What Makes You Angry!!

Now I dont break my mobile Sandhya you know one thing if I had faced problem with a person I will show what he told me at that time after several years also. I will remember each and every thing i.e like a words punishment to him.

Now I dont break my mobile Sandhya you know one thing if I had faced problem with a person I will show what he told me at that time after several years also. I will remember each and every thing i.e like a words punishment to him.

But, by this way, you are punishing yourself also. Am I not right?
Will you feel happy whenever you think of that person?

Yes you are right but that time when I had a fight with him I will remember that after I will that words.

Yes you are right but that time when I had a fight with him I will remember that after I will that words.

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Yes you are right but that time when I had a fight with him I will remember that after I will that words.

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I also can't understand what he mean by this :woohoo:

Nothing to say I will use the same words which he used when i had fight with him.

Nothing to say I will use the same words which he used when i had fight with him.

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To me, nothing makes me angry, I am anger proof. I put my hat on and rain in the dance. That makes me cool.

To me, nothing makes me angry, I am anger proof. I put my hat on and rain in the dance. That makes me cool.

actually, it is more dangerous to stay cool controlling all emotions than shouting. I don't like it

I have found another reason.....
if anyone shouts at me, if i have not committed a mistake, i will become angry

I am still on my way, I never become angry, there is no use especially with people online. I have my own ways of taking my frustrations out of my system. I would never shout on any one.

I am still on my way, I never become angry, there is no use especially with people online. I have my own ways of taking my frustrations out of my system. I would never shout on any one.

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I am still on my way, I never become angry, there is no use especially with people online. I have my own ways of taking my frustrations out of my system. I would never shout on any one.

I'd love to be angry when the situation demands and justifies it! Won't make any attempt to pretend to be not![attachment:1]C:\fakepath\11770.gif[/attachment]

Yes absolutely!!!!

I don't think, we should be angry. But, at least try to solve that dead lock rather than keeping quiet. Isn't it? Some small mistakes or misunderstandings can often lead to lot of tensions later. Better...resolve it that time itself.

No way, I will never show it, this is not pretension. This is as clear as Crystal. I have my own ways. i can walk alone a long way.

No way, I will never show it, this is not pretension. This is as clear as Crystal. I have my own ways. i can walk alone a long way.

My life partner also has the same traits. Sometimes I even commit mistakes that anyone can become angry, like taking more time to become ready for an outing, becoming late, preparing a dish that is bad......
If it is my father, he will really become angry. I know it well. But if it is my husband, he never feel angry or never complaint about a dish. I even desire sometimes that he should scold me, if I become late or I prepare something wrong. But never do it. I again repeat same mistakes...ha ha
I don't know how he is able to keep cool.

Keeping your cool is the best way to make it obious. You know while some one expects a big explosion and finds nothing coming. that shocks him/her more than an outburst of anger.

No way, I will never show it, this is not pretension. This is as clear as Crystal. I have my own ways. i can walk alone a long way.

My life partner also has the same traits. Sometimes I even commit mistakes that anyone can become angry, like taking more time to become ready for an outing, becoming late, preparing a dish that is bad......
If it is my father, he will really become angry. I know it well. But if it is my husband, he never feel angry or never complaint about a dish. I even desire sometimes that he should scold me, if I become late or I prepare something wrong. But never do it. I again repeat same mistakes...ha ha
I don't know how he is able to keep cool.

Then you have an example right in your home, why don't you follow him!!
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I get angried when some one makes a mistake even after repeated instructions.

No, even then this would not make me angry, you know my juniors repeated same silly mistakes all over again but I kept telling them the right ways.

Sunil,
controlling angry is the real power.Unfortunately I am zero in it.

Abid, its really easy to control anger. but takes time. Every day early morning after you wake up, do 15 minutes meditation. You will see the change. Your anger will be controlled.