How to deal with people who are much anxious?

Most of the times such anxious people are mistaken as Pessimists. It's not true. They do not know how to express the reasons for their anxiety. We should not get vexed with such people. We should be sympathetic and compassionate. We should step in to their shoes and try to console them And help them getting out of their dreary conditions.

Yes, it is true that some people are always threatened by some unknown fear, if something goes wrong for once, they get worried about it and in this anxiety they create a tense atmosphere for others too. I think we should first try to calm them and then give them reassurance that not every time and not everything can go wrong always.

Understanding anxious people is the need of the hour and to stepping in to their shoes and by being sympathetic is all the the anxious people need. 

They do no know how to express their feelings with others in anxiety. If others understand their feelings and share time with them they can also easily tackle the situation and never get much anxious.

They need compassion . For this others should step in to  shoes of the anxious people.

If it is a continuous habit then help of a trained psychologist should be taken for a permanent cure. Meantime those around should behave normally andnot be patronizing.

Agreed. Either a psychological councilling or sympathizing outsiders can bring a change in them.

rambabu wrote:

Agreed. Either a psychological councilling or sympathizing outsiders can bring a change in them.

Councelling will bring positive changes in them. But people must take it in a good sense, as some people are in a myth that councelling is given to people who are having a serious issue in life. These kind of beliefs should change and people must take it in a right way. Then only these issues can be sorted out.

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Agreed. Either a psychological councilling or sympathizing outsiders can bring a change in them.

Councelling will bring positive changes in them. But people must take it in a good sense, as some people are in a myth that councelling is given to people who are having a serious issue in life. These kind of beliefs should change and people must take it in a right way. Then only these issues can be sorted out.

 

If the person fails to pay heed to your good intentions in real perspective , who's the loser?

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

 

Love and care can change anything. If one believes in that, people can be brought back to normal life. But it needs patience and determination.

 

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

 

Love and care can change anything. If one believes in that, people can be brought back to normal life. But it needs patience and determination.

 

 

Love, patience and perseverance can help such people to calm and relax. 

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

 

Love and care can change anything. If one believes in that, people can be brought back to normal life. But it needs patience and determination.

 

 

Love, patience and perseverance can help such people to calm and relax. 

 

Above all, the person who's anxious should be willing to  accept the change.

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

 

Love and care can change anything. If one believes in that, people can be brought back to normal life. But it needs patience and determination.

 

 

Love, patience and perseverance can help such people to calm and relax. 

 

Above all, the person who's anxious should be willing to  accept the change.

Well said sir. Any change will occur only when the concerned person is willing to come out of his own barrier and accept the change. That takes some time. But if it happens, then he/she will be recovered quickly.

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

geetha wrote:

rambabu wrote:

Mousumi Ghosh wrote:

Counselling by a professional and support of family members can help anxious people. However, some people are born anxious and continue to remain so even with all efforts taken.

 

Those who are born anxious. Cannot express what the reason for anxiety. Such people need sympathy. They certainly need a solution. If the sympathisers  can  lead them with a humanitarian  attitude, They can be brought bak to normal condition.

 

Love and care can change anything. If one believes in that, people can be brought back to normal life. But it needs patience and determination.

 

 

Love, patience and perseverance can help such people to calm and relax. 

 

Above all, the person who's anxious should be willing to  accept the change.

Well said sir. Any change will occur only when the concerned person is willing to come out of his own barrier and accept the change. That takes some time. But if it happens, then he/she will be recovered quickly.

 

A determined person makes the things happen. Such people understand the dire necessity of change in their attitude. And he cooperates with the person who wants to reform him wholeheartedly .