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chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
The air is too thick with acrimony and anger
to venture into giving a rational.I personally
any friction retards progress.The moment
for reflection and introspection has arrived.
Life is too short to be squandered away
over small things.The biggest problem the
world has met is from small people with
bigger egos.I hope I am able to put my
thoughts across to you all!!
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
Discussion forums, during the course of discussions it is but natural to generate some heated arguments. Instead of appeasing the situation with soft and convincing way, members create ugly scenes. This situation mars the very spirit if the forums. In this scenario Moderators have an important role in bringing back the situation to normalcy. Anyhow it all amounts to Teamwork. Both members and Moderators work in tandem and keep the Discussion forum clean and blemish less.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
The mess they have made of the issue is honestly appalling ! One of the SP MPs wants the UN to intervene and the others have all jumped into the bandwagon and issuing statements left right and center.I feel that the election in Bihar too has an impact because the politicians want to get some mileage out of this issue.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Sunil has a key role in bringing some changes in this site especially after the site' renovation. And just when all of us are looking towards him for further changes, this decision has caused lot of disappointment in the community of Boddunan. I request Sunil on behalf of all the members to reconsider his decision.
10 years ago
Manoj Kumar Lamba replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
In India the politicians have changed the meaning of secularism. To please their vote bank, they abuse majority and show their sympathy towards minority.(actually they don't care for majority or minority, they only care for themselves). In this recent case also politicians unnecessarily given statements on sensitive issue and tried show their sympathy towards their vote bank.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
I am sad at this turn of events.He has been instrumental in keeping the forum alive with a few laudable initiatives.If he doesn't want to reveal the exact reason which has led to this I won't ask for any.After all he values self-respect more than anything else.He must have arrived at this decision after factoring in all aspects. However I would fondly wish his reversal of the decision and return to the forum.All the very best,Sunil!!!
I second that chinmoy..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
One more point I would like to add ...
In an ideal discussion site members should give space to others and not let minor misunderstandings or mistakes made by other members become major issues . When we complain to the moderators we have to take many things into account - first of all whether we are in the right , since no one is perfect.
Moderators on their part should take care to see that the complaints are valid , in fact make sure that the person who has complained has not done because he or she has some grudge against the member, which can easily happen with some members! It happened in the past and it may have happened again .But in the best interest of the site such things should never be encouraged. In fact I have always brought out my complaints if any on the open forum so that the other person has the opportunity to present his/her views , rather than go behind someones back and complain.
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
I am sad at this turn of events.He has been instrumental in keeping the forum alive with a few laudable initiatives.If he doesn't want to reveal the exact reason which has led to this I won't ask for any.After all he values self-respect more than anything else.He must have arrived at this decision after factoring in all aspects. However I would fondly wish his reversal of the decision and return to the forum.All the very best,Sunil!!!
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Channel your inner child..
And this child in us has to be brought out sometimes. It helps in keeping you busy. This in turn helps in many ways to make your health good that's free from any ailments.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
We all know about the characteristics f an Indian politician. They are like chameleons suiting to the occasion. And we also know this trait was there and will be there. No use of making a hue and cry over this regular feature which are prevalent everywhere.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
I think , Sunil might be having his own reasons. Let's leave the things to him alone.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I named the person in the report i made to the moderators. That's enough.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How To Stop Biting Your Fingernails.
Anxiety will lead to lot of disastrous health Problems. Though it is a fact that nail biting is a habit with many, it should not be overlooked.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
An imperfect world should not be an excuse for non-pursuit of perfection.Similarly your philosophy of letting hundred wrong doing to protect a single innocence is a bundle of confusion and contradiction.If we allow 100 thieves the benefit of thefts we make more or less than 100 victims protecting only wrong-doers!
I too am confused about this statement , I wonder what Maverick meant by it...Probably he has his reasons !
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic How To Stop Biting Your Fingernails.
yes sometime i do this ,well i think most of us do this because of some problem we are having related to our daily life . Well i have read this article and i got that i was having this problem because of some anxiety i am having.
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic Channel your inner child..
yeah everyone in his/her life have faced childhood and that experience no one can forget even he/she becomes adult or old .The childish behaviour remains in oneself .
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
RAMAKRISHNAN. A wrote:
I am also confused....and do not know what happened exactly?!
yes sir i am too confused does #suni sir mean that he is leaving this website
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
yes its true that India is a secular country but because of some political leader this seems to be wrong. Some leader opposite the meaning of secular country, their only intension is to collect more and more vote from people by supporting their community only.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
Because of this I complained to the Moderators. And this Moderators also agreed with me and identified the concerned Point hunter. It's easy to identify Point hunters. I can name them. Even another moderator too identified that particular point hunter
Why should I name the point hunter ? Moderator who attended to my complaint is here. Let him say. I'm just an ordinary member here.
Because you yourself volunteered to name the person..
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
The air is too thick with acrimony and anger
to venture into giving a rational.I personally
any friction retards progress.The moment
for reflection and introspection has arrived.
Life is too short to be squandered away
over small things.The biggest problem the
world has met is from small people with
bigger egos.I hope I am able to put my
thoughts across to you all!!
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
Discussion forums, during the course of discussions it is but natural to generate some heated arguments. Instead of appeasing the situation with soft and convincing way, members create ugly scenes. This situation mars the very spirit if the forums. In this scenario Moderators have an important role in bringing back the situation to normalcy. Anyhow it all amounts to Teamwork. Both members and Moderators work in tandem and keep the Discussion forum clean and blemish less.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
The mess they have made of the issue is honestly appalling ! One of the SP MPs wants the UN to intervene and the others have all jumped into the bandwagon and issuing statements left right and center.I feel that the election in Bihar too has an impact because the politicians want to get some mileage out of this issue.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Sunil has a key role in bringing some changes in this site especially after the site' renovation. And just when all of us are looking towards him for further changes, this decision has caused lot of disappointment in the community of Boddunan. I request Sunil on behalf of all the members to reconsider his decision.
10 years ago
Manoj Kumar Lamba replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
In India the politicians have changed the meaning of secularism. To please their vote bank, they abuse majority and show their sympathy towards minority.(actually they don't care for majority or minority, they only care for themselves). In this recent case also politicians unnecessarily given statements on sensitive issue and tried show their sympathy towards their vote bank.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
chinmoymukherjee wrote:
I am sad at this turn of events.He has been instrumental in keeping the forum alive with a few laudable initiatives.If he doesn't want to reveal the exact reason which has led to this I won't ask for any.After all he values self-respect more than anything else.He must have arrived at this decision after factoring in all aspects. However I would fondly wish his reversal of the decision and return to the forum.All the very best,Sunil!!!
I second that chinmoy..
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
One more point I would like to add ...
In an ideal discussion site members should give space to others and not let minor misunderstandings or mistakes made by other members become major issues . When we complain to the moderators we have to take many things into account - first of all whether we are in the right , since no one is perfect.
Moderators on their part should take care to see that the complaints are valid , in fact make sure that the person who has complained has not done because he or she has some grudge against the member, which can easily happen with some members! It happened in the past and it may have happened again .But in the best interest of the site such things should never be encouraged. In fact I have always brought out my complaints if any on the open forum so that the other person has the opportunity to present his/her views , rather than go behind someones back and complain.
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
I am sad at this turn of events.He has been instrumental in keeping the forum alive with a few laudable initiatives.If he doesn't want to reveal the exact reason which has led to this I won't ask for any.After all he values self-respect more than anything else.He must have arrived at this decision after factoring in all aspects. However I would fondly wish his reversal of the decision and return to the forum.All the very best,Sunil!!!
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Channel your inner child..
And this child in us has to be brought out sometimes. It helps in keeping you busy. This in turn helps in many ways to make your health good that's free from any ailments.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
We all know about the characteristics f an Indian politician. They are like chameleons suiting to the occasion. And we also know this trait was there and will be there. No use of making a hue and cry over this regular feature which are prevalent everywhere.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
I think , Sunil might be having his own reasons. Let's leave the things to him alone.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
I named the person in the report i made to the moderators. That's enough.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How To Stop Biting Your Fingernails.
Anxiety will lead to lot of disastrous health Problems. Though it is a fact that nail biting is a habit with many, it should not be overlooked.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
An imperfect world should not be an excuse for non-pursuit of perfection.Similarly your philosophy of letting hundred wrong doing to protect a single innocence is a bundle of confusion and contradiction.If we allow 100 thieves the benefit of thefts we make more or less than 100 victims protecting only wrong-doers!
I too am confused about this statement , I wonder what Maverick meant by it...Probably he has his reasons !
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic How To Stop Biting Your Fingernails.
yes sometime i do this ,well i think most of us do this because of some problem we are having related to our daily life . Well i have read this article and i got that i was having this problem because of some anxiety i am having.
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic Channel your inner child..
yeah everyone in his/her life have faced childhood and that experience no one can forget even he/she becomes adult or old .The childish behaviour remains in oneself .
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
RAMAKRISHNAN. A wrote:
I am also confused....and do not know what happened exactly?!
yes sir i am too confused does #suni sir mean that he is leaving this website
10 years ago
bhuyali saroj replied to the topic India is a secular country but our leaders? .
yes its true that India is a secular country but because of some political leader this seems to be wrong. Some leader opposite the meaning of secular country, their only intension is to collect more and more vote from people by supporting their community only.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic In your opinion what is an ideal discussion ?.
Because of this I complained to the Moderators. And this Moderators also agreed with me and identified the concerned Point hunter. It's easy to identify Point hunters. I can name them. Even another moderator too identified that particular point hunter
Why should I name the point hunter ? Moderator who attended to my complaint is here. Let him say. I'm just an ordinary member here.
Because you yourself volunteered to name the person..
10 years ago