After you have gone.

The good deeds and even for bad deeds of a person people remember

The good deeds and even for bad deeds of a person people remember

How should you be remembered, as what personality or for which deed?

I strongly believe, we are really lucky to get a human birth and we should make it worthy by doing at least one thing, which should be a benefit to others . Every one is send by God to earth to complete some task, for sure.

Also after we become 50 or 60, we should be able to say with proud.....I am able to do this task in my life......a task that I did, something benefited to at least one person, other than me.

following others is not good always. We can follow for good things as others.

By helping others, by being good, by geting good name among the people

I am a very small human being and I would rather prefer to lead a life dictated by my conscience and leave the rest to the Almighty!

Sandhya are you a philosophizer? such good question and discussion.Thanks for such.
Man remembers one for his good and bad works.

Sandhya are you a philosophizer? such good question and discussion.Thanks for such.
Man remembers one for his good and bad works.

I always thinks a lot. That's why. :evil:

How you are to be remembered.....?that's my question

I don't crave immortality and any such ambition may come in the way of living my life in my way! Let us do what our inner selves dictate!

we should live our life fully without caring about what happens when we are no more. Those who live after us will take care of everything.

Every one will have their own style in their life if you choose different path only you will get name.

Do your respective karmas and be clear in your conscience and that's all about it! Looking too deep into the future is not going to help us any way!

I want to get many friends as possible before I leave this world, like branches of a big banyan tree :laugh:
Also, as Chinmoy jee I want to known as a writer. :laugh:
I want to publish at least one book, from which at least one person can learn something new. :P and prompts him to do good things in life.
Even if I can change one person, it will be a great thing to me :woohoo: I would feel my life had become worthy!!!!

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Every time I set out changing a person I end up changing myself!!Ha ha!

we should be always good at heart........rest things will fall into their place......good karmas is the only resolution......

Yes Sandhya you are right always create your own path never go to another path just like a pig.

Its only good deeds or good thinking and sacrifices that make people alive in others.

I am not planning yet to be gone, but then who knows about the departure one may face. I would like to be known for my good works only, as every one says. I don't know who will forget whatever bad I did. :laugh:

If we do good deeds in our life time , then everyone will remember us even we are not in this world

If we do good deeds in our life time , then everyone will remember us even we are not in this world

But for how many days???? can you tell?

If we do good deeds in our life time , then everyone will remember us even we are not in this world

Of course people do remember for good deeds but some people are known for their bad doings too but in bad sense.