To keep a relationship green, is it necessary that we should meet that person more frequently or he should stay along/near us? It is mostly applicable for friendships and love relations.
Do you think that if two (true) friends have not met for a quite long time, the bond of their friendship will gradually decrease?
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Yes Alam you are right .To get real friend is very tough now a days.
Ram,
I am talking about all kind of human relationships.
If relationship is real, it doesn't matter even if both can't meet for a quite long period. If it has lost its lust, it can never be true relationship.
Very often, a distance between the two keeps the relationship more green. Isn't it?
The relationship will be green only if both are in presence or atleast meet time to time. b'cox distance creates gap between two relationships. When they meet together one day that gap will remains for some days. As the one dont know how the other things and act.
So to keep our relationship green a frequent or time to time presence is necessary.
So to keep our relationship green a frequent or time to time presence is necessary.
In this modern world, even if everyone is saying electronic media is creating gaps in relationships, I think it is not the case.
Life goes on changing and it itself accepts change.
Earlier, people used to write letters. Now all are writing emails. (It saves money, time and time lag to reduce letter)
Earlier, friends gather together at one place to have a discussion. Now all are gathering in twitter, face book etc Of course, our forums :P
Earlier, if we part with a friend at college days, chances are remote that we remember them very often or meet them. By now, sms are free and of course forwarded emails helps all of us, not to stay away, not too long....(particularly if one has settled in another country). It makes an illusion that he/she is near, since we get quick responses.
It is true, we are not missing our friends as before. Even a sms or forward is helping to keep a relationship green without fading :cheer: I think so.
What is your opinion?
Life goes on changing and it itself accepts change.
Earlier, people used to write letters. Now all are writing emails. (It saves money, time and time lag to reduce letter)
Earlier, friends gather together at one place to have a discussion. Now all are gathering in twitter, face book etc Of course, our forums :P
Earlier, if we part with a friend at college days, chances are remote that we remember them very often or meet them. By now, sms are free and of course forwarded emails helps all of us, not to stay away, not too long....(particularly if one has settled in another country). It makes an illusion that he/she is near, since we get quick responses.
It is true, we are not missing our friends as before. Even a sms or forward is helping to keep a relationship green without fading :cheer: I think so.
What is your opinion?
I don't think presence is not the first essential factor to keep a relationship green.
If so, how can we bind each other and participate in our forum???
We share a common language. Yet we don't identify the other's face. Even then, there is an unknown bond that exists among we people. Also, we people don't prefer to meet each other.
Now say, is presence necessary? :cheer:
If so, how can we bind each other and participate in our forum???
We share a common language. Yet we don't identify the other's face. Even then, there is an unknown bond that exists among we people. Also, we people don't prefer to meet each other.
Now say, is presence necessary? :cheer:
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Sandhya Rani
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