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usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar answered the question Has Gandhijis non violent approach become outdated now?.
It has become pretty much outdated. The kind of Gandhigiri made so famous by the Munnabhai movie works only in cinemas, for us to believe that nonviolent approach can bring changes in what is happening around us, is a fantastic idea. It is the Maltheus theory at work, the earth is becoming overburdened by growing human population and for it to achieve a balance, it is but natural that people resort to violent means to reduce populations. Where hunger, famine, floods, destruction by war have become a norm, Gandhiji's means are quite ineffective.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
People always get carried away by charisma and when that becomes the judging point then it's unfortunate. The worst part is, those who have to prove themselves not only on the basis of work but also shine brightly despite of his timid look is always doubly taxing but can be achieved easily through self belief. Late Lal Bahadur Shastri proved his might in every way with his strong ability.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic It can happen in India only!.
suni51 I used to visit church in my school campus but I don't remember that I stood their praising Jesus. I offered my prayer to God who is one and that was surely not just in appreciation of Jesus but God as a whole.
@Kalyani Nandukar What you said is absolutely correct. Actually. each and everyone do not think broadly while it relates to religion. So, good and bad incidents both take place but the point is those who respect others' belief they need to remain neutral while some bad incident takes place. Just see what happened recently in UP when a Hindu outfit killed a Muslim on a fake claim that his family slaughtered a cow. This is awful. Some people from both the communities are equally responsible for polluting the relationship while some in both the communities believe in peace and harmony.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
People always get carried away by charisma and when that becomes the judging point then it's unfortunate. The worst part is, those who have to prove themselves not only on the basis of work but also shine brightly despite of his timid look is always doubly taxing but can be achieved easily through self belief. Late Lal Bahadur Shastri proved his might in every way with his strong ability.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Why People always peep into others life?.
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
It is the nature of people to keep asking personal questions and it is just another way of showing concern about you. You need not take such things seriously, only speak firmly and politely and tell them that you do not like others asking such personal questions and you will tell about such things when you feel the time is right. Be firm and do not show your irritation!
I agree that being firm is the best solution for such unabated curiosity about others personal life ! It also shows how jobless many people are ! This is found equally among men and women , both of whom love gossiping if they had the opportunity !
True Usha, when it comes to comes to poking noses into other peoples' lives, most indeed have no other work but their primary concern is only trying to know as much as possible about what others do! Firmness and sticking to your guns work to keep them n their place.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
Shastriji was the real son of this soil, a humble and down-to-earth gentleman who inspired many to lead a simple, honest life like him. Although we do remember his jai jawan jai kisan, sadly it is only on rare occasions and his vision has been lost. I hope it is revived and something is done about reviving the agriculture, that would be the true tribute to this great man.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
suhas wrote:
HELLO,
This is my first reply on this nice forum= It is very nice idea to share a good food- which is our one of Imp.need
out of three. (Food, clothing,House). Now a days we share everything on this fast vast network--so why not share food?
Here i remember the good sentence reading in some of magazines are--> Live for today not for tomorrow,
Live the EXTREME !!!!!!! Because you got yourself only one life… LIVE IT !!!!.!.! "
Welcome to boddunan Suhas, glad to see you like it here. Although I am sure that sharing what you have with others less fortunate also does indeed qualify to be included in your motto 'live to the fullest, because you have only one life'. We need not wait for other lives to do good.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Remembering Mahatma Gandhi..
vijay wrote:
Gandhiji and Shastri are remembered on their birthdays in a routine manner. Their teachings are long forgotten. I had the good fortune of seeing Shastriji a few months after 1965 war and still remember the thrill I felt at seeing him from so near and the wildly cheering crowd that greeted him. Today crowds have to be paid to attend meetings.
Lucky you. Very few have got such an opportunity to see a leader of such a stature like Shastriji. Gandhiji was forgotten even when he was alive. What to speak of now
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
Yes,time to remember this illustrations son of
India! When the mantle of the highest executive
position fell upon him it was truly a baptism by
fire because Pundit Nehru's charisma, his towering
standing ,all creating many Doubting Thomases
for Shastriji but he in his tragically brief tenure
answered them all in his own unique way
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
An extremely awesome idea. This idea should be promoted more and more in every corner of our country. Hopefully, it will help to eradicate hunger.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
Such a innovative idea of sharing food with poor children, great initiative indeed:
https://www.facebook.com/ravijain21/videos/10151569768169259/
If each one of us think on those lines a lot can be done to eradicate hunger . People who can afford to eat well never think of people who are less fortunate...If only there is social awareness in people ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic How do you deal with an insult?.
When the person is unwilling to communicate and clear any misunderstandings/hurt feelings/ego hassles or whatever it is that is making him/her behave that way, it is either because he/she is very hurt or unreasonable .I feel you should just leave the person alone to come to terms with himself/herself and once the intensity is gone , things may get sorted out between the two of you ..
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar answered the question Has Gandhijis non violent approach become outdated now?.
It has become pretty much outdated. The kind of Gandhigiri made so famous by the Munnabhai movie works only in cinemas, for us to believe that nonviolent approach can bring changes in what is happening around us, is a fantastic idea. It is the Maltheus theory at work, the earth is becoming overburdened by growing human population and for it to achieve a balance, it is but natural that people resort to violent means to reduce populations. Where hunger, famine, floods, destruction by war have become a norm, Gandhiji's means are quite ineffective.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
People always get carried away by charisma and when that becomes the judging point then it's unfortunate. The worst part is, those who have to prove themselves not only on the basis of work but also shine brightly despite of his timid look is always doubly taxing but can be achieved easily through self belief. Late Lal Bahadur Shastri proved his might in every way with his strong ability.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic It can happen in India only!.
suni51 I used to visit church in my school campus but I don't remember that I stood their praising Jesus. I offered my prayer to God who is one and that was surely not just in appreciation of Jesus but God as a whole.
@Kalyani Nandukar What you said is absolutely correct. Actually. each and everyone do not think broadly while it relates to religion. So, good and bad incidents both take place but the point is those who respect others' belief they need to remain neutral while some bad incident takes place. Just see what happened recently in UP when a Hindu outfit killed a Muslim on a fake claim that his family slaughtered a cow. This is awful. Some people from both the communities are equally responsible for polluting the relationship while some in both the communities believe in peace and harmony.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
People always get carried away by charisma and when that becomes the judging point then it's unfortunate. The worst part is, those who have to prove themselves not only on the basis of work but also shine brightly despite of his timid look is always doubly taxing but can be achieved easily through self belief. Late Lal Bahadur Shastri proved his might in every way with his strong ability.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Why People always peep into others life?.
usha manohar wrote:
Kalyani Nandurkar wrote:
It is the nature of people to keep asking personal questions and it is just another way of showing concern about you. You need not take such things seriously, only speak firmly and politely and tell them that you do not like others asking such personal questions and you will tell about such things when you feel the time is right. Be firm and do not show your irritation!
I agree that being firm is the best solution for such unabated curiosity about others personal life ! It also shows how jobless many people are ! This is found equally among men and women , both of whom love gossiping if they had the opportunity !
True Usha, when it comes to comes to poking noses into other peoples' lives, most indeed have no other work but their primary concern is only trying to know as much as possible about what others do! Firmness and sticking to your guns work to keep them n their place.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
Shastriji was the real son of this soil, a humble and down-to-earth gentleman who inspired many to lead a simple, honest life like him. Although we do remember his jai jawan jai kisan, sadly it is only on rare occasions and his vision has been lost. I hope it is revived and something is done about reviving the agriculture, that would be the true tribute to this great man.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
suhas wrote:
HELLO,
This is my first reply on this nice forum= It is very nice idea to share a good food- which is our one of Imp.need
out of three. (Food, clothing,House). Now a days we share everything on this fast vast network--so why not share food?
Here i remember the good sentence reading in some of magazines are--> Live for today not for tomorrow,
Live the EXTREME !!!!!!! Because you got yourself only one life… LIVE IT !!!!.!.! "
Welcome to boddunan Suhas, glad to see you like it here. Although I am sure that sharing what you have with others less fortunate also does indeed qualify to be included in your motto 'live to the fullest, because you have only one life'. We need not wait for other lives to do good.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Remembering Mahatma Gandhi..
vijay wrote:
Gandhiji and Shastri are remembered on their birthdays in a routine manner. Their teachings are long forgotten. I had the good fortune of seeing Shastriji a few months after 1965 war and still remember the thrill I felt at seeing him from so near and the wildly cheering crowd that greeted him. Today crowds have to be paid to attend meetings.
Lucky you. Very few have got such an opportunity to see a leader of such a stature like Shastriji. Gandhiji was forgotten even when he was alive. What to speak of now
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Today is the birthday of Lalbahadur shashtri too..
Yes,time to remember this illustrations son of
India! When the mantle of the highest executive
position fell upon him it was truly a baptism by
fire because Pundit Nehru's charisma, his towering
standing ,all creating many Doubting Thomases
for Shastriji but he in his tragically brief tenure
answered them all in his own unique way
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to Shampa Sadhya for his/her reply to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
An extremely awesome idea. This idea should be promoted more and more in every corner of our country. Hopefully, it will help to eradicate hunger.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar said thank you to usha manohar for his/her reply to the topic What a great idea to share food!.
Such a innovative idea of sharing food with poor children, great initiative indeed:
https://www.facebook.com/ravijain21/videos/10151569768169259/
If each one of us think on those lines a lot can be done to eradicate hunger . People who can afford to eat well never think of people who are less fortunate...If only there is social awareness in people ..
10 years ago