above 12 years of girls to avoid bike ride with boys

By doing this nothing will be beneficial. Actually this a fault of system. Everybody has some duties, parents, society,etc.

yes, it is a collective responsibility. prevention is better than cure.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

sir,
it is typing error. it is applicable to opposite sex youth.

am not sure, I have understood this thread or not.

Before marriage, I used to sit one sided in bike. After marriage, I got job in TVM city and I and my hubby used to go together everyday. But my sitting procedure makes him angry. He says, it's risky to ride through busy city. So, he asked me to sit on bike two-sided. But I was a shy girl and I denied his words. Then after months, he told my parents and they three together started my new procedure.
Now, if I see any lady on back seat with a baby in her lap, sitting one-sided I feel scared, particularly if it's city. Now I feel, two-sided sitting is best in our busy cities to avoid risk and dangers. Afterall, the person sitting behind is not wearing a helmet

Question is not to ride with cross leg or same sided, question is about safety and culture.

it is applicable to college youth who are not aware of consequences. couple of cases came to light. parents have permitted a boy and girl to go to college on same motor bicycle since they are cousins. but the relation ship went to wrong direction. this trend must be checked by elders.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

Horse is old thing but I just wanted to stress that sitting on bike is just like riding a horse as in olden times. So what is wrong in sitting with legs on both sides.
It is inconvenient for women in sari/skirt and men in Dhoti to sit with legs both side But with trousers/ jeans anyone can ride a bike with legs on both sides.

it is applicable to college youth who are not aware of consequences. couple of cases came to light. parents have permitted a boy and girl to go to college on same motor bicycle since they are cousins. but the relation ship went to wrong direction. this trend must be checked by elders.

It may be exceptional but yes the parents should be careful.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

Horse is old thing but I just wanted to stress that sitting on bike is just like riding a horse as in olden times. So what is wrong in sitting with legs on both sides.
It is inconvenient for women in sari/skirt and men in Dhoti to sit with legs both side But with trousers/ jeans anyone can ride a bike with legs on both sides.

The question is not of being convenient or not. The question is of changing culture. I am in my early 30s. I still remember, until about 10 years ago, I hardly could get to see girls and women in pants sitting on a bike like a horse. But things have really changed. I guess, that is what Yuddandisivasubramanyamji is trying to stress.

it is applicable to college youth who are not aware of consequences. couple of cases came to light. parents have permitted a boy and girl to go to college on same motor bicycle since they are cousins. but the relation ship went to wrong direction. this trend must be checked by elders.

That is one thing what you mentioned. By the way, there are many more things that the parents should take care of, especially of their kids who are new to college life.

It totally depends upon those boys and girls to avoid these.But we cannot change them.The parents must be careful regarding their child,

It totally depends upon those boys and girls to avoid these.But we cannot change them.The parents must be careful regarding their child,

That is one thing I would like to stress. It should be the responsibility of the boys and girls to behave themselves responsibly in the society. They should see to it that they aren't bringing shame to the family.

you got my point. recent incidents/events are shocking due to slackness in correction, this is due to generation gap since 1980 to till now. rapid change in nano technology and privatization of education drooped the quality of life. how ever the improvement complicated the life style in every aspect.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

Women wearing sari only can sit with both legs in one side otherwise it's safer to sit cross legged. Chances of falling down are far lesser and balance of the bike remains better.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

Women wearing sari only can sit with both legs in one side otherwise it's safer to sit cross legged. Chances of falling down are far lesser and balance of the bike remains better.

Yes,that is the plus point of sitting that way. However, for years and years women have been sitting that way - legs in one side and how many cases have we heard specifically of women falling due to sitting in that posture.

you got my point. recent incidents/events are shocking due to slackness in correction, this is due to generation gap since 1980 to till now. rapid change in nano technology and privatization of education drooped the quality of life. how ever the improvement complicated the life style in every aspect.

Please Sir, do include the quotes of the person or thoughts you are referring to when responding. Otherwise, we don't know whom you are referring to.

I don't understand what is wrong in sitting crossed legged on a bike. You can sit only this way in a bike. How would you ride a horse. That would also be similar.

Two things -
1. One doesn't often need to ride a horse.
2. There's a good option to sit on the bike with both legs on the same side, as we had seen over many years. Women are forgetting this good old style of sitting on the bike.

Women wearing sari only can sit with both legs in one side otherwise it's safer to sit cross legged. Chances of falling down are far lesser and balance of the bike remains better.

Yes,that is the plus point of sitting that way. However, for years and years women have been sitting that way - legs in one side and how many cases have we heard specifically of women falling due to sitting in that posture.

I have heard of one, while my mother's sari rolled in wheel and both my parents fell down. And them women have started wearing such clothes only recently therefore taking full advantage. By the way sitting does not make difference but intentions do. Do you think sitting one sided may not bring those feelings or every one who sits 'legs in one side' goes to temples only. ;)

Sitting on bike is not a issue. But they must take care while riding.

Sometimes their behavior is not good.