Why does it happen?

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People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:

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Perhaps we are becoming more self centered and also old values and traditions are fast disappearing. Although this does not stand true for almost 50% children as yet.
Perhaps we are becoming more self centered and also old values and traditions are fast disappearing. Although this does not stand true for almost 50% children as yet.



Oh you mean being self centered allows one to think of his/her family but not parents. :blink:
Perhaps we are becoming more self centered and also old values and traditions are fast disappearing. Although this does not stand true for almost 50% children as yet.



Oh you mean being self centered allows one to think of his/her family but not parents. :blink:


self centered people cannot think beyond themselves and there lies the problem.
Perhaps we are becoming more self centered and also old values and traditions are fast disappearing. Although this does not stand true for almost 50% children as yet.



Oh you mean being self centered allows one to think of his/her family but not parents. :blink:


self centered people cannot think beyond themselves and there lies the problem.


But that's wrong may be we are becoming machine these days without feeings and emotions. :evil:
Perhaps we are becoming more self centered and also old values and traditions are fast disappearing. Although this does not stand true for almost 50% children as yet.



Oh you mean being self centered allows one to think of his/her family but not parents. :blink:


self centered people cannot think beyond themselves and there lies the problem.


But that's wrong may be we are becoming machine these days without feeings and emotions. :evil:


Being mechanical engineers you and me know that a machine is also without feelings like self centered guys. They are programed to work in predetermined way and cant think out of the box. For machines aso feelings and emotions don't matter.
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:


I don't agree. I know many who treat their parents well till last. Yes,There are no doubt some who neglect parents. Not all are caring. not all are negligent.
Life has become too much complex. Every day we face different and difficult challenge. Life is fast and waits for none. So, we don't really forget them but I do agree that there has been rise in the ignorance.
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:


I don't agree. I know many who treat their parents well till last. Yes,There are no doubt some who neglect parents. Not all are caring. not all are negligent.


All are not negligent I know but for those who neglect why they do. :evil:
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:


I don't agree. I know many who treat their parents well till last. Yes,There are no doubt some who neglect parents. Not all are caring. not all are negligent.

Even I dont agree this. But I have also seen people shamelessly saying that it is not their responsibility to take care of their parents.
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:

history repeats itself and when such people are old, can they expect anything better from their children ? Parents are to be cherished and given love,care and time , especially when they are old and become less active and more dependant on their children...
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:

history repeats itself and when such people are old, can they expect anything better from their children ? Parents are to be cherished and given love,care and time , especially when they are old and become less active and more dependant on their children...


I agree with you. Parents also should see to it that they they reduce their dependence factor on children as far as possible, by engaging themselves in some way like taking part in spiritual activities , writing, educating the children in the neighborhood etc . Parents should drive away the feeling that they are useless because of their old age.
Joint family system is broken owing to socio economic reasons. One is primarily responsible to his spouse and children. Parents comes next. We should realize the ground reality and adjust to changing circumstances. It is better to encourage children to lead their own life separately and not interfere with them.
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:

history repeats itself and when such people are old, can they expect anything better from their children ? Parents are to be cherished and given love,care and time , especially when they are old and become less active and more dependant on their children...


I agree with you. Parents also should see to it that they they reduce their dependence factor on children as far as possible, by engaging themselves in some way like taking part in spiritual activities , writing, educating the children in the neighborhood etc . Parents should drive away the feeling that they are useless because of their old age.


Thats right, it is a two way traffic and both should realise that life is the same for all....
People think about their kids and wife more than his/her parents after they get married. :evil: I have seen some people almost forget their parents and become so much busy in life. Is it right?. I don't think we should as why should we forget them who brought us in this world. :blink:


It is not easy to forgot parents. Nothing is change only priorities are changed. life is much busy at present. It is very hard give enough time to parents. single family system is also responsible for it.
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents


Lack of forethought. People should remember that what we give today our children, we get the same from them tomorrow.
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents


Exactly we forget that one day we also have to be parent and what will happen if our kids do neglect us like we did with our parents. :blink:
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents


Lack of forethought. People should remember that what we give today our children, we get the same from them tomorrow.


Who remember it. if child misbehave with elders parents plaudit them. Parents forgot at this time their this weapon may be attack on them.
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents

True one should keep themselves in their parents position so as to understand their pain.
How can one forget there parents??? such people should think that, tomorrow he will be in the same place. Then he will understand the value of his parents

True one should keep themselves in their parents position so as to understand their pain.


But one never considers it when it is still time. Once they reach to old age then they realise the truth of life.

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