According to you, which age is more suitable for marriage, for both boys and girls?
Also tell, is age difference an influencing factor in the bond between husband and wife?
Also the age gap? ie. 20 years back, husband may be 10 years older. Now, it has very much reduced to 3 or 4. Is it a factor to influence the relationship?
If so, how can it be?
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According to the new generation age group is not a much more important factor.Today Both boys and girls want to make their career in their favourate field.They want to strong with their background in respect of money.Generally age for Female is Around 25 years and 30 years around for male.
Physical maturity is basic condition for marriage as this is between a man and woman and not between children. Accordingly, both boy and girl should be around twenty years. As the relation is considered for whole life, it is desirable that the gap should not be excessive. A gap of twenty years is that of parent/ child and not husband/ wife. Thus, gap of five years is ideal. The persons between same age group are genelly more compatible to each other though there may be exceptions.
In present generation, The best age for women and men is 25. and the difference should not be more than 5 and it can be less 5 too.
Ayyo :ohmy:
We have only 10 months age gap :woohoo: :laugh: :)
The main advantage of this less age gap is that couple can make good friendship between them, which is very difficult if they have age gap of 5 or more. What do you say? (I am saying about present condition)
Any age when a girl or boy has completed his/her education settled in life is suitable. They should be mature and adult and prepared in every aspect to live a married life. Age difference has nothing to do in a marriage. My wife is same age as me.
I think she is your college friend. Am I right? :P
yes, but in present days forcefully parents are performing minor marriages and even performing the marriages without the interest of the children. they are just seeing money. Now a days marriage has become one kind of business.
When people discuss about marriage, they discuss about dowry and gold but not about how the girl and boy look and their nature and all
When people discuss about marriage, they discuss about dowry and gold but not about how the girl and boy look and their nature and all
But I think this trend is changing fast for good. Now consent of both boy and the girl is considered important. besides number of girl child getting lower too is making difference. Girls are getting upper hand now.
Ha ha..You started a new topic...really nice discussion to start with :)
Sunil by my experience am telling this, The matches which come to me are preferring first money and then they bother about the girl.
Many of the cases came across in Andhra that is minor marriage.
I am not sure SaralaJi about your experience as in our areas, girls are rejecting unsuitable match or demanding ones outright, without thinking. They want boys which are sober and understanding.
Sunil by my experience am telling this, The matches which come to me are preferring first money and then they bother about the girl.
Many of the cases came across in Andhra that is minor marriage.
I am not sure SaralaJi about your experience as in our areas, girls are rejecting unsuitable match or demanding ones outright, without thinking. They want boys which are sober and understanding.
Yes, i agree. I too hear from my relatives that girls are rejecting unwanted and unsuited matches easily.. :)
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