Positive thinking and using mind power to change our lives ...

With self - esteem injected in the formative years in a child one can arrest the destructive mind set.

Whenever I hear someone using negative terms, I feel disappointed but then I feel that my feeling will lead me to negativeness. I try to make them belive that nothing is impossible if you think the right way, just grab the opportunities and be there where you deserve.

Positive and negative are just two sides of the same coin. There can be no positive unless there is negative side of this. What we need to live well is to just recognize our potential. Every one differs from others. No amount of positive thinking will substantially enhance your mental and physical efficiency. You must understand yourself and discover your positive as well as negative traits. Then you may benefit by using your best. Any amount of positive thinking will not convert your negative traits to positive and the positive to negative. Understand yourself and your real self confidence comes to surface.

Positive and negative are just two sides of the same coin. There can be no positive unless there is negative side of this. What we need to live well is to just recognize our potential. Every one differs from others. No amount of positive thinking will substantially enhance your mental and physical efficiency. You must understand yourself and discover your positive as well as negative traits. Then you may benefit by using your best. Any amount of positive thinking will not convert your negative traits to positive and the positive to negative. Understand yourself and your real self confidence comes to surface.

I agree , just thinking is not enough, one needs to analyse and understand ones own weaknesses and strength, only then can we see any positive results..

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Yes thats true ! There is no need to be a daredevil with regard to evrything but there should be a balance in everythig we do in life and welcome any changes instead of remaining stuck in a grove all the time...I have an uncle who has never gone outside Mangalore district because he cannot live without boiled rice konji in the morning and boiled rice for lunch, that too the same muddy reddish brown variety that is grown here ! I find that too much...But he doesn't seem to regret not having gone anywhere ! :huh:

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Yes thats true ! There is no need to be a daredevil with regard to evrything but there should be a balance in everythig we do in life and welcome any changes instead of remaining stuck in a grove all the time...I have an uncle who has never gone outside Mangalore district because he cannot live without boiled rice konji in the morning and boiled rice for lunch, that too the same muddy reddish brown variety that is grown here ! I find that too much...But he doesn't seem to regret not having gone anywhere ! :huh:

Change is the only constant. Wisdom lies in adapting to the change. Those who refuse to change will be left behind.

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Yes thats true ! There is no need to be a daredevil with regard to evrything but there should be a balance in everythig we do in life and welcome any changes instead of remaining stuck in a grove all the time...I have an uncle who has never gone outside Mangalore district because he cannot live without boiled rice konji in the morning and boiled rice for lunch, that too the same muddy reddish brown variety that is grown here ! I find that too much...But he doesn't seem to regret not having gone anywhere ! :huh:

I agree but some times old values are still applicable and a change may spoil the fun. But change according to situation is alright.

Change is the only constant. Wisdom lies in adapting to the change. Those who refuse to change will be left behind.

Negativity is the result of fear.Fear of failure, Fear of rejection. Only confidence in a person can thwart the negativity.

Thats very true ! We start our life with negativity, No is the irst word that registers in a childs mind since he/she is perpetually being cautioned against something or the other, so it is but natural that they grwo with fear and insecurity...

For the same reason, he becomes a cynic. Doubts his own shadow. He looks at Everyone as if they are scheming against him.

Yes thats true ! There is no need to be a daredevil with regard to evrything but there should be a balance in everythig we do in life and welcome any changes instead of remaining stuck in a grove all the time...I have an uncle who has never gone outside Mangalore district because he cannot live without boiled rice konji in the morning and boiled rice for lunch, that too the same muddy reddish brown variety that is grown here ! I find that too much...But he doesn't seem to regret not having gone anywhere ! :huh:

I agree but some times old values are still applicable and a change may spoil the fun. But change according to situation is alright.

Change is the only constant. Wisdom lies in adapting to the change. Those who refuse to change will be left behind.

Positive thinking makes one see the brighter part of life. Mind power will make you walk towards the light.

Yes, from childhood most of our parents make us know that we may not succeed. But atleast we have to program our children in a very positive manner, I mean how success comes, what we have to do for that, how positive we should think, like that

Yes, from childhood most of our parents make us know that we may not succeed. But atleast we have to program our children in a very positive manner, I mean how success comes, what we have to do for that, how positive we should think, like that

Parents should set an example to their children. They should be taught right from the formative years, everything has to be earned. Nothing comes and falls in their lap without effort.

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

Success may not always come but what is important is we tried and learnt something from that very effort....Thats why it is important to teach children while young to accept things as they are , so that they can strive to better themselves ..

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

Success may not always come but what is important is we tried and learnt something from that very effort....Thats why it is important to teach children while young to accept things as they are , so that they can strive to better themselves ..

A truth. Make the children learn that one should earn their stripes right from the formative years. No one earned excellence without shedding sweat.

This is true that sometimes we don't go for the things as we have a fear that we won't be able to accomplish that task but we should understand that we cannot judge without trying that task. this is just a fear that we should always try to overcome in our life to get success in what we do. :)

Success may not always come but what is important is we tried and learnt something from that very effort....Thats why it is important to teach children while young to accept things as they are , so that they can strive to better themselves ..

Excatly its not necessary that we will get success in whatever we do sometimes there are other reasons too which make us fail despite of doing our efforts but one must realise it where we went wrong so that we may do it better next time. :)

Most people tend to associate success with money and luxury which just shows a materialistic bent of mind. Of course, that is also a yardstick of success but just a fraction of it only....When an individual is able to overcome this mindset, he or she will be happy with every little thing in life and this is where positive thinking and using mind power helps.When we begin to analyse our actions deeply we also become aware how important or unimportant our actions are...