How a parent should be with their children?

Our elders say parents are nothing but lively god. But some parents be very rude with their children. They think that they are doing good with their children by behaving rudely but this leads to many problems in their children which they never know.
Thats why some children be very fearful with parents. So due to this fear they never share their happiness, sadness and problem or anything with their parents. They search some other person to share.
To my view , I feel parents should be very good with their children. I am not telling them to leave their kids ass they want. I am telling how to be with kids in present generation.

Now let us know How to be with our children according to their age levels.

till 3 years kids will be attached much with their mother.

So let us study about this from 5 years age of the children.

5 - 12 years : Parents should be like a kid when the kid needed. Like they should play with them , they should behave as they are of the kid age. Am not telling that dont be like a parent.but at the same time you be like a parent but not scolding, whatever mistake the child do, tell them cooly , make them understand what is the advantage and disadvantage of the mistake. Never try to beat your children. If the kid is not at all listern then punish that to at last chance.
But mostly try to correct them.Dont scold them.

12 -30 + :

Try to be like a friend. Give them energy by encouraging them.Never scold your children at any cost. Try to inspire your children . but never use slang and scold your children. If the children is not behaving well then you can punish them or scold them. but with out doing wrong and you are scolding it is really bad on parents part.

So friends i just let parents know how they are hurting their children by scolding and by discouraging.

I hope you understand and if you are behaving rudely towards your children ,I wish you change your attitude by reading this forum post .

thank you