Life would be boring withouts ups and downs, it wd be stagnation point ! But we crib when we have difficulties and become restless when there is peace and calm in our lives.Basically the more activity and change there is , the more interesting life gets ! Unfortunately some people find it difficult to cope with even minor changes ..
Yes...so true...they find it quite difficult or almost impossible to accept that there exists numerous shades of grey between the black and white, and therefore they dwell in near misery ! It is by accepting the good and bad both and finding a balance between that will keep us contented.
Most people accept these shades in themselves and others close to them but lay down a strict black and white policy for ohers. This is precisely why we should encourage children to own upto their mistakes and not feel ashamed of it...Parents make it seem like a crime when children make some mistakes without realising that it is only through these mistakes that they learn. The end result is that children begin to hde and lie just to cover up oout of fear..
Pay no mind to those who talk behind your back, it simply means that you are two steps ahead !!!
