Self-realization is a process where 'self' is central.It is surely one of the most difficult processes as our powers are limited and we need help of external agencies to realize our true powers.Only exceptional mortals can claim to have it!
I agree with that ! what we can do is to probably try to impartially analyse our days activities and make amends where necessary and also improve ourselves - this could be with respect our personality traits ,career or relationships ..
Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!
