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MG Singh replied to the topic why men imagine women are attracted to them .
rambabu wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
The body structure of women always attract men towards her. God creates people as male and female for attracting each other. It is a natural phenomenon. Nothing wrong in that. But do not misuse this opportunity. Men have the tendency to misuse women if circumstances are fit for them because sexual feelings in men are higher than women. Women always should be careful in their dressings.
What exactly does careful mean ? Dis all the rapists who raped toddlers and babies d so because they were not dressed " Carefully' ? I think it is precisely this mindset and attitude by both women and men , especially women that breeds such an attitude among men !
I never say that all reasons behind rape is indecent dressing style of ladies. But this is one of the major reasons behind rape. Men with very poor personality always have the tendency to rape toddlers and babies also even if they are well dressed. They exploit ladies and babies because of their personality disorder.
Whether you agree or disagree, this is a fact that the ladies who expose sensitive parts of their body make men to be sexually attracted to them. We can avoid much of rape, if ladies can give little care while dressing.
Its a misconception to think that, if women are dressed covering the entire body, many atrocities on women can be reduced. Sex maniacs do not spare even the older women even a school going kid. Dressing may be one of the reasons for crimes like rapes. But not the only reason.
I wonder if people who talk of dress as a enticement of rape have studied the psychology of man. Many psychologists have opined a man will rape irrespective of dress. I will dismiss such comments out of hand. The most revealing dresses are worn in Denmark, where I have been and next to my cousins house, girls used to sunbathe in nude, but no rape. How silly can some Indian men get !!!!
9 years ago
rambabu liked a reply to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
rambabu wrote:
Now, what's happening in HaryanA where The Jat community is agitating for reservations. And this Reservation fever is spreading to other parts of the country. This situation is unwelcome. It goes without saying, the country is breaking in to small states. This in turn is a hazard that leads to weakening of this country. This situation will be used by our enemies. Country cannot develop. In a nutshell it all tantamount to Civil war. We will be fighting with each other.
You are right. India is heading in wrong direction and in years to come it will be worse. I blame Dr. Ambedkar who incorporated this retrograde step of reservation in the constitution. I don't know what will happen but surgery by Army rule will be a help and the President must act. History will damn him otherwise.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Farmer's suicide- Is this fashion!.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
The maximum number of suicide cases are in Karnataka and the CM Siddaramaiah had made some such similar statement , even more insensitive , saying committing suicide had become a habit with farmers in villages and reporting it with relish was a fashion with the media, he had even questioned the media asking them, dont you have anything better to write about, \....No discussion was started about that news was here but of course BJP is news ...Although I am totally against what the BJP minister said about the suicide , it is very insensitive !
Suicide is not solution of problem. I don't know why they are doing. In my state case of farmers suicide is not like other states. Suicide is not habit of farmers but rubbish statements is habit of leaders.
Truly, suicide is not a solution but the poor farmers usually are left with nothing else. The burden of debt is pathetic which frustrates them and they choose the path of suicide.
Respective state governments are expected to sell the farmers Seeds at a subsidized price. But sadly, many governments are selling away the seeds to black marketeers so that the respective MLA pockets the commission. Under such conditions, the farmers are forced to go for loans which, he cannot repay.
Last year agriculture minister of Punjab also pocket commission and duplicate pesticides supplied by manufactures. Crops of cotton destroyed with it. Resultant some farmers commit suicide. Farmers must be think for other means of income like polutry, dairy, and also another crops than traditional.
@anil Lack of education is one very important point which never allows the farmers to think beyond agriculture. There are options like poultry and many more but the farmers fail to take the advantage of it only because they do not have a sound educational and financial background.
You are right but in my area situation is differ. Farmers are much aware about education, Here farmers are doing new experiments in farming. They are also aware for size of their family. today I read one farmer, who was doing business in Canda come back to India and start organic farming. He is using pesticide which is made with cow urine and some local plants.
9 years ago
MG Singh liked a reply to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
rambabu wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
rambabu wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
vijay wrote:
Jats wil get reservation. Which caste next?
The fact is that as yet the Jats and the Patels have not got reservation. Agitation is on, but there is a dark underside as the the lower castes do not want higher castes to get reservation. Thus there is a cauldron for class conflict or war in years to come.
The way in which things are going on, I'm seeing all the conditions that lead to civil war clearly. I sincerely feel that it's time to declare emergency in the country.
@ Rambabu. I am glad you have pinpointed the problem. Yes, civil war can take place and its about time the president intervened and brought in Army rule for some time. he has the power to do it, but will he act ?
The president has to act. Otherwise the Country would burn from Kashmir to Kanyakumari. And I'm afraid, internal turbulence will be capitalized by our Neighboring Countries especially Pakistan.
I think president can't act, he can take any action only on the advice of cabinet.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Foreign bollywood actresses.
vijay wrote:
Now should people chose colors also as per your advice? Indian Sikhs have married into African families in Kenya and are accepted by them as their own. It is individuals choice.
Beauty is in the eyes of person who is looking, God Rama, Krishna and Vishnu are not fair color but we all worship them. I think Sikhs who is living in Kenya for many years have married with African girls. Indeed they also accept culture and tradition of that countries.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Anti India slogan in JNU, Delhi.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
rambabu wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
The whole incident reminds me of the bollywood movie Maachis where an innocent youth was picked up by the police. It actually happens and for the police the soft target is the innocent young minds and ultimately their lives get thrashed. If we go by the media report then we are now very sure about one fact that the JNU student's union President got falsely implicated. This is not a fair handling of a situation.
Now this case is in court, SC refused for bail of president of JNU. It is job of court declare some one innocent or guilty. What you write here may be right but why president called meeting in university campus without permission of Adm.
SC did not refuse the bail but it said that he must file the bail petition in HC first and that's why it did not hear the case. I know it is in the court but, do you think we should not have any voice about any case which is in court? We can easily discuss issues among ourselves. Next is if anyone called a meeting without permission means he/she is anti-nationalists, isn't it too much?
Don't forgot agenda of meeting. Afzal guru! It is opinion that one should not be allowed to favor a person who is punished by court.
The very purpose of the meeting was to protest against the hanging of Afzal Guru.
He is not yet punished by the court so I think everyone has the right to opine. Secondly, you must not forget that even The Delhi Police Commissioner has stated that if the accused student make a bail plea then the police department will not oppose it. I think this whole episode is quite deep rooted so we from outside should not judge on the basis of what we are made to see. I always feel that we come up with judgement very easily when the accused is not our own but that's not fair when we know that in many ways students do get trapped. So, let's pray that if the accused is really responsible for all kind of negative protests then he should not be spared but if otherwise then his life should not be shunted as it is being done now.
I am agree with you that it is early to say some thing final about this case. here we are not giving and judgement it is only gossip and it is based on information which we are receiving from different means. Why Delhi police commission said we will not oppose on bail, it is their internal matter.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic A Letter of Divorce Threat is a Cruelty .
Faith and trust is base of relation of Husband and wife. Wife write letter to her husband with this believe that it is matter between them and husband think about her problem. In this case husband used letter in court case, it is breach of trust.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
Thanks for the lovely wishes Usha. She is too busy with her work nowadays so she does not get much time post here.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
I know Sweta Senoy who was active here some time ago
Many Happy returns of the day Kalyani
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A Letter of Divorce Threat is a Cruelty .
usha manohar wrote:
Written by Shampa Sadhya
What's your opinion regarding the judgement given by the High Court in the case? Link is given below:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Wifes-letter-talking-of-divorce-remarriage-an-act-of-cruelty-HC/articleshow/51084192.cms
I truly support the judgement. Blackmailing of any kind should not be permitted.
As expected some Indian men would clap their hands at the judgment but an extremely unfair and immature judgment in my opinion, where the wife's feelings have not been taken into account but one single letter written by her probably out of frustration due to loneliness, has been taken as evidence. No mention whether the husband tried to rectify the situation, which is what a husband would do if he wants to set things right instead of keeping the letter for so many years and making an issue ! I feel the wife should be happy at the decision given by the court rather than challenging it because the fellow is simply not worth the trouble !
I agree, it seems rather unfair without making it clear what exactly caused the wife to write such a letter and what she really felt. It is quite unfair to base such a decision on one letter alone.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
@Kalyani Nandurkar Well, I don't know who this friend of yours is but I must say that she chose a beautiful gift for you. It's really a wonderful gift.
Thanks you Shampa, It is from Swetha Shenoy, one of the oldest members of boddunan, right from the days when boddunan was started, but she does not come in much due to time constraints.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic why men imagine women are attracted to them .
rambabu wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
The body structure of women always attract men towards her. God creates people as male and female for attracting each other. It is a natural phenomenon. Nothing wrong in that. But do not misuse this opportunity. Men have the tendency to misuse women if circumstances are fit for them because sexual feelings in men are higher than women. Women always should be careful in their dressings.
What exactly does careful mean ? Dis all the rapists who raped toddlers and babies d so because they were not dressed " Carefully' ? I think it is precisely this mindset and attitude by both women and men , especially women that breeds such an attitude among men !
I never say that all reasons behind rape is indecent dressing style of ladies. But this is one of the major reasons behind rape. Men with very poor personality always have the tendency to rape toddlers and babies also even if they are well dressed. They exploit ladies and babies because of their personality disorder.
Whether you agree or disagree, this is a fact that the ladies who expose sensitive parts of their body make men to be sexually attracted to them. We can avoid much of rape, if ladies can give little care while dressing.
Its a misconception to think that, if women are dressed covering the entire body, many atrocities on women can be reduced. Sex maniacs do not spare even the older women even a school going kid. Dressing may be one of the reasons for crimes like rapes. But not the only reason.
I wonder if people who talk of dress as a enticement of rape have studied the psychology of man. Many psychologists have opined a man will rape irrespective of dress. I will dismiss such comments out of hand. The most revealing dresses are worn in Denmark, where I have been and next to my cousins house, girls used to sunbathe in nude, but no rape. How silly can some Indian men get !!!!
9 years ago
rambabu liked a reply to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
rambabu wrote:
Now, what's happening in HaryanA where The Jat community is agitating for reservations. And this Reservation fever is spreading to other parts of the country. This situation is unwelcome. It goes without saying, the country is breaking in to small states. This in turn is a hazard that leads to weakening of this country. This situation will be used by our enemies. Country cannot develop. In a nutshell it all tantamount to Civil war. We will be fighting with each other.
You are right. India is heading in wrong direction and in years to come it will be worse. I blame Dr. Ambedkar who incorporated this retrograde step of reservation in the constitution. I don't know what will happen but surgery by Army rule will be a help and the President must act. History will damn him otherwise.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Farmer's suicide- Is this fashion!.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
rambabu wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
The maximum number of suicide cases are in Karnataka and the CM Siddaramaiah had made some such similar statement , even more insensitive , saying committing suicide had become a habit with farmers in villages and reporting it with relish was a fashion with the media, he had even questioned the media asking them, dont you have anything better to write about, \....No discussion was started about that news was here but of course BJP is news ...Although I am totally against what the BJP minister said about the suicide , it is very insensitive !
Suicide is not solution of problem. I don't know why they are doing. In my state case of farmers suicide is not like other states. Suicide is not habit of farmers but rubbish statements is habit of leaders.
Truly, suicide is not a solution but the poor farmers usually are left with nothing else. The burden of debt is pathetic which frustrates them and they choose the path of suicide.
Respective state governments are expected to sell the farmers Seeds at a subsidized price. But sadly, many governments are selling away the seeds to black marketeers so that the respective MLA pockets the commission. Under such conditions, the farmers are forced to go for loans which, he cannot repay.
Last year agriculture minister of Punjab also pocket commission and duplicate pesticides supplied by manufactures. Crops of cotton destroyed with it. Resultant some farmers commit suicide. Farmers must be think for other means of income like polutry, dairy, and also another crops than traditional.
@anil Lack of education is one very important point which never allows the farmers to think beyond agriculture. There are options like poultry and many more but the farmers fail to take the advantage of it only because they do not have a sound educational and financial background.
You are right but in my area situation is differ. Farmers are much aware about education, Here farmers are doing new experiments in farming. They are also aware for size of their family. today I read one farmer, who was doing business in Canda come back to India and start organic farming. He is using pesticide which is made with cow urine and some local plants.
9 years ago
MG Singh liked a reply to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Cwar may erupt with higher castes also asking for reservations.
rambabu wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
rambabu wrote:
MG Singh wrote:
vijay wrote:
Jats wil get reservation. Which caste next?
The fact is that as yet the Jats and the Patels have not got reservation. Agitation is on, but there is a dark underside as the the lower castes do not want higher castes to get reservation. Thus there is a cauldron for class conflict or war in years to come.
The way in which things are going on, I'm seeing all the conditions that lead to civil war clearly. I sincerely feel that it's time to declare emergency in the country.
@ Rambabu. I am glad you have pinpointed the problem. Yes, civil war can take place and its about time the president intervened and brought in Army rule for some time. he has the power to do it, but will he act ?
The president has to act. Otherwise the Country would burn from Kashmir to Kanyakumari. And I'm afraid, internal turbulence will be capitalized by our Neighboring Countries especially Pakistan.
I think president can't act, he can take any action only on the advice of cabinet.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Foreign bollywood actresses.
vijay wrote:
Now should people chose colors also as per your advice? Indian Sikhs have married into African families in Kenya and are accepted by them as their own. It is individuals choice.
Beauty is in the eyes of person who is looking, God Rama, Krishna and Vishnu are not fair color but we all worship them. I think Sikhs who is living in Kenya for many years have married with African girls. Indeed they also accept culture and tradition of that countries.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Anti India slogan in JNU, Delhi.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
rambabu wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
anil wrote:
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
The whole incident reminds me of the bollywood movie Maachis where an innocent youth was picked up by the police. It actually happens and for the police the soft target is the innocent young minds and ultimately their lives get thrashed. If we go by the media report then we are now very sure about one fact that the JNU student's union President got falsely implicated. This is not a fair handling of a situation.
Now this case is in court, SC refused for bail of president of JNU. It is job of court declare some one innocent or guilty. What you write here may be right but why president called meeting in university campus without permission of Adm.
SC did not refuse the bail but it said that he must file the bail petition in HC first and that's why it did not hear the case. I know it is in the court but, do you think we should not have any voice about any case which is in court? We can easily discuss issues among ourselves. Next is if anyone called a meeting without permission means he/she is anti-nationalists, isn't it too much?
Don't forgot agenda of meeting. Afzal guru! It is opinion that one should not be allowed to favor a person who is punished by court.
The very purpose of the meeting was to protest against the hanging of Afzal Guru.
He is not yet punished by the court so I think everyone has the right to opine. Secondly, you must not forget that even The Delhi Police Commissioner has stated that if the accused student make a bail plea then the police department will not oppose it. I think this whole episode is quite deep rooted so we from outside should not judge on the basis of what we are made to see. I always feel that we come up with judgement very easily when the accused is not our own but that's not fair when we know that in many ways students do get trapped. So, let's pray that if the accused is really responsible for all kind of negative protests then he should not be spared but if otherwise then his life should not be shunted as it is being done now.
I am agree with you that it is early to say some thing final about this case. here we are not giving and judgement it is only gossip and it is based on information which we are receiving from different means. Why Delhi police commission said we will not oppose on bail, it is their internal matter.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic A Letter of Divorce Threat is a Cruelty .
Faith and trust is base of relation of Husband and wife. Wife write letter to her husband with this believe that it is matter between them and husband think about her problem. In this case husband used letter in court case, it is breach of trust.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
Thanks for the lovely wishes Usha. She is too busy with her work nowadays so she does not get much time post here.
9 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
I know Sweta Senoy who was active here some time ago
Many Happy returns of the day Kalyani
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A Letter of Divorce Threat is a Cruelty .
usha manohar wrote:
Written by Shampa Sadhya
What's your opinion regarding the judgement given by the High Court in the case? Link is given below:
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/Wifes-letter-talking-of-divorce-remarriage-an-act-of-cruelty-HC/articleshow/51084192.cms
I truly support the judgement. Blackmailing of any kind should not be permitted.
As expected some Indian men would clap their hands at the judgment but an extremely unfair and immature judgment in my opinion, where the wife's feelings have not been taken into account but one single letter written by her probably out of frustration due to loneliness, has been taken as evidence. No mention whether the husband tried to rectify the situation, which is what a husband would do if he wants to set things right instead of keeping the letter for so many years and making an issue ! I feel the wife should be happy at the decision given by the court rather than challenging it because the fellow is simply not worth the trouble !
I agree, it seems rather unfair without making it clear what exactly caused the wife to write such a letter and what she really felt. It is quite unfair to base such a decision on one letter alone.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
Better late than never, Many Happy returns Of The Day Kalyani...It was really nice of her to remember and send you the gift, it is a pity, we dont get to see her posting here on the forum !
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
@Kalyani Nandurkar Well, I don't know who this friend of yours is but I must say that she chose a beautiful gift for you. It's really a wonderful gift.
Thanks you Shampa, It is from Swetha Shenoy, one of the oldest members of boddunan, right from the days when boddunan was started, but she does not come in much due to time constraints.
9 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic A lovely gift from a sweet friend.....
usha manohar wrote:
That is really nice Kalyani, was it from Sweta Shenoy ? moderator and one of the older members here ?
Yes, Usha it is Swetha Shenoy, it was my birthday yesterday so she remembered and sent it in advance.
9 years ago