Marriages are getting delayed for men and women due to bald

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Marriages are noways getting delayed. Some people are rejecting the persons who have bald head even though they are well settled. This kind of attitude makes the men or women so depressed and sometimes they are trying for suicide. Why people are giving so much important to the body which is going to destroy in the end of our life?

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In these days of Hair plantation facilities, there no such incidents of a man being denied of an alliance due to baldness.
marriages are get delayed, but baldness is not only the reason, people seek best match for their child.
So in your point of view if a person wants marriage he should go for hair plantation. Each person has different thoughts. Why he can't lead his life with bald. It is actual process going to happen later in the life.
Marriages are noways getting delayed. Some people are rejecting the persons who have bald head even though they are well settled. This kind of attitude makes the men or women so depressed and sometimes they are trying for suicide. Why people are giving so much important to the body which is going to destroy in the end of our life?


Delay in a marriage happens for various reasons. I have seen many men who are bald and yet lead a happy married life. I really don't think being bald can be a major deterrent in getting married. After all who can guarantee that one may not get bald after getting married. Moreover, baldness is sometimes genetic and is handed down through generations, nothing much can be done, sometimes no amount of hair transplantation can cure something which is genetic. Of course it is not a a bad idea to give it a try though. Science has many solutions for curing hair loss and baldness.
Physical attraction is a natural cause of attraction between man and woman. If bald head turns of somebody, marriage iwith a bald person is not desirable. some baldness occurs in old age. But youth are generally hairy. However, all women may not be so distracted from bald head. There is no reason why a bald man or woman may not find some suitable match. I feel that it is more difficult for bald woman than a bald man to get married. The bald man and woman may suitably advertise in matrimoial columns. Use of wig or even cap/ some head dress may also help.
That may be the case for many but I have seen an increasing trend of men going bald intentionally to look dashing nowadays! A healthy trend considering it will help instill confidence in naturally bald people!
Many environmental and lifestyle factors can cause baldness and hair loss. It has been found that pollution, radiation, cigarette smoking, poor diet, herbicides can cause baldness and severe hair loss. Both men and women are facing this problem nowadays. Stress is also a major factor which we often neglect.
Marriages are noways getting delayed. Some people are rejecting the persons who have bald head even though they are well settled. This kind of attitude makes the men or women so depressed and sometimes they are trying for suicide. Why people are giving so much important to the body which is going to destroy in the end of our life?


Such type of cases is not regular in 21th century. Some cases may arises. Now everyone search partner that is settle. Even I see many man get married with bald head.
Yes true. People getting rejected only for physical appearance is not correct. Nowadays men and women give more importance to the inherent qualities of a person, his willingness to commitment, job profile, and lifestyle.
Agree with you Taniya...gone are the days when marriage partners were selected only on the basis of physical appearance. Now people try to look beyond appearances...after all appearance can be deceptive...but beauty is skin deep.
That the marriages are delayed due to baldness is a mistaken notion.. I know people delay their marriage with an intention to fulfill some of their unfulfilled goals. In this process they even give way to their younger siblings to go ahead with their marriages, without waiting for them.
Yes..even I have seen this trend, which is on the rise..marriage brings in a lot of responsibilities. So in order to lead a comfortable life..people are delaying their marriage.
In my own family an elder brother gave clearance to his younger brothers to go ahead with marriage because, he's yet settle in life and with the present job he cannot feed the family if he marries.
In a way it is good, if a person wishes to become financially secure and then take on additional responsibility which marriage brings in. However, this growing trend is leading to another thing that is postponing/delayed parenthood..which can reduce the chances of such people to become parents naturally. Personally, it is good to be financially secure but putting off marriage until it is very late is not quite advisable.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.


First things first. Wife arrived in to your life first. It's the primary responsibility of the person to be able to give a square meal to his life partner. Unless this condition is fulfilled and going for children, you are adding one more burden to yourself. Let the first step be firm and strong. Then the things will fall in their respective places like in a Jigsaw puzzle.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.


First things first. Wife arrived in to your life first. It's the primary responsibility of the person to be able to give a square meal to his life partner. Unless this condition is fulfilled and going for children, you are adding one more burden to yourself. Let the first step be firm and strong. Then the things will fall in their respective places like in a Jigsaw puzzle.


Agree with you Sir, but let me give you of what we are trying to say here. Not sure if you've watched this Bollywood movie 'Shaadi ke Side Effects' here the male protagonist --Farhan Akthar didn't wish to become a father, but when they went to a nursing home...after a chance meeting with a guy he changed his decision. The guy who refused to become a father in the pursuit to better his income and to become mentally ready to become a father, he delayed becoming a father...later on when the couple was ready..his wife's biological clock ran out..and they had to go for IVF...and they landed up with four babies instead of one. That was just an example in a movie..but it can happen in real life too.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.


First things first. Wife arrived in to your life first. It's the primary responsibility of the person to be able to give a square meal to his life partner. Unless this condition is fulfilled and going for children, you are adding one more burden to yourself. Let the first step be firm and strong. Then the things will fall in their respective places like in a Jigsaw puzzle.


Agree with you Sir, but let me give you of what we are try to say here. Not sure if you've watched this Bollywood movie 'Shaadi ke Side Effecst' here the male protagonist --Farhan Akthar didn't wish to become a father, but when they went to a nursing home...after a chance meeting with a guy he changed his decision. The guy who refused to become a father in the pursuit to better his income and to become mentally ready to become a father, he delayed becoming a father...later on when the couple was ready..his wife's biological clock ran out..and they had to go for IVF...and they landed up with four babies instead of one. That was just an example in a movie..but it can happen in real life too.


Chances are there to happen like in the movie "Shadi Ke Sideeffects.". I don't deny it.. What i tried to impress on is s general observation based on a few real life incidents.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.


First things first. Wife arrived in to your life first. It's the primary responsibility of the person to be able to give a square meal to his life partner. Unless this condition is fulfilled and going for children, you are adding one more burden to yourself. Let the first step be firm and strong. Then the things will fall in their respective places like in a Jigsaw puzzle.


Agree with you Sir, but let me give you of what we are try to say here. Not sure if you've watched this Bollywood movie 'Shaadi ke Side Effecst' here the male protagonist --Farhan Akthar didn't wish to become a father, but when they went to a nursing home...after a chance meeting with a guy he changed his decision. The guy who refused to become a father in the pursuit to better his income and to become mentally ready to become a father, he delayed becoming a father...later on when the couple was ready..his wife's biological clock ran out..and they had to go for IVF...and they landed up with four babies instead of one. That was just an example in a movie..but it can happen in real life too.


Chances are there to happen like in the movie "Shadi Ke Sideeffects.". I don't deny it.. What i tried to impress on is s general observation based on a few real life incidents.


I got your point and can't deny that it is very important to get financially secure, provide for your first priority i.e your wife and then plan for a family. But today this is what people are doing instead of yester years when men got married only by using their big family names but themselves were not mature enough and financially stable enough to run a household of their own.
Yes now both men and women wait for a while before leaping into marriage. First they try to get well settled and focus in their careers, which is a good trend though. But again, I completely agree with you Mousumi, that in doing so sometimes they face the challenges of delayed parenthood. The biological clock runs out and it becomes difficult to conceive in late marriages. Careers can be pursued even after marriage.


First things first. Wife arrived in to your life first. It's the primary responsibility of the person to be able to give a square meal to his life partner. Unless this condition is fulfilled and going for children, you are adding one more burden to yourself. Let the first step be firm and strong. Then the things will fall in their respective places like in a Jigsaw puzzle.


Agree with you Sir, but let me give you of what we are try to say here. Not sure if you've watched this Bollywood movie 'Shaadi ke Side Effecst' here the male protagonist --Farhan Akthar didn't wish to become a father, but when they went to a nursing home...after a chance meeting with a guy he changed his decision. The guy who refused to become a father in the pursuit to better his income and to become mentally ready to become a father, he delayed becoming a father...later on when the couple was ready..his wife's biological clock ran out..and they had to go for IVF...and they landed up with four babies instead of one. That was just an example in a movie..but it can happen in real life too.


Chances are there to happen like in the movie "Shadi Ke Sideeffects.". I don't deny it.. What i tried to impress on is s general observation based on a few real life incidents.


I got your point and can't deny that it is very important to get financially secure, provide for your first priority i.e your wife and then plan for a family. But today this is what people are doing instead of yester years when men got married only by using their big family names but themselves were not mature enough and financially stable enough to run a household of their own.


Absolutely. You gave a vivid picture of today's scenario.

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