Is presence necessary?

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To keep a relationship green, is it necessary that we should meet that person more frequently or he should stay along/near us? It is mostly applicable for friendships and love relations.
Do you think that if two (true) friends have not met for a quite long time, the bond of their friendship will gradually decrease?

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It is not neccessary to present to keep the friendship relation well. We have many friends but we meet after a long time but there is a good relation between us.
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Ram, can't understand anything. :woohoo: Can you make it simple?
Out of sight, out of mind is an old proverb. You are closest to one you are in physical contact.
Friendship is a Best Relationship Between Two Person It cannot decrease Even Both stay apart From each Other If it Decrease Then It is Not a Good friendship.
Alam you are talking about friendship only then what about the other relationship.
Other relationship also Important For our Life But the friendship is at
True RelationShip That Stand Without the support Of Things like money.
Yes Alam you are right .To get real friend is very tough now a days.
It is not at all right. that relation ship will be green when people meet. Friends are true then the relation ship of friendship will be live long for long time there is no question decreasing
Times change and so do perspectives! If two very best friends separate for a long time and them meet again, it is going to be a bit difficult and awkward too. I think presence is necessary at least from time to time.
Yes Alam you are right .To get real friend is very tough now a days.

Ram,
I am talking about all kind of human relationships.
If relationship is real, it doesn't matter even if both can't meet for a quite long period. If it has lost its lust, it can never be true relationship.

Very often, a distance between the two keeps the relationship more green. Isn't it?
Yes it is true Sandhya and I said this that Very often, a distance between the two keeps the relationship more green
I can you from my personal experience that if love is strong it will remain even if you are away or dont meet frequently.
The relationship will be green only if both are in presence or atleast meet time to time. b'cox distance creates gap between two relationships. When they meet together one day that gap will remains for some days. As the one dont know how the other things and act.

So to keep our relationship green a frequent or time to time presence is necessary.
In this modern world, even if everyone is saying electronic media is creating gaps in relationships, I think it is not the case.
Life goes on changing and it itself accepts change.
Earlier, people used to write letters. Now all are writing emails. (It saves money, time and time lag to reduce letter)
Earlier, friends gather together at one place to have a discussion. Now all are gathering in twitter, face book etc Of course, our forums :P
Earlier, if we part with a friend at college days, chances are remote that we remember them very often or meet them. By now, sms are free and of course forwarded emails helps all of us, not to stay away, not too long....(particularly if one has settled in another country). It makes an illusion that he/she is near, since we get quick responses.
It is true, we are not missing our friends as before. Even a sms or forward is helping to keep a relationship green without fading :cheer: I think so.

What is your opinion?
Yes Sandhya now a days if we had not maintained relationship with friend s or family members relation ship will break. For good relation ship we must maintain a healthy relation between us.
Sandhya you are absolutely true. I have got many my friends through facebook and we sometimes share many things through email.Once I felt alone now I have many friends.
Sandhya you are absolutely true. I have got many my friends through facebook and we sometimes share many things through email.Once I felt alone now I have many friends.


Yes. Electronic media has helped as maintaining relationships with the illusion of its 'Presence'. Am I right?
Yes Ram you are absolutely correct I am having less friends.Now with social networking sites and Boddunan I had many friends. So I can share my happiness and sad things with them happily.
I don't think presence is not the first essential factor to keep a relationship green.
If so, how can we bind each other and participate in our forum???
We share a common language. Yet we don't identify the other's face. Even then, there is an unknown bond that exists among we people. Also, we people don't prefer to meet each other.
Now say, is presence necessary? :cheer:
Sandhya from your words I can say there is no need presence. We all don't know each other but we had a unknown bond between all of us to maintain friendship here.

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