new to type of job there even though I had experience in that. Even by my explaining and hearing from others, he could not change his impression. So, he deployed me on general administrative job only.
First impression is last impression in all matters. That is why one must be very cautious when meeting some one for the first time. It is very difficult to erase the first impression later.

I have personal experience. On my posting to a unit, the concerned officer had impression that I was new to type of job there even though I had experience in that. Even by my explaining and hearing from others, he could not change his impression. So, he deployed me on general administrative job only.


Sir, of course such incidents can also occur. Also, first impression may be the best to get into one's heart. But will it survives, if the next impression is bad?

Also, in common life, how many such experiences can we see around where second impression often erases the first one's bad images.
But, one thing is for sure. First impression makes an easy path to enter one's mind. Isn't it?
First impression is last impression in all matters. That is why one must be very cautious when meeting some one for the first time. It is very difficult to erase the first impression later.

I have personal experience. On my posting to a unit, the concerned officer had impression that I was new to type of job there even though I had experience in that. Even by my explaining and hearing from others, he could not change his impression. So, he deployed me on general administrative job only.


Sir, of course such incidents can also occur. Also, first impression may be the best to get into one's heart. But will it survives, if the next impression is bad?

Also, in common life, how many such experiences can we see around where second impression often erases the first one's bad images.
But, one thing is for sure. First impression makes an easy path to enter one's mind. Isn't it?


Here let us see example of Modi, Gujarat C.M. The Gujarat riots mad first impression that he is anti Muslim, communal and fascist. Now whatever he does, the first impression has become permanent.
Yes, once a bad impression is made, it is very difficult to change that.
But my question is about love.
I am asking, if, that proverb is applicable in the case of romance also?
:)
In many films we are seeing enemies (or bad impression) converted to lovers
eg. Films like Dil, DDLJ, Hum dil de chuke sanam :woohoo:
Yes, once a bad impression is made, it is very difficult to change that.
But my question is about love.
I am asking, if, that proverb is applicable in the case of romance also?
:)
In many films we are seeing enemies (or bad impression) converted to lovers
eg. Films like Dil, DDLJ, Hum dil de chuke sanam :woohoo:


The reel life is not real. I think that in the film 'Dil', there was no bad impression of the hero or heroine about one another but this was only between their fathers. Ultimately, this had happy end.
No sir,
'Dil' is one among the best comedy Hindi films that clearly shows 'the first impression was really a very bad impression' :laugh:
Yes First impression is important in every field of life.Girls also get impressed by boys on their first meeting.Even i fall in love in my first meeting.
Suppose that you Identified weather a batsman play for long or not by the body language in the first over which he play.In interviews If your first impression is not good then it is very difficult to get that job for you.So first impression is very important in our life.
First impression is the best impression is correct one but it is not applicable for all situations.
I think this is true for every thing, be it our appearance our mental level or our nature, the first impressions is some thing that counts. I am not sure if this would work for me in this month in reference to Valentine as I have never tried it that way. :laugh:
I think this is true for every thing, be it our appearance our mental level or our nature, the first impressions is some thing that counts. I am not sure if this would work for me in this month in reference to Valentine as I have never tried it that way. :laugh:


Let us wait for some more time, Sunil and find. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :woohoo:
I don't agree this it is applicable in some cases but not in love. Many love stories started after a long time.
Yes this is correct that, first impression is best. But I think it is not in love.
I don't agree this it is applicable in some cases but not in love. Many love stories started after a long time.


I 100% agree with you Sasi.
Even my life is so. The first day of my college life itself brought a bad opinion about him from my side. Whole through my college life, I was scared of and also, keep a little distance from seniors. But later, what happened?
My first impression about him changed. :laugh:
Even now, my friends use to say, "What we thought about him earlier! He is not like that person, whom we think about, at our college days"
No it doesn't work in all cases as sometimes in start we assume other person wrong but after knowing him or her closely we get to know about their good face.
May be people used to judge someone from the first impression.. But in many cases person may not be true person what we see at first.
We need to interact with persons at various levels and in various situations to form judgement about them to be able to choose the right one as friend!
We need to interact with persons at various levels and in various situations to form judgement about them to be able to choose the right one as friend!


Yes that the way to judge any person.. Without proper interaction we can't know anything.
We need to interact with persons at various levels and in various situations to form judgement about them to be able to choose the right one as friend!

Yes, we can't judge a person with one or two situations only. :)

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