Is presence necessary?

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To keep a relationship green, is it necessary that we should meet that person more frequently or he should stay along/near us? It is mostly applicable for friendships and love relations.
Do you think that if two (true) friends have not met for a quite long time, the bond of their friendship will gradually decrease?

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Am I not right?
It is really a nice discussion to carry forward if everyone is interested.
Hoping to get new opinions. :cheer:
Sandhya from your words I can say there is no need presence. We all don't know each other but we had a unknown bond between all of us to maintain friendship here.


Yes, an unknown bound evolves between minds. We know each other with our minds than physical presence. Isn't it?
that depends up on the type of relation ship. IF it is friendship then there is no need of presence
It is not necessary to be present all the time.There is a proverb in English that absence makes the heart fonder!!
this is a wonderful proverb chinmoyeeji. Thank you so much
When you live together,the bond between two person becomes much close,why so? Because at every situations and at every circumstances,you get to know each other.
So,it is obvious that your relation may get strong or collapse.
If your views doesn't matched you relation may broke.

And if you are away from each other,then that bond goes on decreasing,just because you both are not together.
Bond only establishes ,when there is closeness.
In my life I have experiences of silent presence of some whom I may have met decades back but still their echoes are still in my mind!
Chinmoy jee you have not told here clearly who is she can you reveal that secret. :laugh: :laugh:
Chinmoy jee you have not told here clearly who is she can you reveal that secret. :laugh: :laugh:


I tried to say as clearly as my lingual ability permitted me to!
In friendship,if you remain away for long time,it may possible that when you meet after many years,the relationship may get active.
But in Husband and wife's relation,i don't think so,this is possible.
I agree with Chinmoy that sometime absence with only work out.. ;) :)
The more we try to make one absent in our minds ,the greater is his or her presence!!
Yes Rajani absence is must for every person other wise we will remember him. :P :P
yes, in some situation or cases, absence of a person will make us know the value of that person
Even all of us also will know the value of a person who is absent from two days in this site.
I don't think so.. One of my cousin staying in the US.. I have meet him first time one year ago.. but we were chatting with each other many times from many years.. And when we meet first time, it wasn't feeling new atall.
In friendship,if you remain away for long time,it may possible that when you meet after many years,the relationship may get active.
But in Husband and wife's relation,i don't think so,this is possible.


Conjugal rights is an essential ingredient of husband wife relation. Accordingly, Physical presence is necessary. This is legal view upheld by judiciary.
For any relation our presence is may not necessary but for husband and wife presence is necessary
Relations are not classified when you are physically close. Its the inner soul,that makes the relation.
When you want somebody to come in your relation,it means that heart gives the permission and say that yes,you can have a relation with so and so person.
But for friendship there is no need of presence. Just we should have trust and friendly nature

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