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chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
It is my belief that I am what I am independent
of what others judge me to be! In the ultimate
analysis we have to be accountable to our inner
shelves at the end of the day.About people we
are surrounded with,I won't care much to ones
whose beliefs,tastes,philosophies are diametrically
opposite to that of mine and at the same time
I ensure making no big issues out of our difference.
I would not allow them to deny me the pleasure
of life!
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
Thanks admin for bringing these points in front of the forum members. So the rule of multiple postings in a row is non-existing which is a good news as many sites allow its members to do that. It will benefit the site and members directly and indirectly.
Now that all rules are clear including posting guidelines there are no further issues and I can name two members with best ideas
rambabu and Chinmoy,
Thanks everyone for your valuable comments, the thread is locked now.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
I think we can always choose the kind of people we want to be seen with. If it is totally unavoidable to get away from dishonest people at work, you can still make yourself appear different from them by the way you work. After all, when we are at work, it is the kind of work we do and the way we do it that defines us. So as long as you take care of your honesty, sincerity and integrity, you do not have to worry about others.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
Ultimately everything depends on the individual..If you are not happy with something why stick on ? We choose the work spot and either we try to bring in some positive changes or else leave the work spot if you feel it is not favorable to you ..If it is a question of survival and you are unable to leave then you do what you have to do and leave the rest to take care of itself !
10 years ago
Jeets created new topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
Yes, you may be different person in your personal life or for other people but you will have different reputation at your work. It is due to the people you are surrounded with.
If you work with those people who are different on your face and different on your back, naturally your reputation will change accordingly.
You may be a peaceful person at your personal life but spending time with those kinds of people who are dishonest and biased at their work, it is natural that your attitude too will change. Either you will agree with them or oppose.
So for me reputation is what you get from your surrounding. It is just a mirror and reflection from others.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya took the quiz 'Say the Year' Quiz.
In this quiz, you will be required to identify the correct years in which some certain important events happened from the given choices.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya passed the quiz 'Say the Year' Quiz.
In this quiz, you will be required to identify the correct years in which some certain important events happened from the given choices.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya took the quiz General Q&A on Cricket.
This quiz is about Cricket,Lets know more about the game & players....Cricket is a team sport played between two teams of eleven players. It is a bat-and-ball game played on a roughly elliptical grass field, in the centre of which is a flat strip of ground 22 yards (20.12 m) long, called a pitch. TO know More Attemp this quiz..
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya passed the quiz General Q&A on Cricket.
This quiz is about Cricket,Lets know more about the game & players....Cricket is a team sport played between two teams of eleven players. It is a bat-and-ball game played on a roughly elliptical grass field, in the centre of which is a flat strip of ground 22 yards (20.12 m) long, called a pitch. TO know More Attemp this quiz..
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to rambabu for his/her reply to the topic How do you control your sitting habit?.
I assure you . There wont be any damage to your child's behavior. Because nothing pertaining to childhood habits remain forever. Because children are fickle minded by nature and with the age fickle mindedness would disappear.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Thank You all for your kind support, now the matter is resolved regarding forum postings, I hope you all will enjoy your forum discussion the way you were doing. Besides, the admin has made it clear that there is no issue in multiple/number of posts in a thread it will be more fun posting in the forums. Please carry on having fun of posting and interaction, all the best.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Every thing is New & Interesting.
Yes the forums are great place but I would like to request to you please take your attachments off. I could have done that but I would prefer if you do it yourself.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Thank You all for your kind support, now the matter is resolved regarding forum postings, I hope you all will enjoy your forum discussion the way you were doing. Besides, the admin has made it clear that there is no issue in multiple/number of posts in a thread it will be more fun posting in the forums. Please carry on having fun of posting and interaction, all the best.
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
In civilized society, it is preferred that the culprits be let free rather than punishing an innocent. Maverick's view need be taken in this context. It is correct to say that our site is a cooperative one that needs self discipline. The rules cannot be very rigid. It is also correct that nothing id perfect in the world. There are also some norms for regulation of forum. Most members are following these. some times, a few members indulge in some irregularities and gain. But ultimately they either quit or follow the rules in spirit. So let us perform on site to our best. We need not be very senitive on some occasional irregularities. Also the administration is not so lenient. In appropriate cases, some members have been debarred also. But this cannot be a rule. Such drastic measure is very rare.
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to chinmoymukherjee for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
What kind of a civilized society are you
talking about,Gulshanji?How the cause of
protecting innocence is justly served by
letting culprits free! Incompressible!
Recently the TMC goons in municipal elections
rained blows,fatally wounded voters cutting
across age,sex and all and the police looked
the way to protect the innocence of these
goons by not booking any.You must be very
happy with these civilized ways of this
civilized state! Though the context is different
but don't make things too free to jeopardize
freedom itself!!
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
So what I understand is majority people are against the restrictions, well I have to respect your views.
@kalyani, this is an open forum, everyone welcome here and can share their views freely. Nobody can command anyone here, it simply do not work in an open environment.
@chinmoy, sorry but I have to disagree. people who are supposed to do keep the discipline are already doing their job at their best, imho. At the end, this is the forum run by the community for themselves. If there are some deviations, I won't worry as there is no perfect thing in the world in any field.
@rambabu, any incidents reported will be taken care with due diligence. I don't worry about 100 wrong people gets benefit but I do worry if 1 innocent paid the price for no wrong doing.
Others, thanks for posting your views. At present there would be no change in any status. We will continue to take feedback from you guys.
I am breaking a rule here by posting twice consecutively in a row here but it is only now I read your response here carefully and have tried to discern exactly what you mean. I cannot help but disagree with you that if we know that there are a people doing wrong here then there is no way that can allow them to discontinue. Until now and hereon forth too, I am sure that you will allow me and other moderators the liberty of taking action against the concerned people here and will not question us if we have to delete threads or posts. But still, I wish you would be more forthcoming with your point of view. As far as one innocent person paying the price is concerned, I am seriously disturbed by your thoughts on this, too many have already paid the price and while this is an independent forum and people may come and go as they please, it does not really do us any good to lose a few good ones merely for the purpose of stoking the ego of a single person.
10 years ago
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
Thanks admin for bringing these points in front of the forum members. So the rule of multiple postings in a row is non-existing which is a good news as many sites allow its members to do that. It will benefit the site and members directly and indirectly.
Now that all rules are clear including posting guidelines there are no further issues and I can name two members with best ideas
rambabu and Chinmoy,
Thanks everyone for your valuable comments, the thread is locked now.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How do you control your sitting habit?.
I assure you . There wont be any damage to your child's behavior. Because nothing pertaining to childhood habits remain forever. Because children are fickle minded by nature and with the age fickle mindedness would disappear.
10 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani answered the question Who are parents? Those who give birth or those who take good care of child selflessly, give your opinion....
Natural or biological parents are obviously those who gave birth. It is they who bring up the child. But in exceptional circumstances, others may bring up the child adopted by them. They are also parents. Parents are really those who care and bring up the child irrespective of their being biological/ natural or foster.
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
It is my belief that I am what I am independent
of what others judge me to be! In the ultimate
analysis we have to be accountable to our inner
shelves at the end of the day.About people we
are surrounded with,I won't care much to ones
whose beliefs,tastes,philosophies are diametrically
opposite to that of mine and at the same time
I ensure making no big issues out of our difference.
I would not allow them to deny me the pleasure
of life!
10 years ago
chinmoymukherjee said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
Thanks admin for bringing these points in front of the forum members. So the rule of multiple postings in a row is non-existing which is a good news as many sites allow its members to do that. It will benefit the site and members directly and indirectly.
Now that all rules are clear including posting guidelines there are no further issues and I can name two members with best ideas
rambabu and Chinmoy,
Thanks everyone for your valuable comments, the thread is locked now.
10 years ago
Kalyani Nandurkar replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
I think we can always choose the kind of people we want to be seen with. If it is totally unavoidable to get away from dishonest people at work, you can still make yourself appear different from them by the way you work. After all, when we are at work, it is the kind of work we do and the way we do it that defines us. So as long as you take care of your honesty, sincerity and integrity, you do not have to worry about others.
10 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
Ultimately everything depends on the individual..If you are not happy with something why stick on ? We choose the work spot and either we try to bring in some positive changes or else leave the work spot if you feel it is not favorable to you ..If it is a question of survival and you are unable to leave then you do what you have to do and leave the rest to take care of itself !
10 years ago
Jeets created new topic Your reputation depends on what kind of people you are working with..
Yes, you may be different person in your personal life or for other people but you will have different reputation at your work. It is due to the people you are surrounded with.
If you work with those people who are different on your face and different on your back, naturally your reputation will change accordingly.
You may be a peaceful person at your personal life but spending time with those kinds of people who are dishonest and biased at their work, it is natural that your attitude too will change. Either you will agree with them or oppose.
So for me reputation is what you get from your surrounding. It is just a mirror and reflection from others.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya took the quiz 'Say the Year' Quiz.
In this quiz, you will be required to identify the correct years in which some certain important events happened from the given choices.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya passed the quiz 'Say the Year' Quiz.
In this quiz, you will be required to identify the correct years in which some certain important events happened from the given choices.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya took the quiz General Q&A on Cricket.
This quiz is about Cricket,Lets know more about the game & players....Cricket is a team sport played between two teams of eleven players. It is a bat-and-ball game played on a roughly elliptical grass field, in the centre of which is a flat strip of ground 22 yards (20.12 m) long, called a pitch. TO know More Attemp this quiz..
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya passed the quiz General Q&A on Cricket.
This quiz is about Cricket,Lets know more about the game & players....Cricket is a team sport played between two teams of eleven players. It is a bat-and-ball game played on a roughly elliptical grass field, in the centre of which is a flat strip of ground 22 yards (20.12 m) long, called a pitch. TO know More Attemp this quiz..
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to rambabu for his/her reply to the topic How do you control your sitting habit?.
I assure you . There wont be any damage to your child's behavior. Because nothing pertaining to childhood habits remain forever. Because children are fickle minded by nature and with the age fickle mindedness would disappear.
10 years ago
Shampa Sadhya said thank you to suni51 for his/her reply to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Thank You all for your kind support, now the matter is resolved regarding forum postings, I hope you all will enjoy your forum discussion the way you were doing. Besides, the admin has made it clear that there is no issue in multiple/number of posts in a thread it will be more fun posting in the forums. Please carry on having fun of posting and interaction, all the best.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Every thing is New & Interesting.
Yes the forums are great place but I would like to request to you please take your attachments off. I could have done that but I would prefer if you do it yourself.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Thank You Members- I enjoyed staying here.
Thank You all for your kind support, now the matter is resolved regarding forum postings, I hope you all will enjoy your forum discussion the way you were doing. Besides, the admin has made it clear that there is no issue in multiple/number of posts in a thread it will be more fun posting in the forums. Please carry on having fun of posting and interaction, all the best.
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to Gulshan Kumar Ajmani for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
In civilized society, it is preferred that the culprits be let free rather than punishing an innocent. Maverick's view need be taken in this context. It is correct to say that our site is a cooperative one that needs self discipline. The rules cannot be very rigid. It is also correct that nothing id perfect in the world. There are also some norms for regulation of forum. Most members are following these. some times, a few members indulge in some irregularities and gain. But ultimately they either quit or follow the rules in spirit. So let us perform on site to our best. We need not be very senitive on some occasional irregularities. Also the administration is not so lenient. In appropriate cases, some members have been debarred also. But this cannot be a rule. Such drastic measure is very rare.
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to chinmoymukherjee for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
What kind of a civilized society are you
talking about,Gulshanji?How the cause of
protecting innocence is justly served by
letting culprits free! Incompressible!
Recently the TMC goons in municipal elections
rained blows,fatally wounded voters cutting
across age,sex and all and the police looked
the way to protect the innocence of these
goons by not booking any.You must be very
happy with these civilized ways of this
civilized state! Though the context is different
but don't make things too free to jeopardize
freedom itself!!
10 years ago
suni51 said thank you to Kalyani Nandurkar for his/her reply to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
So what I understand is majority people are against the restrictions, well I have to respect your views.
@kalyani, this is an open forum, everyone welcome here and can share their views freely. Nobody can command anyone here, it simply do not work in an open environment.
@chinmoy, sorry but I have to disagree. people who are supposed to do keep the discipline are already doing their job at their best, imho. At the end, this is the forum run by the community for themselves. If there are some deviations, I won't worry as there is no perfect thing in the world in any field.
@rambabu, any incidents reported will be taken care with due diligence. I don't worry about 100 wrong people gets benefit but I do worry if 1 innocent paid the price for no wrong doing.
Others, thanks for posting your views. At present there would be no change in any status. We will continue to take feedback from you guys.
I am breaking a rule here by posting twice consecutively in a row here but it is only now I read your response here carefully and have tried to discern exactly what you mean. I cannot help but disagree with you that if we know that there are a people doing wrong here then there is no way that can allow them to discontinue. Until now and hereon forth too, I am sure that you will allow me and other moderators the liberty of taking action against the concerned people here and will not question us if we have to delete threads or posts. But still, I wish you would be more forthcoming with your point of view. As far as one innocent person paying the price is concerned, I am seriously disturbed by your thoughts on this, too many have already paid the price and while this is an independent forum and people may come and go as they please, it does not really do us any good to lose a few good ones merely for the purpose of stoking the ego of a single person.
10 years ago
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
10 years ago
suni51 replied to the topic Best 2 Ideas get Rs 20 each.
Maverick wrote:
Guys, lets don't deviate from our discussion, sorry for feeding unnecessary things in this forum. Yes, there are good enough measures to treat the people who do wrong-doings as you might have already seen in last few years and at the same time.
@Kalyani, first of all posting multiple replies is not come under rules violation, rather posting meaningless posts, "me too" kind of posts. I agree on some part with your views on letting innocent people go away because of other people's ego, however this is what exactly tried to convey in my earlier post too. At the same time, we cannot take any decision in hurry. As you can see in this post, we asked everyone for their views even before we decide to take any decision.
I would like to reiterate one point that this is a forum driven by community and each one has equal rights to express their views until they do not cross the line. If they cannot control the way things are going, editors/management is always at their rescue. And feel free to send me the mail using contact us form if nothing works out fine.
I hope you all agree for it. If yes, this thread can be locked out in next 24 hours.
Thanks admin for bringing these points in front of the forum members. So the rule of multiple postings in a row is non-existing which is a good news as many sites allow its members to do that. It will benefit the site and members directly and indirectly.
Now that all rules are clear including posting guidelines there are no further issues and I can name two members with best ideas
rambabu and Chinmoy,
Thanks everyone for your valuable comments, the thread is locked now.
10 years ago
rambabu replied to the topic How do you control your sitting habit?.
I assure you . There wont be any damage to your child's behavior. Because nothing pertaining to childhood habits remain forever. Because children are fickle minded by nature and with the age fickle mindedness would disappear.
10 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani answered the question Who are parents? Those who give birth or those who take good care of child selflessly, give your opinion....
Natural or biological parents are obviously those who gave birth. It is they who bring up the child. But in exceptional circumstances, others may bring up the child adopted by them. They are also parents. Parents are really those who care and bring up the child irrespective of their being biological/ natural or foster.
10 years ago