why it happens with me?

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This is upsetting when you like a person you lose him/her. I have colleague cum friend. Basically he is a subordinate and learned everything from me at work and we have a good bonding in last 2 years and have been friends more then a boss or subordinate relation. Everything was moving fine till today when top management asked him to go to Thailand as they need a person there. He agreed as he is in need of money and he will get better salary there but I have a mixed feeling as I am happy that he will grow better and it's indirectly me who's appreciated by the management as he learned everything from me but one bitter fact is I am hurt as I have lost one of my best friend. I don't know how I may be able to fill that void which he will leave when he will go away from my life as I know once a person go far the relationship also gets affected.

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Sanjeev Gupta wrote:

Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.

That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.

Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
Sanjeev Gupta wrote:

Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.

That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.

Yes SJ.. It will help you to forget all the matters and will refresh you. Such kind of small tours really refresh our minds. 

AKP wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
Sanjeev Gupta wrote:

Yes these small changes spice up life. Just for a change me too going to Rishikesh this Saturday as I have bored of life in last few months. Hope I will be refreshed through this tour.

That is good Sanjeev. A refreshing weekend should help you deal with the separation. Best of luck. You will certainly be refreshed by this tour.

Yes SJ.. It will help you to forget all the matters and will refresh you. Such kind of small tours really refresh our minds. 

Yes akp small tours really make mind fresh. I always do that when I get too much of stress in life.

 

Same here SJ.. I used to same thing. I just go for mini tour in weekends when I get fed up of something. 

Life is dynamic. It is a journey and in the course of it many friends such as this would come and go, as earth is also moving though it appears stationary. 

Think of those parents, whose daughter gets married goes away to her in-laws house. Parting is inevitable. But the parents take the parting in their own stride. Did they stop living ? Adjustments are necessary to cope up with the Ups and Downs of life.

Life is a great drama with every one playing their roles very naturally. Characters come and go, scenes change, emotions vary,… let us take everything in its natural mood.  Change is the law of life, but we have the power to adjust and keep up its rhythm.

Wisdom lies in tuning  one's self according to the nature's movements.

Life is all about energies. Energy is what it is inside universe. It does not increase or decrease. That is why one would need to find ways to tranfer energy into different dynamic movements so that it keeps on continuing. Regular exercise would be great help to clean up all stable elements inside nerve paths. 

Small changes in the course of our life's journey will make a big difference. Turns your attention towards other things and makes you find a new dimension and purpose to your life.

Attachments are the chief cause for distress. You have to find a way to get away from the shackles of Attachments. Take something new avocation . And put your heart and soul on it. It releases you from the shackles of attachments.

Just think about it, while playing with any operating system be it mobile or windows computer, we tend to change theme or wall paper from time to time in order to have some refreshing look, and change of perspectives, life is similar, it is one such operating system where we tend to change the thought processes just the similar like that of themes of operating system. 

That's the essence of change, which is required. I do change my work routine in order to escape from boredom. Remember work never tires you, but boredom kills you.

I feel that distances doesn't affect relationships if you really try to maintain them. And even nowadays you have so many apps to stay connected with your friends howsoever far they are. 

It's all about having a grip over your emotions. Seeing the things in real perspective and knowing Unions and partings are just a cycle like Day and night.

True with plenty of apps and virtual connections and few minutes of mind ful internet browsing would solace mind and refresh it fully. 

The best thing would be to take the things in your stride and take them as they are. In this process one can use the technological devices and go ahead. Nothing should be stopped or bring the life to a grinding halt because of some inevitable happenings. The show must go on.

Sanjeev, you should be happy for him, today world is a small place, you can always keep in touch with him via technology, cheers :)

Oneshould  know that all of us get affected by UPs and DOWNs of life. Be it a prince or a pauper.Wisdom lies in choosing a proper course to deal with the situation. And this choosing of an appropriate course is entirely your responsibility. A river will not stop when it is hindered by a mountain. Instead, it changes it's course and continues its onward journey towards sea. That's life.

Few days back on Times of India, a list of boring apps were given and you could try those in order to feel fresh. One such app has end button which does not work even it is so popular that more than 50,000 people downloaded on their smart phones. 

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