sajeetharan wrote:
[quote]but our generation's childeren dont listen what their parents says.they do all the things according to his will or desire
they think that their parents are old fashioned
they even dont like to walk/go with their parents anywhere.
they think that if they go with their parents what their frinds will think.this generation is too much selfish. when they start earning money they behave like their parents are useless. they forgot all the past memories of sacrifice of their parens which their parents did for them.[/quote]
Yes you are right SAjeetharan but i thing not all are same..still this generation people take each and every point of there parents in consideration and act according..I have seen some people who dont talk when the mother is blaming him or his wife with out reason...Hope this is another issue..Wife or mother.
I just gave an example but before follwing parents advise it is better to think whether it is good or bad in our own view..Ignoring parents is not humanity at all..That is really an extreme state which shouldnt be encouraged.
Nobody is always right. Parents also are not always right. They have their limitation. But they are also responsible to bring up children and guide them. If if some one is not right, he is to be conceded some authority. Parents also have such authority. Justice Sabharwal, former chief Justice had remarked- "We are not always right but we have final authority." Some one has to be given final authority. Parents have this.
The children must get care and guidance of parents during childhood irrespective of parents' level of understanding or talent. When children are a bit grown up, they must take their own decision while maintaining respect for parents.
G. K. Ajmani Tax consultant http://gkajmani-mystraythoughts.blogspot.com/
Parents are the only relation who always cares and thinks good for us. Sometimes they dump too many things on the children thinking to make the children more intelligent and excel in many fields. Sometimes they are not able to judge the capacity of their children and that's where mistakes happen.But most of the times they are correct.Even if they are wrong, if we tell our problems they will consider it and accept our suggestions.
