Joint appeal to Two stars

You all know the matter Sanjeev......closing our eyes can't make the whole world dark.

I don't want to discuss that matter here again!!!! :) :)
Hoping you will understand me. :)

I understand you but you did not.Oh yes closing our eyes is not a solution we must keep them open to face problems. :)

I told you being over emotional in situations never is helpful one must learn to face them bodly. :) Hope you understand it now whatever problems you have you must put it in front of admin may be he would be able to understand it better as a member no one would be able you more in this matter.And in case you have done it than wait for admin to come till then you should continue. :blink:

Yes, I have told admin about present situation. He has responded to my mail. Hoping he will find a solution. After all he is the big boss. Isn't it?

Sandhya, since you have already made a few posts here, please continue to be active and take part in discussions. My own feeling is that things will look different in a couple of days when tempers and thoughts have cooled and you have had time to analyse the situation from every angle...until then why not be part of the community here since you have always been a very active member ..

Ushaji,
If some member hurts me this way, I am mature enough to handle that situation and forget everything. But, here, it's not the case. That's why. I also want to return to forum, but not like the same way I returned last time. i also have self respect and I can't tolerate even a little if I am punished in wrong ways.

Ushaji,
If some member hurts me this way, I am mature enough to handle that situation and forget everything. But, here, it's not the case. That's why. I also want to return to forum, but not like the same way I returned last time. i also have self respect and I can't tolerate even a little if I am punished in wrong ways.

I am with you and respect your thought.

thanks ram bhaiya for starting this thread.as if emperors will quit like this even both are so good then how will it work.they both have posted very good posts and have always created the funny environment around.i wish everything get well soon.it was a tensed week hope next week truth wins and all sets well.. :) :)

thanks ram bhaiya for starting this thread.as if emperors will quit like this even both are so good then how will it work.they both have posted very good posts and have always created the funny environment around.i wish everything get well soon.it was a tensed week hope next week truth wins and all sets well.. :) :)

I hope so

I will surely return to forums.....but two conditions.....
1. I want justice
2. Ceemji should also return :)

Sandhya: You are putting conditions Mamata Baneree style. I really love Boddunan and Forums. There is no condition in love (Koi shart nahi hoti pyar men). We cannot expect that everything will be smooth or as we like. We continue despite difficulties and issues.

Chinmoy says that he has other preoccupations that disable him from participation in forums. I understand this. Even five minutes occasionally devoted him to forum will mark his presence. I hope he will not fully quit but visit the forums as and when convenient to him.

[quote]Gulshanji-
Sandhya: You are putting conditions Mamata Baneree style. I really love Boddunan and Forums. There is no condition in love (Koi shart nahi hoti pyar men). We cannot expect that everything will be smooth or as we like. We continue despite difficulties and issues. [/quote]
Yes she should understand this and should come back.All are working for self and in the way if anybody will make mistake then what can other do?
I like and love this site to gathered knowledge and to earn some pocket money.
Let Admin do their work and I am doing mine under rule and regulation which they already made.
Sorry If I said something wrong.

[quote]Gulshanji-
Sandhya: You are putting conditions Mamata Baneree style. I really love Boddunan and Forums. There is no condition in love (Koi shart nahi hoti pyar men). We cannot expect that everything will be smooth or as we like. We continue despite difficulties and issues.

Yes she should understand this and should come back.All are working for self and in the way if anybody will make mistake then what can other do?
I like and love this site to gathered knowledge and to earn some pocket money.
Let Admin do their work and I am doing mine under rule and regulation which they already made.
Sorry If I said something wrong.[/quote]

We work collectively. So, nobody can claim that what he says is absolutely correct and must be accepted by all. Moderator, editor and administration may also be wrong some times and member's opinion could differ. Any one may have his views but the fact remains that final say is that of concerned authority- moderator/ editor/ administration, whoever that may be. I remember that shri Sabharwal, ex chief Justice of India once remarked- We are not always right. But we are final.

Sandhya has made her position very clear and many supported her. she is valuable member. She should respect moderator' authority, even if she views differently because some body must have final authority. I hope Chinmoy will not quit forums even if he appears occasionally. Sandhya should also continue despite her grievances. I am happy that Santosh Kumar singh occasionally appears in forums despite his busy schedule. But I am surprised about Abid's continued absence.

swetha is also absent for few days and I think busy.Abid also.

[quote]Gulshanji-
Sandhya: You are putting conditions Mamata Baneree style. I really love Boddunan and Forums. There is no condition in love (Koi shart nahi hoti pyar men). We cannot expect that everything will be smooth or as we like. We continue despite difficulties and issues.

Yes she should understand this and should come back.All are working for self and in the way if anybody will make mistake then what can other do?
I like and love this site to gathered knowledge and to earn some pocket money.
Let Admin do their work and I am doing mine under rule and regulation which they already made.
Sorry If I said something wrong.

We work collectively. So, nobody can claim that what he says is absolutely correct and must be accepted by all. Moderator, editor and administration may also be wrong some times and member's opinion could differ. Any one may have his views but the fact remains that final say is that of concerned authority- moderator/ editor/ administration, whoever that may be. I remember that shri Sabharwal, ex chief Justice of India once remarked- We are not always right. But we are final.

Sandhya has made her position very clear and many supported her. she is valuable member. She should respect moderator' authority, even if she views differently because some body must have final authority. I hope Chinmoy will not quit forums even if he appears occasionally. Sandhya should also continue despite her grievances. I am happy that Santosh Kumar singh occasionally appears in forums despite his busy schedule. But I am surprised about Abid's continued absence.[/quote]

Thanks for your thoughts on this Gulshan!! People should respect authority which does not seem to be the case here! what I hate and is recently happening in the forums is that, like chinmoy rightly said, too much of chest thumping which inflates lot of egos, and this kind of attitude is damaging for anything! since I have questioned this attitude, I am seeing a lot of posts where direct assault is being against me and the resultant decrease in Karma. Now any fool can easily realize who is doing that, yet I am not about to respond to that directly as I am not so immature to stoop to that person's level of childishness! I am just waiting for things to cool down and to return to normal!

Re: Abid, I think he is very much busy with his job and as he also volunteers for a lot of activities like NSS and education programmes, I think that is why he is missing!

Ram shwetha is active but not participating in forums. I am seeing her daily online here.

My take on this entire issue is that enough dust has been kicked over some highly unfortunate developments. It's time for introspection as to if we are acting in the larger interest of the site. In all my posts in regard to this I have appealed for calm to restore normalcy. I once again appeal to members to refrain from doing anything which generates acrimony and disharmony! Please!
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My take on this entire issue is that enough dust has been kicked over some highly unfortunate developments. It's time for introspection as to if we are acting in the larger interest of the site. In all my posts in regard to this I have appealed for calm to restore normalcy. I once again appeal to members to refrain from doing anything which generates acrimony and disharmony! Please!
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Thank you Chinmoy!! I hope your words will be enough for others to stop raising any more dust!! This is one reason why I keep telling you to be a moderator here!!! :) :) :) Although you never listen to me!! :cheer:

My take on this entire issue is that enough dust has been kicked over some highly unfortunate developments. It's time for introspection as to if we are acting in the larger interest of the site. In all my posts in regard to this I have appealed for calm to restore normalcy. I once again appeal to members to refrain from doing anything which generates acrimony and disharmony! Please!
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Thank you Chinmoy!! I hope your words will be enough for others to stop raising any more dust!! This is one reason why I keep telling you to be a moderator here!!! :) :) :) Although you never listen to me!! :cheer:

Thanks Kalyani and with this I would also appeal to Sandhya to start afresh! We can never be slaves of the past! We just can't afford to be. I know both of you and also know how cordial your relations have been with Kalyani! Please come back - show the true Boddunan spirit!
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My take on this entire issue is that enough dust has been kicked over some highly unfortunate developments. It's time for introspection as to if we are acting in the larger interest of the site. In all my posts in regard to this I have appealed for calm to restore normalcy. I once again appeal to members to refrain from doing anything which generates acrimony and disharmony! Please!
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Thank you Chinmoy!! I hope your words will be enough for others to stop raising any more dust!! This is one reason why I keep telling you to be a moderator here!!! :) :) :) Although you never listen to me!! :cheer:

Thanks Kalyani and with this I would also appeal to Sandhya to start afresh! We can never be slaves of the past! We just can't afford to be. I know both of you and also know how cordial your relations have been with Kalyani! Please come back - show the true Boddunan spirit!

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yes,Arjun, I am busy in my work but occasionally have a peek at the forums

I donot talk much, hence i dont reply to all forums;if need arises, i do reply based on experiece :)

Thanks Chinmoy ji and Gulshan ji for your words along with Kalyani's backup...

so finally chinmoyji is not leaving the forums I hope!!!!!!!!!!

I am also requesting to sandhya to start again.Forget about the past and do something new.

My take on this entire issue is that enough dust has been kicked over some highly unfortunate developments. It's time for introspection as to if we are acting in the larger interest of the site. In all my posts in regard to this I have appealed for calm to restore normalcy. I once again appeal to members to refrain from doing anything which generates acrimony and disharmony! Please!
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Thank you Chinmoy!! I hope your words will be enough for others to stop raising any more dust!! This is one reason why I keep telling you to be a moderator here!!! :) :) :) Although you never listen to me!! :cheer:

Thanks Kalyani and with this I would also appeal to Sandhya to start afresh! We can never be slaves of the past! We just can't afford to be. I know both of you and also know how cordial your relations have been with Kalyani! Please come back - show the true Boddunan spirit!

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Again another blame against me....... :evil: :evil:

Now do you think I will stay here??? No person with self respect can stay here hearing another negative word here. Now also I have one word to say to admin, even moderators can't misuse their power in a wrong way and can't use harsh words in forum. Rules are rules and are applicable for everyone!!!!! If Moderators can't control their own words, how can they control a forum :evil:

I was the person who increased Kalyani's karma from 85 to 86 two weeks before. Several times I tried to give her, but couldn't give since it's not at all possible to give within 6 hours and she, available only for half hour or so.
In the name of God and my family, am promising, I have never deduced Kalyani's karma.

I want to use it for a good cause and since only 3 can be given a day, I only use it in a positive way. If I also do the same way with my power, like she has done with hers, then what's the difference between we two????? You tell me.

Now nothing can stop me here.

Before leaving, I want to say one thing to Kalyani. I am 4-5 years younger than you. Yet I want to give you an advice......admitting your mistakes place you one more step ahead and never feel bad or small, if you have to do so...because faults can occur from anyone.....sometimes due to over emotion or due to misunderstandings. Yet, it gives us a lot of peace rather than keeping it as a stone inside mind!!!!!!
Hoping you understand at least this time. I am not staying here and it's only my decision to leave.

I have one more task here......perhaps my last post!!!!!!! I want to do it very soon.

I am not waiting for admin's reply. I am taking a break. Yet, if I feel I want to join or want a help from you people, I won't hesitate. Promise!!!!! :P :P :P :P :P :P :P

Since i was absent for last couple of days I missed some conversation here and also I didnt understood why Sandhya is leaving the forum. I understand that Chinmoyjee has some other priorities and hence he cannot manage to be active in forum but I dont understand why sandhya is doing this.

I hope sandhya join u too and me back soon..

Yes I also want to join sandhya back in forums. To get a new look to forums.