is wearing sleeveless blouses such a big thing, after all?

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I have seen thousands of girls and married women wearing sleeveless blouses with saris, in New Delhi, Kolkatta, and Mumbai. Nobody really bothers and it is accepted as a very common dress.

However, in the South of India, including Kerala and even in Chennai, it is still considered a big taboo. Why should this be so? What is so bad about such a small thing, as a sleeveless blouse?

If women in Chennai also take to wearing sleeveless blouses with saris in a very big way, will the taboo go away?

Members, particularly women who are very comfortable wearing such dresses or who feel strongly against such taboo, may please present their views.

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I have seen thousands of girls and married women wearing sleeveless blouses with saris, in New Delhi, Kolkatta, and Mumbai. Nobody really bothers and it is accepted as a very common dress.

However, in the South of India, including Kerala and even in Chennai, it is still considered a big taboo. Why should this be so? What is so bad about such a small thing, as a sleeveless blouse?

If women in Chennai also take to wearing sleeveless blouses with saris in a very big way, will the taboo go away?

Members, particularly women who are very comfortable wearing such dresses or who feel strongly against such taboo, may please present their views.


We have no such taboo in AP.
There is absolutely no such taboo anywhere in Karnataka, girls wear sleeveless, halter necks and whatever they like without anyone bothering about. Some people may stare and pass comments but that just goes to show their low mindset thats all, not really worth bothering about ...
Indian women are free to wear blouse with or without sleeves. No problem in my area.
There is absolutely no such taboo anywhere in Karnataka, girls wear sleeveless, halter necks and whatever they like without anyone bothering about. Some people may stare and pass comments but that just goes to show their low mindset thats all, not really worth bothering about ...


Absolutely. Wearing sleeveless blouses was started long ago in AP. I observed even in Chennai there are no such taboos.
I think it is also not in Odisha, but I cannot say with complete authority. :whistle: :whistle:
I have seen in Gujarat sleeveless blouses being worn since decades now and no one considers it a big thing.
I really don't know about women not wearing sleeveless blouse in Chennai, but women in most urban and semi-urban cities are wearing sleeveless blouses. It is not a big deal!
What I understand from this discussion through the responses of the participants, wearing sleeveless blouses is not taboo in AP, Karnataka and chennai. What's left is Kerala. I'm sure there too this taboo will not be there . As this was an old taboo forgotten by the people long ago.
Wearing sleeveless or not has now become people specific and family specific rather than region specific.
Wearing sleeveless or not has now become people specific and family specific rather than region specific.


I agree with you. The thread poster specifically pointed that this is a taboo in Southern states. Which is why, I specified regions.
There are some threads in last few days, which I observe whatever little experience here in this great forum are more inclined of discussion of better sex (female), especially more so on very personal topic, like dress sense and others.
Slleveless, half sleeves, full sleeves- this is a woman's her own choice. But let me narrate funny aspect. Many girls wear sleeveless blouse. But they still wish to cover their arms. so they wear long gloves along with sleeveless blouse. I asked one of my friends about this as he also wears sleeveless blouse with long gloves. she told that she can remove the gloves when she likes and sit comfortable with sleeveless.
Slleveless, half sleeves, full sleeves- this is a woman's her own choice. But let me narrate funny aspect. Many girls wear sleeveless blouse. But they still wish to cover their arms. so they wear long gloves along with sleeveless blouse. I asked one of my friends about this as he also wears sleeveless blouse with long gloves. she told that she can remove the gloves when she likes and sit comfortable with sleeveless.


Ultimately it all culminates to CONVENIENCE. and comfort. What's wrong with it. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.
Slleveless, half sleeves, full sleeves- this is a woman's her own choice. But let me narrate funny aspect. Many girls wear sleeveless blouse. But they still wish to cover their arms. so they wear long gloves along with sleeveless blouse. I asked one of my friends about this as he also wears sleeveless blouse with long gloves. she told that she can remove the gloves when she likes and sit comfortable with sleeveless.


Ultimately it all culminates to CONVENIENCE. and comfort. What's wrong with it. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.


It is my pleasure that she replied me very comfortably and without getting annoyed. I could dare to ask her only because my realtion with her is intimate enough.
Slleveless, half sleeves, full sleeves- this is a woman's her own choice. But let me narrate funny aspect. Many girls wear sleeveless blouse. But they still wish to cover their arms. so they wear long gloves along with sleeveless blouse. I asked one of my friends about this as he also wears sleeveless blouse with long gloves. she told that she can remove the gloves when she likes and sit comfortable with sleeveless.


Ultimately it all culminates to CONVENIENCE. and comfort. What's wrong with it. Its all in the eyes of the beholder.


It is my pleasure that she replied me very comfortably and without getting annoyed. I could dare to ask her only because my realtion with her is intimate enough.


You are lucky. Many will be offended. Because you were close she obliged you and gave right and frank view. I appreciate her.
There still is a sort of taboo in many places where sleeveless dresses are concerned, especially among orthodox people. There is no such taboo in Pune, Mumbai and other big cities in my state. In rural Maharashtra it is not exactly a taboo but wearing such outfits is not really encouraged. But people should try to open their minds and brains a bit and see that due to increase in temperature by degrees, sleeveless outfits is the best option than getting boiled wearing long- sleeved dresses.
There still is a sort of taboo in many places where sleeveless dresses are concerned, especially among orthodox people. There is no such taboo in Pune, Mumbai and other big cities in my state. In rural Maharashtra it is not exactly a taboo but wearing such outfits is not really encouraged. But people should try to open their minds and brains a bit and see that due to increase in temperature by degrees, sleeveless outfits is the best option than getting boiled wearing long- sleeved dresses.


Men also make a choice between half sleeve or full sleeve shirts. Personally I prefer full sleeve shirt as arms are protected against scorching sun light and heat.
There still is a sort of taboo in many places where sleeveless dresses are concerned, especially among orthodox people. There is no such taboo in Pune, Mumbai and other big cities in my state. In rural Maharashtra it is not exactly a taboo but wearing such outfits is not really encouraged. But people should try to open their minds and brains a bit and see that due to increase in temperature by degrees, sleeveless outfits is the best option than getting boiled wearing long- sleeved dresses.


Men also make a choice between half sleeve or full sleeve shirts. Personally I prefer full sleeve shirt as arms are protected against scorching sun light and heat.


True, even men have a choice of choosing between the style of sleeves. But what I don't understand is why is the choice of dress code for women is made an issue in our country? As far as I know, in many communities, women traditionally wear either very skimpy blouses or sometimes no blouses at all, simply a well-draped sari or ghagra-odhni used to be enough! Now even those women have started changing the way they dress up!

Yes, sleeveless blouses has become more people specific and family specific.  Many of my own cousins like to wear it, since they work in schools where other teachers wear it, particularly in Mumbai.  Similarly, some of my own friends and their families who had lived in New Delhi for a long time, now wear it regularly in Chennai.  Of late, am seeing quite a huge change in Chennai, particularly among many college girls.  Yes, it is becoming people specific.

When worn with sarees, it does look elegant on those who are lean and tall.  It does suit such women very well.

Slleveless, half sleeves, full sleeves- this is a woman's her own choice. But let me narrate funny aspect. Many girls wear sleeveless blouse. But they still wish to cover their arms. so they wear long gloves along with sleeveless blouse. I asked one of my friends about this as he also wears sleeveless blouse with long gloves. she told that she can remove the gloves when she likes and sit comfortable with sleeveless.
Actually some girls wear those long gloves to protect their skin from sun or dust but take them off when reach their destination. Those gloves are like another protection gear as good as a helmet while driving.  

 

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