What is the best way to understand the children problem (especially kids)?

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What is the best way to understand the children problem (especially kids)?

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The small children problems are simple. They are not yet ambitious and not developed hobbies. All they need is care for feeding, toys and attendance. They need be kept in good humor by taking them outside home, baby talking, nursery rhymes etc.
I think the best way is surely to empathize with them! To study them from their perspectives and handle the accordingly!
The best way for you to understand and help in your kids problem is just avoid any negative thoughts......
To undrestand a kid everybody should be like a kid.
Parents (especially mother) can easily understand their children's problem as they spend most of their time with them.There develops an understanding between the kids and the parents.They try to step into the shoes of their kids and resolve their problem with ease.

Sometimes,it is difficult to understand when they demonstrate a peculiar behavior like suffering from pain in one of their parts but are unable to communicate the problem exactly.In this case, even parents can't make out the root cause.
The best way to understand the children problem is to think about things from their angles and if they have any doubt clear them with good reasons and logical understanding rather then scolding them and creating at atmosphere of fear and awe in their hearts....
I agree with ram prasad acharyya, to understand a kid need to be a kid
Keep in touch with the kid as far as possible so that fronm their behavioural change you can understand them.
i think for understanding a kids problem one should try to be more friendly with them and should try to mix up with them.
Small Children are like Small flowers,So with polite and sweetness,child understand Everything.
We should make them understand by sweetness.
Best way is to think like a child. Come down from your adulthood and be again a child. You will understand better.

I feel that even a child below two years has likes and dislikes. If you refuse something, he will stick to that. I have one such kid nearby. He and I both are fond of each other. He likes to play with key Board of my computer. I just let him do anything on computer while sitting in my lap. But as computer keys were no longer refused to the kid, he lost all interest in computer. A kid will stick to any crazy demand as long as you disallow. The kid got tired and jumped out of my lap and went outside my room. Then I switched off computer. But the kid was intelligent enough to point out that the fan and lights were still on. This is despite that he cannot speak clearly. Then, I switched off all lights and roamed on street with the kid.
Yes its a problem when the kid is small and he/she can't express it in words.The best way is to observe kid's activities more that way you may be able to understand him.I have two small kids(twins) of age 3.5 years i know sometimes it becomes tough for me and wife what a kid want to tell but then by his/her actions and expressions we come to know what he/she wants.Its not that tough only thing is tough is to constantly keep in touch with a child. :blink:
The best way to know anything is through communication.If one is all the time communicating and observing the child, one is able to make out any change of mood or other kinds of problems since children dont hide things...
Children often create problem with their friends.Either they fight or they want those things which their friends have.So the best way to understand their problem is to have a conversation with them.We must mix them in a friendly manner.
What is the best way to understand the children problem (especially kids)?


Be a kid and become his friend. By this way, he will feel more free and comfort to tell us his problems.
Problem with many kids is that they are afraid of telling many things to parents thinking they will get scoldings and beatings in return.
When he tell something, let us encourage him and show interest in his talks. Never scold for minor mistakes. Just smile for such silly mistakes. Gradually, your kid will lose fear to tell us a mistake committed by him and it will increase the bond of relationship as well.

Best method to bring up kids is to develop a feeling in him, a mental support at every bad time he face.

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