I believe that parents should help children grow and groom them according to their natural interests and aptitude and not thrust own views or ambitions. Many parents expect children to do what they themselves could not. Let children select their study courses and job according to their own interests. Parents must not nourish any expectations. These cause unnecessary tension or frustration in parents as well as children.
I want them to be good human beings first, they should be well educated, well mannered and successful in life, and they should respect elders no matter who the person is
Expecting anything from anyone is selfish especially from children. But as a humanbeing we expect good at studies, building a nice career and to be a good citizen.