JUST BEFORE TO BEGIN, THINK BEFORE YOU ACT, DO WHAT YOU WANT TO DO BUT ACT WISELY.

LONELINESS, CAN A WORD BE SO HEAVY THAT IT CAN TELL US WE ARE LONELY? QUESTION YOURSELF BEFORE READING NEXT PAGES. I THINK YOU HAVE GOT AN ANSWER FROM THE INNER HEART, WHAT IT SAY’S? EITHER YES/NO RIGHT? , I TOLD THAT YOU HAVE GOT AN ANSWER FROM INNER HEART, DOESN’T LONELY PEOPLE HAVE IT? I SAY WHO DOESTNT HAVE? , EVERYONE DOES. LONELY IS JUST A FEEL WHICH WE WILL EXPERIENCE WHEN WE ARE SURROUNDED WITH EVERYONE BUT, WE ARE ISOLATED. THIS IS AN EXPERIENCE BECAUSE WHAT I BEILIEVE IS BEING ISOLATED MAKE YOU DIFFERENT, WHY? BECAUSE IT’S A FEEL WHICH TELLS US AGAIN AND AGAIN THAT SOME ARE REALLY WAITING FOR YOU. DON’T YOU FEEL IT? JUST BECAUSE SOMEONE IGNORES YOU OR BEING ISOLATED CANT REALLY MAKE US LONELY, WE OURSLEFS MAKE THAT HAPPEN BECAUSE EVERYTHING WORKS ON INDIVIDUAL THOUGHTS OF PERSON. THE THOUGHTS IN OUR MINDS PLAY A MAJOR ROLE, LET ME START WITH A STORY ….

A STORY, KARN WAS BORN TO THE TOP BUSSINESS MEN NAMED KEERTHAN, WHEN HE WAS BORN BEING HIS DAD HE WAS NOT AT ALL THERE FOR HIM OR HIS MOM AT THE HOSPITAL DUE TO HIS MATERIALISTIC LIFE SCHEDULES. MOM PASSED AWAY AFTER KARN BORN THIS MADE KEERTHAN TO PUT HIM IN HIS GRANDMOTHERS HOME, KARN BEING JUST BORN BABY CANT REALLY KNOW WHERE HE IS AND UPON THAT HE JUST KNEW HE WAS IN SAFER HANDS OF HIS GRANDMA. AFTER FEW YEARS, WHEN HE CAME TO PRIMARY SCHOOL HIS DAD KEERTHAN PUSHED HIM INTO BOARDING SCHOOL AT THE AGE OF 7. JUST THINK A BOY FROM THE BEGINNING NEVER GOT HIS DADS LOVE EITHER MOMS AFFECTION OR FRIENDS IN THE LIFE AND NOW BEING ISOLATED FROM FAMILY HE STAYS IN BOARDING SCHOOL UNTIL HE COMPLETES HIS DEGREE LIFE. KARN BEING STRONG KID HE WAS WITH HIMSELF ALL THE TIME WHEN HE WANTED SOMEONE AROUND TO GUIDE. HE BEING ALONE? REALLY? …. STOOD IN ALL TOUGH TIMES , CAME OUT FROM BAD CIRCUMSTENCES, ENJOYED THE MOMMENTS WITH HIMSELF, GUIDING HIMSELF AND SO ONN…. AND THEN ONE DAY WHEN HIS DAD IN HIS LAST DAYS APOLOGISES KARN FOR NOT ABLE TO GIVE HIM TIME, KARN BEING A STRONG PERSON REPLIED TO HIS DAD THAT “THANKS DAD FOR TEACHING TO BE HAPPY IN OUR OWN COMPANY”.

YUP, THIS WAS KARN STORY WHICH TELLS “LEARN TO BE HAPPY IN YOUR OWN COMPANY”.

LET ME TELL YOU ANOTHER STORY, THIS STORY STARTED WITH KAMALA AND KARTHIK, THEY BOTH WERE SO KIND HEARTED AND TRULY CARING PERSONALITIES GOT MARRIED. AFTER FEW YEARS THEY WILL HAVE A BOY BABY, THEY WILL NAME HIM AS KUSHAL. KAMALA AND KARTHIK BEING A CARING PARENTS THEY TOOK A GOOD CARE OF KUSHAL IN ALL THE TIME, KUSHAL AT THE AGE OF 6 IN HIS PRIMARY SCHOOL DAYS HE WAS NOT AT ALL WILLING TO MAKE ANY FRIENDS NEITHER WAS SPEAKING TO HIS MOM ABOUT HIS WILL OR WISHES. HE JUST WANTED TO BE ALONE MAY BE HE THINKS THAT THIS CAN MAKE HIM A DIFFERENT PERSON FROM OTHERS IN THOSE DAYS, SO PARENTS DIDN’T THINK MUCH THEY THOUGHT HE WILL MAKE UP. BUT, IN THE COMING DAYS HE LEFT THE FAMILY AND WENT AWAY FROM THEM AND STARTED TO STAY ALONE IN A ROOM, THIS WAS UNBEILIEVABLE FOR THEIR PARENTS. BUT CAN YOU JUST THINK WHAT ARE THE THOUGHTS COULD HAVE BEEN RUNNING IN KUSHALS MIND? BUT WHAT I SAY IS JUST THINK, IT WAS HIS CHOICE WHICH MADE HIM LIKE THAT APART FROM WHICH HE HAD EVRYTHING IN LIFE. JUST AFTER FEW DAYS HE MEETS HIS PARENTS ACCIDENTLY THEN, PARENTS APOLOGISES HIM FOR NOT TAKING GOOD CARE OF YOU IN THE BEIGINING DAYS, BUT HIS REPLY WAS “THANK GOD,I MET YOU OR ELSE I WOULD HAVE GONE TO HELL”.

WHAT A SURPRISE? OR REALISATION?..

SO? CONFUSED? LET ME HELP YOU, IS IT WAS JUST AN EXPRESSION OF AN EXPERIENCE? OR BEYOND THAT?.... WHAT I SAY IS KARN BEINGLE ALONE FROM THE BEGINNING BELIEVED HE IS ALONE AND NO ONE IS THERE FOR HIM BUT IN KUSHAL CASE EVERYONE WAS THERE FOR HIM LIKE FRIENDS, FAMILY. BUT WHAT KUSHAL WANTED WAS ONLY HIMSELF,BUT KARN WANTED TO BE WITH PEOPLE, SPEND TIME WITH THEM AND LAUGH, CHILL ENJOY LIKE OTHERS DO BUT HE HAD NO ONE AROUND HIM. THIS MADE HIM BELIEVE THAT HE IS ALONE. KUSHAL, BOY FROM A LOVELY FAMILY HE JUST IGNORED EVERYONES AFFECTIONS, RELATIONS, LOVE, CARE AND ATTENTION, AND WANTED NOONE FOR HIM IN LIFE. JUST HIM AND HIS WORK.WHAT DIFFERS IS THE EXPRESSION, INDIVIDUALS AT THE MOMMENT WHEN THEY NEED ANYTHING IT ISNT AVAILABLE WHEN THEY DOESN’T REQUIRED ANYTHING, YES IT IS. YOU THINK THIS IS HOW IT WORKS? I SAY “NO”. IT ALL DEPENDS ON INDIVIDUAL THOUGHTS. “IF YOU WANT YOU SHOULD GET IT”. ATLEAST GIVE IT A TRY.

THEY SAY “PEOPLE WILL KNOW THE WORTH WHEN THEY LOSE IT”, BUT I SAY “PEOPLE WILL KNOW THE WORTH WHEN NOTHING IS LEFT IN LIFE EXCEPT HOPE”. WHAT DIFFERS IS POINT OF VIEW OF A PERSON, SAYING HIS/HER FEELINGS OR EMOTIONS OR EXPERIENCE TO ANOTHER. WHILE YOU EXPRESS YOURSELF THERE SHOULD BE A PERSON WHO CAN REALLY UNDERSTAND YOUR THOUGHTS BUT, WHEN YOU DOESN’T HAVE A PERSON LIKE THAT WHAT THAT PERSON CAN DO? JUST HAVE A THOUGHT THAT YOU HAVE NOONE TO UNDERSTAND YOUR FEELINGS, EMOTIONS ETC ETC.. EXPERIENCE THE FEEL YOU WILL GET TO KNOW WHAT CAN A PESON LIKE THAT IS FEELING.

JUST REMINDING THAT LONELINESS ISNT WITH US OR AROUND US IT’S A FEEL THAT ONE WILL GET OR EXPERIENCE IN A SITUATION, SO IF YOU FIND A GUY WHOM YOU FEEL HE IS LONELY GO TALK TO HIM, SIT WITH HIM, LAUGH WITH HIM, HE/SHE MAY REALIZE WHAT THEY HAVE MISSED BEING NOT MINGLEING WITH PEOPLE .

SPREAD LOVE, LOVE ALL, FORGET THE WASTE, HOPE FOR THE BEST, YES. BEST IS YET TO COME.