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But  Kalyani , while I appreciate your views of a young generation  , it is not getting reflected in matrimonial advts. where no one says they want a black girl but everyone wants a fair bride. Perhaps more time is needed, 
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Prayer takes different meaning for different situations. It is a plea when one is desperate, it is a thanksgiving when one achieves, it is hope when one is trying, it is a bargain when one is uncertain, it is a contract when one is taking a risk and it is a homecoming when one's time has come.
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vijay said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Some Physical traits that attract the people..
rambabu wrote: You view is honored and respected. No more bickering.   Thank you very much!
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10 years ago
rambabu wrote: You view is honored and respected. No more bickering.   Thank you very much!
10 years ago
rambabu said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Some Physical traits that attract the people..
@Vijay and Rambabu, we are all in the 21st century now and have come along way since racism was a norm. Like Rambabu has mentioned, Pele was lovingly called "Black Pearl" both because he was black and he outshone others in his achievements. There are many examples, to quote the most common one, we repeat jokes on sardarji left and right without stopping to think what a sardar may feel about it, that too is then an example of racism. But such stereotypes of whites and blacks are not really important or relevant today, at least for us young people, they hardly matter. My complexion is dusky and if someone calls dark or brown, I care a damn (pardon my language) I no longer if I am fair or dark, neither do young [people. So kindly stop making such comments and stop bickering like 2nd grade children!! Pardon me again, for that is how my son and his friends too behave!
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You view is honored and respected. No more bickering.  
10 years ago
@Vijay and Rambabu, we are all in the 21st century now and have come along way since racism was a norm. Like Rambabu has mentioned, Pele was lovingly called "Black Pearl" both because he was black and he outshone others in his achievements. There are many examples, to quote the most common one, we repeat jokes on sardarji left and right without stopping to think what a sardar may feel about it, that too is then an example of racism. But such stereotypes of whites and blacks are not really important or relevant today, at least for us young people, they hardly matter. My complexion is dusky and if someone calls dark or brown, I care a damn (pardon my language) I no longer if I am fair or dark, neither do young [people. So kindly stop making such comments and stop bickering like 2nd grade children!! Pardon me again, for that is how my son and his friends too behave!
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Sofs for his/her reply to the topic Some Physical traits that attract the people..
To quote my favorite poet Kalil Gibran   But if you love and must needs have desires, let these be your desires:To melt and be like a running brook that sings its melody to the night.To know the pain of too much tenderness.To be wounded by your own understanding of love;And to bleed willingly and joyfully.To wake at dawn with a winged heart and give thanks for another day of loving;To rest at the noon hour and meditate love's ecstasy;To return home at eventide with gratitude;And then to sleep with a prayer for the beloved in your heart and a song of praise upon your lips.   This is amazingly the most beautiful and realistic description about the  mystery called love to me. 
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Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic Some Physical traits that attract the people..
I was going through some old film magazine and one of the top actress of the sixties was asked, who was the most beautiful woman in the film Industry and after pondering over she replied , it was Lata Mangeshkar because when Lata sings you can only imagine  a very beautiful woman singing and you feel that she is as perfect and beautiful looking as the voice she sings in..
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rambabu said thank you to RAMAKRISHNAN. A for his/her reply to the topic Are you at peace within?.
I am not free. I am part of a family, a society and the humankind. As long as human relations exist I have to face the struggles of the external world, its turbulence and all contradictions of life. Success in struggles in the external world and fulfillment of desires give happiness and peace of mind, which are temporary. As long as attachment is there, eternal peace within will be a mirage. 
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Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Hello to everyone.
Good to see you again anil, hope you stay and remain active, looking forward to more interaction from you. Just stay and post on existing threads, no need for you to introduce yourself in a new thread.  
10 years ago
Well, we seem to have reached the saturation point for this particular topic too, so I hope you all don't mind if I lock the thread now. Thanks folks!
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Are you at peace within?.
Philophically, it's believed that Attachments are the reasons for lack of peace of mind. The day when you detach yourself from attachments,  you can proudly say that, " I have Peace of Mind."
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to RAMAKRISHNAN. A for his/her reply to the topic Are you at peace within?.
I am not free. I am part of a family, a society and the humankind. As long as human relations exist I have to face the struggles of the external world, its turbulence and all contradictions of life. Success in struggles in the external world and fulfillment of desires give happiness and peace of mind, which are temporary. As long as attachment is there, eternal peace within will be a mirage. 
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I am not free. I am part of a family, a society and the humankind. As long as human relations exist I have to face the struggles of the external world, its turbulence and all contradictions of life. Success in struggles in the external world and fulfillment of desires give happiness and peace of mind, which are temporary. As long as attachment is there, eternal peace within will be a mirage. 
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More than any psychological reasons it was actually the other way around when pink was accepted for boys and blue was for girls, but was not accepted by manufacturers and retailers and they started promoting the accepted 'pink-for-girls' and 'blue-for-boys' norms, more for commercial reasons. But somehow they are now stuck as gender stereotypes. However, now in the 21st century there is no need for us to stick the stereotypes as now men are now considered more cool when they appear as metrosexual men, men who take care of babies, cook for the family, help their wives etc. there are now more and more wide ranges of clothing for men where pink too is a dominant color. So we can help remove such gender stereotypes by allowing our children and encouraging them to choose colors according to their own likes and not just letting them stick to only such gender-biased hues.
10 years ago
A prayer can be something very simple as said by an innocent child or something with very deep and profound meaning. It is really hard to say what exactly it is, but it means a lot to many people. I personally cannot really express what it means for me but I found a lovely poem called "A  Wing and a Prayer" of which two stanzas I liked the best:   Under the wing of the angel, we feel protected Through powers to God, we feel connected   Peace is said to be offered on the wings of a dove, Prayers can bring peace along with hope, faith and love. Under the wing of an angel, we feel protected Through prayers to God, we feel connected. Peace is said to be offered on the wings of a dove Prayers can bring peace along with hope, faith, and love. - See more at: http://www.prayers-for-special-help.com/prayer-poems.html#sthash.PyeDC9Yk.dpuf Under the wing of an angel, we feel protected Through prayers to God, we feel connected. Peace is said to be offered on the wings of a dove Prayers can bring peace along with hope, faith, and love. - See more at: http://www.prayers-for-special-help.com/prayer-poems.html#sthash.PyeDC9Yk.dpuf Under the wing of an angel, we feel protected Through prayers to God, we feel connected. Peace is said to be offered on the wings of a dove Prayers can bring peace along with hope, faith, and love. - See more at: http://www.prayers-for-special-help.com/prayer-poems.html#sthash.PyeDC9Yk.dpuf
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