According to you, which age is more suitable for marriage, for both boys and girls?
Also tell, is age difference an influencing factor in the bond between husband and wife?
Also the age gap? ie. 20 years back, husband may be 10 years older. Now, it has very much reduced to 3 or 4. Is it a factor to influence the relationship?
If so, how can it be?
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No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.
Men and women equally need a close companion at that age and with increase life expectancy, those who had opted to remain single at young age are now seeking companions at old age and getting married. It is the need of such people rather than live lonely. So it is okay for them to get married at that age, there is no harm in it and others should also not make any noise about it.
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.
Men and women equally need a close companion at that age and with increase life expectancy, those who had opted to remain single at young age are now seeking companions at old age and getting married. It is the need of such people rather than live lonely. So it is okay for them to get married at that age, there is no harm in it and others should also not make any noise about it.
Will live in relation not be better in such circumstances? Formal marriage at advanced age may not be so feasible.
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.
I agree with you....
We are living in a society, where men of 70 or 80 are marrying girls of 18. Then why not ladies above +40 or +50 or +60.
Only complications is delivery.
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.
I agree with you....
We are living in a society, where men of 70 or 80 are marrying girls of 18. Then why not ladies above +40 or +50 or +60.
Only complications is delivery.
Correct pointed out about delivery. When you get old problem increases.
No one stops, but it is not correct according to the society
A woman of sixty or seventy may marry. such cases are rare and will definitely be a news to others. I think that it is better in such cases to perform very simple ceremony and not make much noise about this.
I agree with you....
We are living in a society, where men of 70 or 80 are marrying girls of 18. Then why not ladies above +40 or +50 or +60.
Only complications is delivery.
This used to be in the past but recently I have not seen a case where a man of 60+ have married to a 18 years old girl. :blink:
my opinion is suitable age for a girl is 24 to 26 because girls reach their maturity level very fast but as far as boys considered they get their maturity level raised only after 26 so that they can understand what a girl thinks, but age difference is not a problem at all.............. :) :) :) :)
my opinion is suitable age for a girl is 24 to 26 because girls reach their maturity level very fast but as far as boys considered they get their maturity level raised only after 26 so that they can understand what a girl thinks, but age difference is not a problem at all.............. :) :) :) :)
24~26 years is OK for girls as they face delivery problems with their age its hard for a woman to deliver a baby when she reaches age of 40 years there is lot of complicity in woman with the age. :blink:
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
But what happen, if you become father at the age of 45? :woohoo: :woohoo: :woohoo:
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
Of course you will have no problem. The problem arises when you have children at age of fifty years. It is best to have grown up children when you are at retirement age viz. sixty years or a few years more.
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
Of course you will have no problem. The problem arises when you have children at age of fifty years. It is best to have grown up children when you are at retirement age viz. sixty years or a few years more.
Yes it would have been a problem that's why I suggest my friends to get married at certain age so that they may have their kids grown up before their retirement age. :woohoo:
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
Of course you will have no problem. The problem arises when you have children at age of fifty years. It is best to have grown up children when you are at retirement age viz. sixty years or a few years more.
Yes it would have been a problem that's why I suggest my friends to get married at certain age so that they may have their kids grown up before their retirement age. :woohoo:
So no hope for our Salman, Pooja Bhatt, Urmila, Tabu......Oh.....list is not ending here :ohmy: :ohmy:
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
Of course you will have no problem. The problem arises when you have children at age of fifty years. It is best to have grown up children when you are at retirement age viz. sixty years or a few years more.
Yes it would have been a problem that's why I suggest my friends to get married at certain age so that they may have their kids grown up before their retirement age. :woohoo:
So no hope for our Salman, Pooja Bhatt, Urmila, Tabu......Oh.....list is not ending here :ohmy: :ohmy:
They all are celebrities it won't affect them as they have lots of money in their account so they don't need to get tensed when they reach retirement age. :blink:
Also, she will be very old when her kid reaches 20. Isn't it?
That is not a concern I feel. :)
I had my babies at the age of 32 years I will be 52 years when my kids will be of 20 years but that's not a problem. :woohoo:
Of course you will have no problem. The problem arises when you have children at age of fifty years. It is best to have grown up children when you are at retirement age viz. sixty years or a few years more.
Yes it would have been a problem that's why I suggest my friends to get married at certain age so that they may have their kids grown up before their retirement age. :woohoo:
Such decisions are personal and we cannot generalize. However, there is suitable age for any thing. There is age for education, marriage, children, grand children. It is very bizarre to have a wife who looks like daughter and children who look like grand children.
A man in my neighborhood had second marriage and also children out if that. He was shy of going anywhere with his wife as he would be asked whether she was his daughter. When he died, his wife was still young enough and children still school going. Luckily for wife and children, he left a house and sufficient money for them.
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