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But this is not correct in all situations.With out our problems some times we cant get advices.

This wont apply for everybody. Ti depends upon whom you are sharing

i am not being rude.... but this is a good advice to one of my friends here...

This is not correct in all situations. you have to share your problems with that person, whom you think can help you or can give advice to you

maybe you guys are right.....i am a person who keeps my personal problems to myself...

maybe you guys are right.....i am a person who keeps my personal problems to myself...

Even i dont discuss my problems with anyone.

I think sharing problems with others is good .There may be any sollution.But there are many problems which can not be shared.It depends upon situation.

The advice is more appropriate for real life friends. Here we are connected only online and hardly know one another personally. So, there is no harm in seeking solution of personal problems. All are helpful here.

Deepak,

It is adviced by health expects to share even a very small problem to acheive happiness. We know that by sharing problems they wont be solved but lot of heart attacks or stress problem occur due to these problems only which keep on straining our mind. So, sharing a personal problem is not at all harmful unless the person whom you are discussing with is the subject of problem.
This advice is not applicable in all cases. Note: even i dont share my personal problems with everyone but sometime it is very hard to bare the problem unless they are not share.

Deepak,

It is adviced by health expects to share even a very small problem to acheive happiness. We know that by sharing problems they wont be solved but lot of heart attacks or stress problem occur due to these problems only which keep on straining our mind. So, sharing a personal problem is not at all harmful unless the person whom you are discussing with is the subject of problem.
This advice is not applicable in all cases. Note: even i dont share my personal problems with everyone but sometime it is very hard to bare the problem unless they are not share.

thankyou rajani.. that is a nice explanation you have given here.

Deepak can you tell to whom did you giving this advice. who is that person?

This is not 100% true, My friend.

Some true friends really help-out us in any difficulty. At least they give us good suggestion.This is my experience.

This is not 100% true, My friend.

Some true friends really help-out us in any difficulty. At least they give us good suggestion.This is my experience.

you are lucky to have many reliable friends...everyone might not have the same luxury as you have....

Deepak can you tell to whom did you giving this advice. who is that person?

i dont want to say openly. I think that that person might have understood it, as that person have replied here.....

now i think it is evident to everyone who it is....

No not at all.

Deepak this is not good every one will have problems.About who you are talking i think that person is not having friends so that person shared with us thinking that we are friends.

Deepak you method of not sharing problem with others is un healthy. because if you keep everything in your mind and suffer then you cannot concentrate on anything and you will be depressed. So sharing problems with others is best one, due to sharing we will get solutions and pace from others

Deepak this is not good every one will have problems.About who you are talking i think that person is not having friends so that person shared with us thinking that we are friends.

sasikanth...it was never my intention to blame/hurt anyone. I gave my opinion regarding this topic....asking advice about family problems in the internet is never my cup of tea.

Deepak you method of not sharing problem with others is un healthy. because if you keep everything in your mind and suffer then you cannot concentrate on anything and you will be depressed. So sharing problems with others is best one, due to sharing we will get solutions and pace from others

you are correct...problems need to be shared....to whom you share it is the question here....it has to be to some one who youbelieve in...who knows you...who understands you and not to some guys sitting infront of computer and typing like me....never share your personal problems with those guys....share only the commmon topics...

sarala deepak is also right you must not post your personal life in front of unknown people.