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Most of the teenagers fall in love

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Most of the teenagers fall in love due to the lack of love at home. If they are treated very goodly at home. how much love they need has been given by their parents then most of the teenager won't love.They leave everything to their parents. IF they love any girl or a boy they will surely inform to their parents.but what is happening now a days. As children are becoming teenager parents are becoming strict with great restrictions then obviously the love from the parents won't reach their children. and even children will be afraid to share anything and they search for some to share.IF it is opposite sex then they will fall in love as the amount of love they need from their parents they are getting that from the love.But due to their afraid they won't even intimate in home and they run and get marry. When such things happens parents should not blame their children as mistake is parents only.So friends never make your children miss you or they feel afraid of you. be good to them, understand them. you behave a friend with them. then no children will cheat their parents.IF they love also they will surely tell their parents and if their parents wont agree, they even may give much value to their parents as their parents love them so they will surely sacrifice. but if parents always torturer their children with lot of restrictions then children will go in wrong way.

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well said sarala . This is the common problem of most of the teenagers that they are ignored by their parents.
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Correct sarala the teenagers are falling in love due to lack of love from thier parents.The parents are busy in the money printing for their children but forgetting they are unable to give love to them.
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U
It is very common problem and every parent should share their love equally to avoid this problem.
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This type of cases are increasing day be day many are edicting to bad habits with out parents care.
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I agree with Sarala. Whatever you have written is a fact. I would like to add a situation behind falling in love at teenage.

If one of the friend is in love, he/ she pushes other friend to make a boy friend/ girl friend just for fun. Now it has become fashion. If you don' have relation, people look differently at you. They gossip - "may be the girl is wrong, or she is not normal, or may be she is ugly, etc.".
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yes, devyani. your situation is correct


Even parents never treat all their children equally. they treat one child with more love and the other child as a servant. this hurt the heart of the child. and that child search for love then that child finds a companion and if it is opposite sex then they will surely fall in love
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Parents is not careful about their child It is not correct.This age is like that to get everything in hand without fear and adventurous.
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U
yes the boy or girl which are not interested in falling love .people look down on them .
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Parents are not looking about their children what they are doing.They are not taking any care about them.
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U
Well said Sarala, I agree with you. There should be a good and healthy relationship between the children and their parents so that they don't have to go outside for the sake of getting loved.
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If food is not good at home then only we goto hotel right. in the same way if we wont get sufficient love then we divert ourselves towards the love which is showed for us.I feel I want to council each and every parent. If it is not possible when am alive then after death i want to see which parents are not good with their children and teach them a lesson
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Most of the parents are very strict, the think why they are showing affection at childhood is to get their jobs done, not all parents are like that, some may be ok.
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If food is not good at home then only we goto hotel right. in the same way if we wont get sufficient love then we divert ourselves towards the love which is showed for us.I feel I want to council each and every parent. If it is not possible when am alive then after death i want to see which parents are not good with their children and teach them a lesson


that is a good example of the topic here.most of the teenagers falls in love because of the age.during teenage everyone feels attracted to the opposite sex and hence a bit of affection from a boy/girl can change your life.
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So parents should take care of their children though they are busy. Everyday atleast 2 hours they should spend with their children happily
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The only thing that stays is love - be it in teen age, middle age or old age!!!
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Its high time that both parents and children understand each other and maintain a healthier relationship. In this way both the groups will be able to understand each other and things would remain under control....!
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Perhaps truth lies in the fact that parents and their sons or daughters relationships are heavily influenced by societal factors and developments!
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Feeling attracted or infatuated towards the opposite sex is a very very normal and natural process that occurs during the teen years. Instead of scolding their children and prohibiting them to talk with others will make them confused about their own feelings and may result in wayward behavior. Instead, they should to children about their feelings, questions about sexuality and helping them to understand and analyze their own feelings, this will prevent the youngsters falling in love (?) with wrong people!
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I agree with kalyani, that due to gap between parents , the lack of love and affection from parents and the scolding from the parents for every aspect make the teeners feel bad, so at that situation if they find any one showing affection they turn towards that person, if that person is opposite sex then they will feel that is love. and finally this results to disasters
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I agree with Sarala.But the main cause behind this problem is parenting.Today parent's are unable to connect with their teens. Parent should try to understand the teens psychology and they should try to think like that.Then they are able to find the solution.Most of the teenager think that Love and physical attraction are the same.They don't know the actual meaning of love.Because they don't get love from their parents.All the things are artificial in today's lifestyle, even our relations also.So only the solutions to this problem is to win trust from your teens,so that teens are able to discuss their problem and feelings with their parent.
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