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Mistakes are the unavoidable part of our lives. Though we try to avoid them but these are inevitable. Some mistakes are small, some are big it depends on the consequences that may occur as a result of the mistakes. :evil:


Mistakes are no doubt unavoidable. Only the lazy and good for nothing make no mistakes. If you do nothing, there is no mistake possible.

It is rightly said- To err is human. Although to err is human, it is not easy to forget and forgive because to forgive is divine and not human. Only a person with divine quality may forgive.


The grant of forgiveness depends on the impact of the mistake on an individual or his/her life. If for instant the harm is too big the person might not forget and forgive the wrong-doer at any case. While small mistakes that have nil harm effects are sometimes forgotten with a smile. :)


Yes sometimes mistakes are such an impact that it creates a difference between 2 people for whole life. :blink:

I don't forgive a mistake doer so easily even if it effects me lightly also because the person should realize it that he/she has done something wrong otherwise he/she would repeat it again. :blink:


No, I dont subscribe to this theory- I give 3 chances to any one who hurts me but once his 3 chances do not make him understand then of course I take the final action and teach him a lesson to remember for ever. Cheers.


You theory is OK but any reason why 3 chances why not 2 or 4. :blink:

1st time I smile :)
2nd time I warn :dry:
3rd time I make them understand :angry:
then I take full action :evil: :evil:


Saamam......bhedam.....dhandam...
I forgot the middle one. Can anyone tell me please?

Meera sandhu
Mistakes are the unavoidable part of our lives. Though we try to avoid them but these are inevitable. Some mistakes are small, some are big it depends on the consequences that may occur as a result of the mistakes. :evil:


Mistakes are no doubt unavoidable. Only the lazy and good for nothing make no mistakes. If you do nothing, there is no mistake possible.

It is rightly said- To err is human. Although to err is human, it is not easy to forget and forgive because to forgive is divine and not human. Only a person with divine quality may forgive.


The grant of forgiveness depends on the impact of the mistake on an individual or his/her life. If for instant the harm is too big the person might not forget and forgive the wrong-doer at any case. While small mistakes that have nil harm effects are sometimes forgotten with a smile. :)


Yes sometimes mistakes are such an impact that it creates a difference between 2 people for whole life. :blink:

I don't forgive a mistake doer so easily even if it effects me lightly also because the person should realize it that he/she has done something wrong otherwise he/she would repeat it again. :blink:


No, I dont subscribe to this theory- I give 3 chances to any one who hurts me but once his 3 chances do not make him understand then of course I take the final action and teach him a lesson to remember for ever. Cheers.


You theory is OK but any reason why 3 chances why not 2 or 4. :blink:

1st time I smile :)
2nd time I warn :dry:
3rd time I make them understand :angry:
then I take full action :evil: :evil:


Saamam......bhedam.....dhandam...
I forgot the middle one. Can anyone tell me please?


The policy to deal with people is -- Saam, daam, dand, Bhed

Saam- first option is to convince one of his fault and advise to improve

Daam- Impose fine or penalty in money. Financial loss may improve him

Danda- Physical punishment

Bhed- Creating differences and diplomacy.

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Mistakes are the unavoidable part of our lives. Though we try to avoid them but these are inevitable. Some mistakes are small, some are big it depends on the consequences that may occur as a result of the mistakes. :evil:


Mistakes are no doubt unavoidable. Only the lazy and good for nothing make no mistakes. If you do nothing, there is no mistake possible.

It is rightly said- To err is human. Although to err is human, it is not easy to forget and forgive because to forgive is divine and not human. Only a person with divine quality may forgive.


The grant of forgiveness depends on the impact of the mistake on an individual or his/her life. If for instant the harm is too big the person might not forget and forgive the wrong-doer at any case. While small mistakes that have nil harm effects are sometimes forgotten with a smile. :)


Yes sometimes mistakes are such an impact that it creates a difference between 2 people for whole life. :blink:

I don't forgive a mistake doer so easily even if it effects me lightly also because the person should realize it that he/she has done something wrong otherwise he/she would repeat it again. :blink:


No, I dont subscribe to this theory- I give 3 chances to any one who hurts me but once his 3 chances do not make him understand then of course I take the final action and teach him a lesson to remember for ever. Cheers.


You theory is OK but any reason why 3 chances why not 2 or 4. :blink:

1st time I smile :)
2nd time I warn :dry:
3rd time I make them understand :angry:
then I take full action :evil: :evil:


Saamam......bhedam.....dhandam...
I forgot the middle one. Can anyone tell me please?


The policy to deal with people is -- Saam, daam, dand, Bhed

Saam- first option is to convince one of his fault and advise to improve

Daam- Impose fine or penalty in money. Financial loss may improve him

Danda- Physical punishment

Bhed- Creating differences and diplomacy.


A few points can be redefined as well

Saam- To make them aware

Daam- To pay them well for encouraging them

Dand- stop their promotion and increment

Bhed- Reach to their secrets and try to exploit them.

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Mistakes are the unavoidable part of our lives. Though we try to avoid them but these are inevitable. Some mistakes are small, some are big it depends on the consequences that may occur as a result of the mistakes. :evil:


Mistakes are no doubt unavoidable. Only the lazy and good for nothing make no mistakes. If you do nothing, there is no mistake possible.

It is rightly said- To err is human. Although to err is human, it is not easy to forget and forgive because to forgive is divine and not human. Only a person with divine quality may forgive.


The grant of forgiveness depends on the impact of the mistake on an individual or his/her life. If for instant the harm is too big the person might not forget and forgive the wrong-doer at any case. While small mistakes that have nil harm effects are sometimes forgotten with a smile. :)


Yes sometimes mistakes are such an impact that it creates a difference between 2 people for whole life. :blink:

I don't forgive a mistake doer so easily even if it effects me lightly also because the person should realize it that he/she has done something wrong otherwise he/she would repeat it again. :blink:


No, I dont subscribe to this theory- I give 3 chances to any one who hurts me but once his 3 chances do not make him understand then of course I take the final action and teach him a lesson to remember for ever. Cheers.


You theory is OK but any reason why 3 chances why not 2 or 4. :blink:

1st time I smile :)
2nd time I warn :dry:
3rd time I make them understand :angry:
then I take full action :evil: :evil:


I would like to know the details of the full actions you take :ohmy: :ohmy:


Some times I fire them, some other times I fired them and most of the times I would show them the right way to behave. I have my own working manual. You know heading a big team is not an easy job.


Yes very true though I am still to gain some experiences of heading a big team maybe then I would also apply these steps. Thanks for sharing :)

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Mistakes are the unavoidable part of our lives. Though we try to avoid them but these are inevitable. Some mistakes are small, some are big it depends on the consequences that may occur as a result of the mistakes. :evil:


Mistakes are no doubt unavoidable. Only the lazy and good for nothing make no mistakes. If you do nothing, there is no mistake possible.

It is rightly said- To err is human. Although to err is human, it is not easy to forget and forgive because to forgive is divine and not human. Only a person with divine quality may forgive.


The grant of forgiveness depends on the impact of the mistake on an individual or his/her life. If for instant the harm is too big the person might not forget and forgive the wrong-doer at any case. While small mistakes that have nil harm effects are sometimes forgotten with a smile. :)


Yes sometimes mistakes are such an impact that it creates a difference between 2 people for whole life. :blink:

I don't forgive a mistake doer so easily even if it effects me lightly also because the person should realize it that he/she has done something wrong otherwise he/she would repeat it again. :blink:


No, I dont subscribe to this theory- I give 3 chances to any one who hurts me but once his 3 chances do not make him understand then of course I take the final action and teach him a lesson to remember for ever. Cheers.


You theory is OK but any reason why 3 chances why not 2 or 4. :blink:

1st time I smile :)
2nd time I warn :dry:
3rd time I make them understand :angry:
then I take full action :evil: :evil:


I would like to know the details of the full actions you take :ohmy: :ohmy:


Some times I fire them, some other times I fired them and most of the times I would show them the right way to behave. I have my own working manual. You know heading a big team is not an easy job.


Yes very true though I am still to gain some experiences of heading a big team maybe then I would also apply these steps. Thanks for sharing :)


I wish you well, I hope you will make a good leader if you shall keep following my ways. :laugh: :laugh: :laugh: :laugh:

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