I think generally, to an extent, we should not care about what other people think or talk about ourselves as this often disturbs us and sometimes even mislead us to think and do what we normally should not. But as a human being we sometimes or in certain occasions we do tend to think about what people might think about our particular activity and it too has some positive effects overall in our lives...
The best way to deal with this is to take all this things casually and move along with one's life and do things which suits best to your minds without bothering much what people might think about it!!!
Ram
what you said is true to some extent but i will not agree that critizing is good to become perfect person as all cannot take criticism positively and sometime without any fault people critize us just for fun.
I feel that all of us just think we should not care about what others say but it is human teendency to care if people attack them with comments or criticism. :unsure:
We all are living in a society or in civilizan. It is necessary to think what others are thinking. But sometimes we can ignore them. It depends on situation.