Why we ask our partner to do simple things even if we can?

No answer...
let me tell you a simple thing that I always ask my hubby to do....
To break a coconut.....
I can do it...If I practise, I can become expert. yet I always ask him to do so...to get perfect 2 pieces.

Asking for help from spouse only to let feel importance. If I do everything my self even without telling spouse, she or he (whatever be) will feel ignored.

That is why many ask spouse to help even in silliest things.

I just tell my hubby to help me in my household work.I know I can do that but still I tell him to do to get some help and it bring enjoyment for both of us too.

I just tell my hubby to help me in my household work.I know I can do that but still I tell him to do to get some help and it bring enjoyment for both of us too.

Also gives more time for being together :) :) :)

Asking for help from spouse only to let feel importance. If I do everything my self even without telling spouse, she or he (whatever be) will feel ignored.

That is why many ask spouse to help even in silliest things.

Many things, since he do for me I just not learn to do :P
It may be simple things. Yet I want to depend on him, like a small child. Sometimes he likes.....but if he is in hurry, he may ask me to do also. :cheer: :cheer:

Give me some answers please!!!!!

I think Gulshan ji has explained it well. It all depends on our attitude ... if we are firm not to take anyone's help then maybe in life we feel lonely after sometime but it doesn't mean that yo have to blindly depend on someone for doing simple things...

I think Gulshan ji has explained it well. It all depends on our attitude ... if we are firm not to take anyone's help then maybe in life we feel lonely after sometime but it doesn't mean that yo have to blindly depend on someone for doing simple things...

actually, we want our dear ones only to do simple things for me. Have you ever noticed?

I think Gulshan ji has explained it well. It all depends on our attitude ... if we are firm not to take anyone's help then maybe in life we feel lonely after sometime but it doesn't mean that yo have to blindly depend on someone for doing simple things...

actually, we want our dear ones only to do simple things for me. Have you ever noticed?

You may think it simple but have you every asked them ???? :P

I think Gulshan ji has explained it well. It all depends on our attitude ... if we are firm not to take anyone's help then maybe in life we feel lonely after sometime but it doesn't mean that yo have to blindly depend on someone for doing simple things...

actually, we want our dear ones only to do simple things for me. Have you ever noticed?

You may think it simple but have you every asked them ???? :P

I want to hear it from men's mouth :woohoo: :woohoo:

Some times, I may be a bit lazy too!!!

Why should i hide it from you people????

Let me try to bring some interest in you people!!!! :dry: :dry: :dry: :dry:

Sometimes, I may keep a little laziness in me so that my hubby may do that thing for me. Simply I love it...though it may make him angry also!!!! It's a sweet feeling of dependency, only a few persons are able to realise it.

I think 90% of husbands want their wives to search things for them. It's a strange happiness and a feeling of dominance and togetherness too....