What do you do if people hurl stones at you?

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If people hurl stones at you,don't cry. Don;t complain. Don;t hurl back those stones on those who hurled the stones on you either.

Then what to do?

Strive to make those stones in to MILESTONES.

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Those stone pelting incidents should be moments which one can convert into milestones. It determines yours path creates yours movement and provide much needed acceleration to surpass such stone pelting. 

The ability to learn from the mistakes constitutes the path to success.

Contradiction is the law of life. There will be happiness followed by misery; and success by failure. On success you will be treated with flowers; and on failure with stones. The cycle repeats and is endless. Let us face life as it comes and convert the hurled stones as stepping stones to success.

Without getting dejected and revengeful explore the chances of converting the brickbats into bouquets with single minded commitment and dedication  one can make those stones into MILESTONES.

People are of many kinds. They go through many experiences and they provide their negative spirit for us to be stalled. It's upto us to believe ourself, our motto and go ahead by making any changes if they are required. Just because people hurl stones doesn't mean you are completely wrong, it is their experience which they are hurling at you and it is your duty to go ahead and explain if possible or get ahead with action plan and after you are successfull there is no looking back. Some changes here and there are always there and needed.

At times hurling of stones by others may be in the form of criticism due to many reasons. Wisdom lies in using those criticisms to your advantage to shoot ahead in life.

I would look for their intentions first and then decide how should I react. I will act accordingly, gracefully in case it was for constructive purpose else---- you know what I mean in case the intention is malicious. 

That is the way to treat these hurling of stones. Identifying the good intentions behind the stone hurling and proceeding ahead.

Mistakes are inevitable. Nobody is free from it. You can accept criticisms only from those persons who are eligible to criticize you. But, is there anybody in the crowd who is eligible to hurl the first stone at you?... Jesus is no more now to raise the question; he was already crucified 2000 years ago!

It will depend on the source, size of it!! At times hurling it back can hurt oneself and that too grievously!!!  

Agreed Chinmoy.. Wisdom lies in knowing the source and nature of those stone hurlings. Then think of a suitable action..

@Rambabu

Stones are not necessarily bad and we have got to differentiate them. A stone hurled at me to pull me back on the right track is always welcome. In fact, I would remain in perpetual debt to one who threw it at me!!!

@chinmoy

A stone that's hurled with an intention of reminding you of that thing which you overlooked must be accepted and thanked.

Beauty is the constant reflection of yours heart. A stone hurled at you does not deter you from your path. it is important to carry on aim. A stone pelter is a person who proud himself hard to please, though no body tried to please on his works. 

With my discretion and with a positive attitude i think of motive behind the stone pelting. If the pelter has a good and positive attitude. i will accept it and thank the stone pelter. If not, i do not care.

These stone pelting are events of mass distraction of cheap soul craft, where possible distraction from true bliss. 

What do you do ? Crumble with despair or strive to convert these stones into Milestones?

If you ask me then my first reaction would be despair then comes analysis whether I can make them milestone or not.

Yes. Think. Decide and decide the right course that suits and ability to turn the Stones in to Milestones.

I don't think it takes so long to reach to the decision or analyse the intention, the moment the stone comes your way you know the intention of the person that threw it at you- act accordingly. 

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Created Saturday, 30 May 2015 01:13
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