before answering i want to ask usha ji to put the post under right topics as if this is not related to news or current affairs but it is posted under that only.
and yes thats true that now a days its not easy to find a good reliable and lasting friends as now even people do friendship also for their benefit.hard to trust anyone.
It's a changed thread yaar...under my request :)
Since no provisions for members to delete a thread, I just asked her to edit the question and add a new thread. You know, we can't edit category here :dry:
ok di i was not aware of that. actually usha ji can do one thing she can edit in the first post and can write their that due to this-this problem the thread is under this category so that no one will ask again like i did..
No need yaar...
I have done the same mistake many times!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
So all is well that ends well, and we can carry on with the discussion..Times have changed and it is a much more self oriented and selfish society where every relationship has taken a toll including friendship...
before answering i want to ask usha ji to put the post under right topics as if this is not related to news or current affairs but it is posted under that only.
and yes thats true that now a days its not easy to find a good reliable and lasting friends as now even people do friendship also for their benefit.hard to trust anyone.
It's a changed thread yaar...under my request :)
Since no provisions for members to delete a thread, I just asked her to edit the question and add a new thread. You know, we can't edit category here :dry:
ok di i was not aware of that. actually usha ji can do one thing she can edit in the first post and can write their that due to this-this problem the thread is under this category so that no one will ask again like i did..
No need yaar...
I have done the same mistake many times!!!! :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:
So all is well that ends well, and we can carry on with the discussion..Times have changed and it is a much more self oriented and selfish society where every relationship has taken a toll including friendship...
exactly.now you become friends stay till you are together and the moment you depart the next moment you will forget who was she..this has happened with me many a times even if i have tried to contact the person she refused saying she is a little busy will chat later and till now no phone calls.so now i guess every relation has turned into a give and take one.i dont know whats reason-money,time ,their nature or going faster..
The best way to handle friendship is by not having any expectations.It should be a mutual feeling.I have a friend who I have known for nearly 26 years and we dont meet often either, just keep in touch through messages and phone and at the same time I have another friend who lives close to my place and who I meet often.I have the same regard for both of them....
In today's materialistic world, the overriding considerations are all gains of any kind and most of our friendship too are dominated by them. A very bitter truth however hard that might be,has got to be accepted!
We need not look for friends in true sense of the term. We are too busy for friendship. It is best to dwell on relation with neighbors, colleagues, associates and all those we come in contact in daily routine. Some of these may be good friends. Too much intimacy is as undesirable as bitter relations.
We need not look for friends in true sense of the term. We are too busy for friendship. It is best to dwell on relation with neighbors, colleagues, associates and all those we come in contact in daily routine. Some of these may be good friends. Too much intimacy is as undesirable as bitter relations.
That's what matters in the end, the trust and relations. As soon as demands come in between or expectations, it goes bad. As we say "Jyada gud par cheente lagtate hain"
@kiran8