Are husband and wife one soul in two bodies? should a wife disclose everything even about premarital affairs. The fact remains that individuals remain separate entities even after marriage. So, it is okay not to reveal everything to the spouse. For further discussion on the topic, see:

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It depends on thinking of husband/wife as not all think in same manner and take things lightly in case of pre-martial affair..so act according to persons nature.. :)
Yes Gulshan, some things are to be kept confidential always as the relation may turn worst at any time.

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This topic will really help us to find out, how to keep the transparency in the Marital Relation ship.


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Trust is the foundation of a relationship, and transparency is the currency of trust. Transparency is the open sharing of information

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There is no person whose life is a very clean slate.So,it is better to be frank in case of some serious issues which needs to be informed prior to marriage.
Yes some issues should be disclosed before but the ones which are not disclosed shouldn't be disclosed later...
kavita porwal wrote:
[quote]Yes some issues should be disclosed before but the ones which are not disclosed shouldn't be disclosed later...[/quote]

This depends on how open minded the couples are. Although it is not necessary to disclose every thing purposely, it will be okay to tell anything about past in usual chatting without fear of adverse reaction from the other. In the case of more possessive type and orthodox, it is safer to be discreet in uttering anything about past relation.

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Sometimes it is actually better to keep somethings a secret. Your spouse might not be the most open minded person and this can definitely cause problems for you. Like they say "ignorance is bliss". But then if they find out about your pre-marital affairs from others, life can become hell. I guess you will have to take an extra effort to make your spouse trust you and then reveal controversial information. Don't even think about telling them the very first day of your marriage life itself. It will definitely create problems. Well it really does vary with individuals. Just pray that you actually land up with an understanding partner.
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