Age suitable for marriage

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According to you, which age is more suitable for marriage, for both boys and girls?
Also tell, is age difference an influencing factor in the bond between husband and wife?
Also the age gap? ie. 20 years back, husband may be 10 years older. Now, it has very much reduced to 3 or 4. Is it a factor to influence the relationship?
If so, how can it be?

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5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.
I believe that couple with less age gap have more understanding as compared to those with a larger gap. There are many things people fail to relate to if they don't belong to the same age group. Though there are exceptions always :)
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.


My parents differ by 14 years :)
I think when a girl attend the of 25 it is suitable for them to get married and for boys it is at least 28.Both have the sense of relationship and it is very essential for a boy to settle first.
5 years gap is ok I think. More gap or no gap should be avoided. In my personal experience if 10 or 9 year gap the bonding is more high.


we have only 9 months gap :dry: :dry:

Today seeing our ration card, he is saying, am more aged than him in ration card. So, he don't want to keep it as records :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
So, i asked today, if I was more aged than you what would you do??? :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

No reply came. He may have thought, if so, I would have never married you ;) :P


Mary, what's your age difference?


9 years. Not only my case. my mother and father also 10 years gap. They lived peacefully and lived with full of affection and I saw many cases like this.


My parents differ by 14 years :)


oh that is a very big difference. In previous generation more marriages like that.

Nowadays less gaps between couples
According to me the best age is 26 for girls and 28 for boys. Above that girls find it difficult to find a groom :evil: That is what I have been hearing very often. :P
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


And what about men B) They never age :silly:
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


And what about men B) They never age :silly:


They can marry even at 60 or 70. Isn't it? :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


I was 26 and my hubby 27, when we got married :woohoo: :woohoo:
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


I was 26 and my hubby 27, when we got married :woohoo: :woohoo:


I read an article in the newspaper supplement that says most of the girls are now marrying even before turning 25. The results are based on a survey in Delhi. :ohmy:
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


I was 26 and my hubby 27, when we got married :woohoo: :woohoo:


I read an article in the newspaper supplement that says most of the girls are now marrying even before turning 25. The results are based on a survey in Delhi. :ohmy:


But asha, if we take statistics of 15 years back, it will be before 20, as most girls are not educated. Now, girls are studying at least till 24-25, causing lag in their marriages.
I feel, +23-24 is good for girls to get married. But not below 23.
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


I was 26 and my hubby 27, when we got married :woohoo: :woohoo:


I read an article in the newspaper supplement that says most of the girls are now marrying even before turning 25. The results are based on a survey in Delhi. :ohmy:


But asha, if we take statistics of 15 years back, it will be before 20, as most girls are not educated. Now, girls are studying at least till 24-25, causing lag in their marriages.
I feel, +23-24 is good for girls to get married. But not below 23.


Yes that is a fact as girls beyond 25 are considered old and the society starts imagining out the many possibilities of the delay in marriage.
22 years is good for marriage for girls. For Gens it is 26.

Because doctors says before 25 the pregnancy difficulties are less.
yes asha, you are exactly right above 26 it is very difficult to find a groom


And what about men B) They never age :silly:


They can marry even at 60 or 70. Isn't it? :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:


And who stops women to marry at that age?
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society


Yes everything has a right time. Let us say that the suitable age according to the society is different then that considered by many individuals.
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society


A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.

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