Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
suni51 wrote:
By the way women are capable of earning more than pocket money who know their job. There are sites available who mediate to provide women/men earn @big $$$ per hour that would make an offline big earner blush. If they have the expertise in certain fields should go for it.

This is something new, can you enlighten us a bit more?

I hope you would not want me the names of those sites here but in case you are interested you can ask me about those sites through email. You are one of them who can do it.


Wow you are offering these sites only for women or for others also.

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
suni51 wrote:
By the way women are capable of earning more than pocket money who know their job. There are sites available who mediate to provide women/men earn @big $$$ per hour that would make an offline big earner blush. If they have the expertise in certain fields should go for it.

This is something new, can you enlighten us a bit more?

I hope you would not want me the names of those sites here but in case you are interested you can ask me about those sites through email. You are one of them who can do it.


Wow you are offering these sites only for women or for others also.

Women should be self dependent.They should do job.They must indulge themselves in any kind of work which suits them.They should no longer have to depend on their spouse or any other family member.

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
suni51 wrote:
By the way women are capable of earning more than pocket money who know their job. There are sites available who mediate to provide women/men earn @big $$$ per hour that would make an offline big earner blush. If they have the expertise in certain fields should go for it.

This is something new, can you enlighten us a bit more?

I hope you would not want me the names of those sites here but in case you are interested you can ask me about those sites through email. You are one of them who can do it.


Wow you are offering these sites only for women or for others also.

I am not offering any sites to any one, men or women. If you did read Kalyani's post you should know what I mean. This is a suggestion to some one who is capable of doing it.

Women should be self dependent.They should do job.They must indulge themselves in any kind of work which suits them.They should no longer have to depend on their spouse or any other family member.

So true, I love this statement. I am one who always advocate this theory and try to pursue women to do some thing that brings them name and fame. However they should indulge in activities they are capable to handle well. Dong things in a hectic way helps no body's cause.

Every woman definitely needs to have, what you called, some spending money of her own. I know from my mum and many of my aunts etc. that they save a little bit of money from their monthly budgets and use that in times of need or to buy something special for the family. The best example is the story behind the foundation of Infosys - Sudha Murthy, wife of Narayana Murthy did exactly that and when he wanted to quit his job but was uncertain how to finance his project, she came up with 10,000 rupees she had been squirreling away! :)

Thats very true Kalyani, I too havee great admiration for Sudha Murthy, who inspite of all the wealth, still teaches at Christ College in Bangalore and is totally committed to everything she does...They are an exemplary couple !

There are many families who do not prefer working women. I also agree with what Manohar has written above and just started this thread. Similar type of thread was also posted by Sandhyaji.
It depends on person as well as family. We all have different types of problem. We should adjust ourself accordingly. Girl and her family should at first seek open minded family and then get her married. This won't create problems in her career making. Career is more important. Financial dependence or independence hardly matters. People who are egoistic, thinks likewise. Good character girl will never marry a man for his wealth or money. On the other hand, it is responsibility of man to look after each and every needs of his family, be it financial or social.

Every woman definitely needs to have, what you called, some spending money of her own. I know from my mum and many of my aunts etc. that they save a little bit of money from their monthly budgets and use that in times of need or to buy something special for the family. The best example is the story behind the foundation of Infosys - Sudha Murthy, wife of Narayana Murthy did exactly that and when he wanted to quit his job but was uncertain how to finance his project, she came up with 10,000 rupees she had been squirreling away! :)

Thats very true Kalyani, I too havee great admiration for Sudha Murthy, who inspite of all the wealth, still teaches at Christ College in Bangalore and is totally committed to everything she does...They are an exemplary couple !

Yes, Usha! I simply adore them both! They are just so down-to-earth and believe in the right values and more importantly, they practice what they preach, unlike so many biggie-wiggies that we know!