Whom should a girl select?

if the guy she loves is good at heart and loves her equally then no doubt she should choose him and parents must understand this

Of course parents, there is no substitute of parents.They give us birth and helps to be a human beings after a great sacrifice.We can not get back them if we loose them.Lovers can be available after lost.

If her parents are not much affectionate to her and the lover is so caring then she should choose her lover.If her parents love her so much then she should choose her parents.anyhow everything depends on the situation.

Parents and lover are not substitutes. She has to make a choice between lovers or her lover and one arranged by parents. The issue may be of a groom other than lover selected by parents. If she loves very much, she may revolt and choose her lover. Otherwise, she may accept her parents' choice.

oops i completely misread the question...yes i too agree that there is no substitute for parents as you can a new partner but not new parents...n please try n ignore my previous post.

If a boy is good enough,loves the girl very much,and if he is capable to handle her in all good and bad situations,conditions and incidents,then Girl,should choose a boy.
Parents just wants that girl should be happy and if they will see that her child's husband is good enough,then Parents would definitely Understand and accept that boy.

I think what Ronark is saying is almost correct.

[quote]If a boy is good enough,loves the girl very much,and if he is capable to handle her in all good and bad situations,conditions and incidents,then Girl,should choose a boy.
Parents just wants that girl should be happy and if they will see that her child's husband is good enough,then Parents would definitely Understand and accept that boy.[/quote]

Very true and justified answer.

If a boy is good enough,loves the girl very much,and if he is capable to handle her in all good and bad situations,conditions and incidents,then Girl,should choose a boy.
Parents just wants that girl should be happy and if they will see that her child's husband is good enough,then Parents would definitely Understand and accept that boy.

I totally agree with your answer roar...
it depends upon situation....

We cannot treasure the love of parents and lover.So she should convince her parents

Parents are the first friends to all of us. If the boy is good in all,then the parents wont oppose.

of course parents....when you have your family support there is nothing better than that.....

If there is an option for a girl to choose either her parents or her lover, whom should she choose? What is your opinion?

If girl and boy both loves each other and are ready to spend their remaining life with each other, then definitely they should convince their parents and marry each other and live happily.

The girl must choose the 80 %parents and 20% lover.First priority is given to parents only.There are many lovers outside who will care more than the present lover.

People don't actually fall in love , they are in love with the concept of love. So most of the time what people call "love" is infatuation or mere attraction. And parents can never be substituted, selfless love can be given only by parents.

Now a days the love is a word to have the sex towards opposite sex.

I want to discuss this forgotten topic once again since Valentine month is smiling at us at Boddunan's door step. More than 90% answers supported Parents. But I am 100% sure ...there are some hidden persons(Chupa rustham) in our group, who had either got their life partner through love marriage or waiting with his/her for parents' approval. Am I not right?

Why can't they share their love, how their marriage occurred with/without parents' consent, interesting incidents relating to this.....? I know, there are many such people in our group.

Please share a few words with us when that special month is to arrive soon.

I also had love marriage.I went and taken her away and married in aarya samaj.There is lot of issues happened for us.We went to policestation and hrc also to save our love.

The girl must choose the 80 %parents and 20% lover.First priority is given to parents only.There are many lovers outside who will care more than the present lover.

What to say now sashi?
Hi hi..... :cheer:
I know many people are still hiding. Please come out and tell, "Whom should she select"

Why are you people hiding your love?

Even now we don't have support from any one.We both are living a happy life with our salary only and saving money also.