What would you do if someone takeaway your lover?

Lover is not an inanimate object like furniture that has been taken away by some one. the relations are temporary and subjective. If lover gone with some one, the relation simply ends. No need to bother.

Common dude!!!! Gulshan is right!!!!

If she/he has gone with own will, who are you to stop!!!! :laugh:

let them go to hell. go and pick next one

If you are ready to say that let them go to hell means you was not in love actually.

dont say that singh. If she/he ditches you then why you stick.

I think when person involve expectation from love then its not actual love. Actual love is you should be happy if your lover happy.

I don't think this to be a valid discussion....


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Deepti Everyone has his own interest so some person may love this topic some may not. So you response as per your interest. I did not force you to reply.

In my views, if he/she has gone to some other person by his/her will, then why one should bother about that person, who didn't bother about you.

If you want your lover to be happy and remain happy forever then let her/him take his/her own decisions. And one should not spoil his/her life thinking about that fellow.

I think Astha defined in very fantastic way. Keep it up I really hope for this type of answer.

I'm happy Santosh- You liked the way Astha explained. Style of expression differs from person to person. However, all have expressed the view that love is not a one way traffic. If your lover deserts you, there is no way other than to close the existing relation and go ahead. As some Urdu poet remarked- 'Tu hai harzai to apna bhi yahi daur sahi- Tu nahin, aur sahi- aur nahi- aur sahi' meaning- "If you are faithless, I shall do likewise- If not you- someone else- If not someone else- someone next"

You are right Gulshan
but in hindi

Train aur chhokari ke peeche nahi bhagne ka
Ek gai to doosari aati hai.

Very nice Santosh. If you run behind train, you get killed. Same if you run after a girl.

Running behind girl is dangerous for life. I think I remember one movie which is based on it that is "Kya Yahi Pyar Hai"