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Most of the teenagers fall in love

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Most of the teenagers fall in love due to the lack of love at home. If they are treated very goodly at home. how much love they need has been given by their parents then most of the teenager won't love.They leave everything to their parents. IF they love any girl or a boy they will surely inform to their parents.but what is happening now a days. As children are becoming teenager parents are becoming strict with great restrictions then obviously the love from the parents won't reach their children. and even children will be afraid to share anything and they search for some to share.IF it is opposite sex then they will fall in love as the amount of love they need from their parents they are getting that from the love.But due to their afraid they won't even intimate in home and they run and get marry. When such things happens parents should not blame their children as mistake is parents only.So friends never make your children miss you or they feel afraid of you. be good to them, understand them. you behave a friend with them. then no children will cheat their parents.IF they love also they will surely tell their parents and if their parents wont agree, they even may give much value to their parents as their parents love them so they will surely sacrifice. but if parents always torturer their children with lot of restrictions then children will go in wrong way.

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If food is not good at home then only we goto hotel right. in the same way if we wont get sufficient love then we divert ourselves towards the love which is showed for us.I feel I want to council each and every parent. If it is not possible when am alive then after death i want to see which parents are not good with their children and teach them a lesson
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Most of the parents are very strict, the think why they are showing affection at childhood is to get their jobs done, not all parents are like that, some may be ok.
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If food is not good at home then only we goto hotel right. in the same way if we wont get sufficient love then we divert ourselves towards the love which is showed for us.I feel I want to council each and every parent. If it is not possible when am alive then after death i want to see which parents are not good with their children and teach them a lesson


that is a good example of the topic here.most of the teenagers falls in love because of the age.during teenage everyone feels attracted to the opposite sex and hence a bit of affection from a boy/girl can change your life.
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So parents should take care of their children though they are busy. Everyday atleast 2 hours they should spend with their children happily
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The only thing that stays is love - be it in teen age, middle age or old age!!!
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Its high time that both parents and children understand each other and maintain a healthier relationship. In this way both the groups will be able to understand each other and things would remain under control....!
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Perhaps truth lies in the fact that parents and their sons or daughters relationships are heavily influenced by societal factors and developments!
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Feeling attracted or infatuated towards the opposite sex is a very very normal and natural process that occurs during the teen years. Instead of scolding their children and prohibiting them to talk with others will make them confused about their own feelings and may result in wayward behavior. Instead, they should to children about their feelings, questions about sexuality and helping them to understand and analyze their own feelings, this will prevent the youngsters falling in love (?) with wrong people!
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I agree with kalyani, that due to gap between parents , the lack of love and affection from parents and the scolding from the parents for every aspect make the teeners feel bad, so at that situation if they find any one showing affection they turn towards that person, if that person is opposite sex then they will feel that is love. and finally this results to disasters
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I agree with Sarala.But the main cause behind this problem is parenting.Today parent's are unable to connect with their teens. Parent should try to understand the teens psychology and they should try to think like that.Then they are able to find the solution.Most of the teenager think that Love and physical attraction are the same.They don't know the actual meaning of love.Because they don't get love from their parents.All the things are artificial in today's lifestyle, even our relations also.So only the solutions to this problem is to win trust from your teens,so that teens are able to discuss their problem and feelings with their parent.
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I agree with Sarala.But the main cause behind this problem is parenting.Today parent's are unable to connect with their teens. Parent should try to understand the teens psychology and they should try to think like that.Then they are able to find the solution.Most of the teenager think that Love and physical attraction are the same.They don't know the actual meaning of love.Because they don't get love from their parents.All the things are artificial in today's lifestyle, even our relations also.So only the solutions to this problem is to win trust from your teens,so that teens are able to discuss their problem and feelings with their parent.


But, falling is love is a common thing. when a boy seen a girl and think that she's beautful and her behaviour is good. then she actracts by her. this is fact. but, i agree that now in morden life most of the teens doesnt know the actual meaning of love.
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Now a days it became common that every teenager is looking for love even from child hood and due to movies the teenagers are spoiling their life.
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yes this is a very common problem in india large no of teenegers fall in love.
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The teenagers falling in love due to lack of care from parents. If they get enough love then no one will fall. If they fall also they will surely intemate to their parents and one reason is.. in teenage if one boy and a girl are maintaining friendship relation but parents over look it and they will take bad meaning of it and make them feel they are in love. this kind of situation also make them fall in love
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The teenagers who are falling in love is just attraction between two opposite sexes but they are thinking it was a love.
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But sasikanth all teenage love is not attraction. If they still remember each other with no bad thoughts then it is a pure love.
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sarala, you are right. there are many true loves are there. but, love on teenage like collage is not good. if they are working and they love then, it is good. he/she can manage there life with the income to survive life.
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[quote]sarala, you are right. there are many true loves are there. but, love on teenage like collage is not good. if they are working and they love then, it is good. he/she can manage there life with the income to survive life. [/quote]

Love cannot labelled as being good love or bad love. It is the circumstances that define the situation and the reaction of each individual to those that determine how their lives turn out! In any case, my opinion is that the teenagers should be taught to analyze their feelings and to learn to differentiate attraction from love, which may help prevent them from falling in love with the wrong person.
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I agree with Ram, he is right.It is not fault of parents ,it is the age when teenagers fall for such things.It is because of peer pressure and result of modern lifestyle.
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the modern life has become,such that its difficult to be single.
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