Why peoples not able to maintain his love with his wife as compare to lover

Strange Question it is. Santhosh I do not understand if you have a lover then why do you marry other girl? Then you can't say her as lover.

agree with what has wrote sajeetharan, .....but santosh kumar you make sure that you marry your lover.....




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Friend you are firing me directly. I am asking general question its not related to me.

I think its because, when with lover you have a chance of loosing,
With Wife the chances are rare... :(

@Santhosh

Yes am not asking you ! Even was speaking in general. It is a common thing, but your question was like that.

There are many reasons, if a person failed in his love and married another girl.

Santosh

I havent seen any difference between lover and wife's love till now except in case of love failure and married a girl due to some reasons..however in real life i saw every marriaged couple blaming each other even if they are lovers or not lovers before marriage.

I think persons attitude makes to do like that ..

Love with lover is natural and spontaneous. But love with wife is a duty cast by social system. This explains the whole matter.

In 2007, the Rajasthan High Court ruled that a man can’t sue his adulterous wife – but he can sue her lover for violating his ‘proprietary rights’ over his wife

Some have asked why one does not marry lover and if does not do son, this is not love.
Let me explain. It is not always possible to marry lover. Love recognizes no age, caste, status barrier. It may happen that a sixteen year old lad/ girl loves two year senior. But by the time the lover is fully educated and employed, the lover is already married to someone else. Also, the lovers may be separated by parents' transfer to another station. True love is when you are teenager. Teenage love is the first love and is unforgettable. But this will seldom turn in marriage. Then you have to adjust with another boy/ girl to whom you are married.

Nice explanation gulshan, yes you are right. I hope my love would be successful, it has to be.

sajeetharan wrote:
[quote]Nice explanation gulshan, yes you are right. I hope my love would be successful, it has to be.[/quote]

Wish you success in love and everything else- Sajeetharan.

If its lovers people dont take anything careless, because they know if they take it careless it will end up in breaking up, its not the same with wifes.