This is upsetting when you like a person you lose him/her. I have colleague cum friend. Basically he is a subordinate and learned everything from me at work and we have a good bonding in last 2 years and have been friends more then a boss or subordinate relation. Everything was moving fine till today when top management asked him to go to Thailand as they need a person there. He agreed as he is in need of money and he will get better salary there but I have a mixed feeling as I am happy that he will grow better and it's indirectly me who's appreciated by the management as he learned everything from me but one bitter fact is I am hurt as I have lost one of my best friend. I don't know how I may be able to fill that void which he will leave when he will go away from my life as I know once a person go far the relationship also gets affected.
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Sanjeev Gupta wrote:Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.
That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:Sanjeev Gupta wrote:Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.
That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.
Yes SJ.. It will help you to forget all the matters and will refresh you. Such kind of small tours really refresh our minds.
AKP wrote:Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:Sanjeev Gupta wrote:Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.
That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.
Yes SJ.. It will help you to forget all the matters and will refresh you. Such kind of small tours really refresh our minds.
Yes akp small tours really make mind fresh. I always do that when I get too much of stress in life.
Life is all about energies. Energy is what it is inside universe. It does not increase or decrease. That is why one would need to find ways to tranfer energy into different dynamic movements so that it keeps on continuing. Regular exercise would be great help to clean up all stable elements inside nerve paths.
Just think about it, while playing with any operating system be it mobile or windows computer, we tend to change theme or wall paper from time to time in order to have some refreshing look, and change of perspectives, life is similar, it is one such operating system where we tend to change the thought processes just the similar like that of themes of operating system.
Oneshould know that all of us get affected by UPs and DOWNs of life. Be it a prince or a pauper.Wisdom lies in choosing a proper course to deal with the situation. And this choosing of an appropriate course is entirely your responsibility. A river will not stop when it is hindered by a mountain. Instead, it changes it's course and continues its onward journey towards sea. That's life.
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