should i choose love or arriange plz

I will say love marriage is better where both are known and familiar to each other.

This is a matter of personal choice rather than advice on these forums. Do what you like.

Every person has different thoughts, I would prefer arranged marriage, as said by many love is blind, there may be chances that we may select a wrong person. In arranged marriage parents will not decide blindly.

It depends and varies on individual's interest.In my point of view,I will go with arranged marriage.

You need to take your own decision about your life because it is you who is going to pass your life with your life partner. If you think the one whom you love is going to take care of you and vice-verse then surely I would suggest you go for it by revealing it to your parents and her parents.

On the contrary, if there is no one whom you love as of now and you are sure that your parents is going to find a suitable one for you with whom you can spend your life happily and peacefully, then surely you leave the decision upon them....

I agree with Ajay and also want to suggest that Love cum arranged would be good decision as no one will hurt in the process. However, if different castes and religion are involved then may be this is very difficult issue to solve. One have to choose either parents or lover.

Both Love and Arranged marriage are good.Which one you feel good and like , you choose. Both kind of marraiges have their advantages and disadvantages.So you need to think and take decision according to your mind and situation.

"WHAT YOUR HEART SAYS DO THAT"

According to my idea arrange marriage are very successful in the future life as compare to love marriage.

both have their advantages and disadvantages it depends on your interest and your family opinions.

It depends on your intrest how we can say about ur marriage.

Love marriage and arranged marriage deserve their values. So we cannot say particularly.

but i will tell you about them. If love marriage, there will be chance of understanding about life partner but there will be alot of struggle to convience elders.

If it is arranged marriage then there will be support of family members that is elders but it takes alot of time to adjust with the life partner choosed by our elders as we dont know about them

you should think from your heart what you want then decide.

i prefer you to go with arrange marriage.as u will have yor parents support and is of your decision about your lifepartner.

There will be parents support in both types of marriages but in arranaged marriage parents support will at the starting and in love marriage the parents support will be later

I faced the same situation. All of us would definately face such situation as this is age of marriage.
Actually I don't believe outsiders. Hence, there is no question of love. Regarding arrange marriage, my parents have told me to take decision of my own. I have grown up and I am well educated girl.
I can find out the truth and scrutinise the facts properly. In case of any help, definately my parents would help me. They are not going to force me for marriage. It is better not to marry rather than to marry an infidel or a criminal person.
In India love comes after marriage.

I faced the same situation. All of us would definately face such situation as this is age of marriage.
Actually I don't believe any outsiders. There is not question of love. Regarding arrange marriage, my parents have told to take decision of my own. I have grown up and well educated girl. Find out the truth and scrutinise the facts properly. In case of any help, definately my parents would help me. They are not going to force me for marriage. It is better not to marry rather than to marry an infidel or a criminal person.

You may come to know of infidelity or criminality of the spouse even after marriage. everyone is careful before marriage. This is like buying a commodity. You buy the best but later this may be detected as defective. You may go to consumer forum for commodity but what will you do about spouse.

I agree with you. In many cases, reality comes front after marriage. Such thing can only increase hatred rather than love.
This is 2011. People don't know meaning of love. People threat their spouse like a commodity.
I have a mind not to marry.

@Devyani

so you decided not to marry ?
How your parents accepted it.
I salute them. really. you are really thankful to god that you are blessed with a such a great and broadminded parents.

Always obey and take care of them

I think we need to know each other before arrange marriage to take decision but if you do not marry then life will be difficult in future so be marry do not think more life will never return back.

@santosh

Life is not only for marriage. there are alot of things which we can spend our life with that like doing inventions, treating orphan children , helping others etc