Is there the need of a stick?

it is quite unfair to beat with stick.....scolding is okay...now a days the kids are too sensitive and in a way mature than what we used to be.....so talking is the most effective way to treat a child.

well, im not married yet. But, my opinion is teaching our child with love only is good. Teaching with stick i never appreciate this.. We can teach our child in best way with love and caring.

We can teach our child with love as I think parents are the best friend of children.Being a friend child can share everything with parents.

@Sandhya,
We should love our children, but our love should not spoil children. So according to the situation we should behave. Whenever kids do any mistake, first we should make them understand what is their mistake and the result of the mistake and we should take promise from them. After explaining them then also if they are doing same mistake then we should show them stick. This is applicable for the teaching our kids.
this is true that if we keep on beating our children for small things then the children won't have any fear and they become so rough that they feel though i make mistake i just get beating which am habituated. so I dont need to fear about anything. so i will do as i like.this is the attitude they obtain due to our beating.
so while dealing with children we think twice and behave with them.

Sarala great.Infew days ago the famous actor Anupam kher said that he was rewarded once by his father when he had failed in one exam and thus he overcame the fear of failure.

We should always say to our kid, "If you don't do what we say, I will buy a stick of you". Most probably, she will obey us. The day which we bring the stick, I think the kid's fear will be gone.

My best strategy is, if she don't have food or not willing to take a bath, I will say, I will switch off Cartoon network. She obeys me. :laugh:

wow

How old is your daughter?

4 years studying in LKG. She is really addicted to CHOTTA BHEEM :(

haahhahah

Well, Children are like flowers, if we treat them with love, then they grow very well

Yes,allow them to be free yar...for how long all of us will be in problems? we women being daughter,sister,wife,daughter in law and mother is always in confusion with relations and struck with problems

let our kids be free from all troubles and enjoy.

I had used to teach students both with stivk and love .I teach them lesson s with love and when i had to make them learn the lessons i used to scold them also.

Kick and carrot both are needed for grooming children. Actually stick is not to teach. This is for discipline. You need to teach with love in an interesting manner. Good teaching methods do not need stick.

Stick needs be used some times for enforcing discipline. A child must know the reason for getting stick. This should not be angrily but in cool mind. Punishment should be uniform for act of indiscipline. For example, using abusive language or insulting elders should be reason for punishment. Punishment should be neither too severe nor very lenient as this will defeat the purpose.

Children should have a fear of stick in mind, even if parents don't use them . It will prompt them from having bad habits.

I don't believe, if we beat our kid, he will be good and does his duty 100% apt.

Now a days children need some times stick many times we need to told them by love only.

I think, in schools, now a days, teachers are restricted from using sticks.

I don't know whether it will prove worth for children.

Sandhya now a days the teachers we are having with less knowledge and no patience.

1 year or so, I heard about an incident in Delhi(not sure) which really shocked me.

As a punishment, teacher asked the boy (below 10 years) to stand outside the class in sun.
After 5-10 minutes, boy fell down and died. He could not withstand the summer.

What a teacher was he, who punished a little child in such a way! At that time, I really want to kill that teacher. :angry:

Many incidents have occurred in India where teachers became cause for children's death.

Yes you are right many incidents we are seeing now a days this is the teachers fault for not teaching a good education.

I don't have a child but my small brothers and sisters don't have any fear of scolding or beating...now a days you need to be your child's friend rather than a dictator.

Not only they become careless about stick and the one who is doing so but they will become more rude and and would behave in absolutely indifferent manner.

Not only they become careless about stick and the one who is doing so but they will become more rude and and would behave in absolutely indifferent manner.

How do you teach your child?