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Bajirao replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Yes I have heard too about many cases where the reason for divorce is sexual in competencies by husband, also sometime women claim her husband being impotent,where he is not able to satisfy her demands.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Anti India slogan in JNU, Delhi.
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
When the ruling party for most of the 6o odd years after independence has been practicing communalism and divisive politics , governing for the sake of power, intolerance is bound to set in and now it comes out in the open and the present government has the added difficult task of dealing with the previous governments misadventures ..
By this logic every new government will find previous governments a failure. let the new government make its policies and not search for alibis to cover anticipated failures. If the misadventures of previous governments were so monumental the new government overcame then in such short time. Even bias should have reasonability. Let fresh air blow.
The instances of examples of intolerance are in fact failures of governance for sake of power
So, failure of which governance for sake of power were you referring to ?
The failures in Kashmir to prevent anti national activities for sake of power which a member said is a case of tolerance.
You mean things were better before in Kashmir ? Someone has to rule the state after elections, so two parties have got together to do so...Would it have made any difference if Congress was one of the parties ? Probably worse since they created the mess in the first place and let it deteriorate ..
Why do you always bring focus on Congress rule which is history and has no bearing on the present situation. Good or bad they have been rejected by the people. Now the new dispensation has to deliver the goods. The fact that they are still not coming together to form a government in itself tells a lot. ISIS and Pakistani flags are being openly shown every Friday and no one has been arrested. Should we hold BJP responsible for it irresepective of what happened before. The State is tough to rule and every party is going to find it difficult to rule. I repeat again my observations where in the context that such happenings are being touted as our tolerance which I feel is lack of governance.
I see it as a steady deterioration of the situation in Kashmir over the years because of the previous government which simply cannot be waved away , because it could have been set right ...Now with terrorism becoming a global issue, Kashmir problem too has escalated. It also may be because of the internal support that the terror groups are receiving from within India and as far as the new government is concerned, we all know the change in situation and how it is being worked out ...
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Boddunan became boring.
It surely is a crude answer. Can a website operate on its founder alone. It has to have participation from visitors and that brings ads. So properly sharing is a normal gesture.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Would you like to read and see this?.
Yes her speech was relevant and best. Anupam was at his worst in reacting rather than responding. Suhail also spoke reasonably well focussing on good piints.
9 years ago
Bajirao replied to the topic Why Women love window shopping and men don't?.
I have seen as well many women don't like window shopping and the main reason is lack of time as window shopping consumes more time than required. Now a days women have to manage both house work and job as well, its very difficult to find the time for shopping. Also online shopping has become a trend which saves lot of time.
9 years ago
Bajirao replied to the topic Why Women love window shopping and men don't?.
Yes, that's true.. I have seen most of the men love to shop for electronic items and gadgets.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic marital rape in India.
anil wrote:
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
You are right sir relation between husband and wife much personal and both are not like to share these with others. But I read in newspaper that in some case sex was base of divorce. Here in my city one husband gave reason for divorce that his wife need enough sex and I am cann't satisfied her.
Yes. This happens. some women are more demanding and may be called nymphomaniac. An average man may not satisfy her. I think that this is her physical necessity. Man should allow her more freedom- even allow extra marital sex. Sometimes, man may be more demanding. But man can easily indulge in extra marital sex unlike woman.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Would you like to read and see this?.
This was a debate at Kolkatta. I heard all speeches. The topic was intolerance but many speakers made this Congress/ BJP affair. The last speaker Barkha Dutt made more most meaningful debate.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
You are right sir relation between husband and wife much personal and both are not like to share these with others. But I read in newspaper that in some case sex was base of divorce. Here in my city one husband gave reason for divorce that his wife need enough sex and I am cann't satisfied her.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani said thank you to MG Singh for his/her reply to the topic Boddunan became boring.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
vijay wrote:
The quality of posts should also be taken into consideration. Answering every post, passing harsh remarks on persons who cannot defend themselves on the forum like saying someone is a terrorist ad should be whipped or abusing a particular community should be discouraged and not rewarded. Some system can be worked out. Moderators should act neutral and not be seen outdoing members in negativity.
There are forum rules that nobody should post any remark insulting to others. A moderator may sometimes take action. But if some members continue breach of forum rules and even some moderator indulges, there is no way decency can come to forum. Moreover now there is neither revenue sharing nor moderator bonus. So there is also no incentive for moderators.
Now it seems that there is free for all. so you write what you like irrespective of quality and desirability of content. In view of overall environment in the country, this is not so bizarre. If TV channels can telecast anything including lectures by fake baabaas, propagate superstitions, doctored videos and lies, what is wrong if this site also follows suit.
So, if somebody is happy with and finds the site interesting, well. Also, one may try to make this interesting by own contribution. It is possible to bring new topics. Sarala says she used to write articles and also in forums. she can still write articles and earn on that. However now there is no financial benefit in forums. This is administrative matter and we can do nothing. I suggest that if your main object is to earn, just write articles and forget the rest of the site.
I think that is a good comment. Writing articles is also a great form of self expression
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic marital rape in India.
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Donald Trump and his Anti Moslem Stand: Any lessons?.
MG Singh wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Honestly I dont trust Trump for a single minute because he is a very cunning business man at the end of the day and will look after his interests ! However, anti terror laws certainly need to be tightened here in India because we are much more open to terror attacks
Yes I am agreed it is only election stunt. He is not speaking any thing about Pakistan who is major producer of terrorist.
No I don't think it is an election stunt. He is articulating the feelings in America. Trump is not talking of nations , but communuties. When he castigates Muslims , Pakistan is included. He is worried of Pakistan Nukes. That is the reason he says the US must not leave Afghanistan to save Pak nukes falling into hands of ISI etc.
It is good thing that he worried about Pakistan Nukes. But I think all Muslim community is not terrorist.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
After marriage men have full priority upon her wife. Marriage is a sacrament that make two people - husband and wife - a single person. In family life, wife do not have the right to reject sex if her husband wants it. But if she is physically tired, do not compel her for this. Husband should behave according to the circumstances. Do not force her for sex if she is physically weak. Otherwise, it will become rape.
Women are not property that after marriage men get the right on their wives' life and body. A successful married family is that where man and woman both respect each other's wish. There are unnumbered families in India who follow this rule and in exchange enjoy the bliss of a happy married life.
It is right that women are not property after marriage but for right my views some differ. After marriage both wife and husband have right on each other with some duties. If one don't understand problem of other than I think relation of marriage is worthless.
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Donald Trump and his Anti Moslem Stand: Any lessons?.
vijay wrote:
It would be worthwhile to know how Reagan broke the Soviet Empire ?
Please read this
http://www.unc.edu/depts/diplomat/archives_roll/2004_07-09/sempa_reagan/sempa_reagan.html
Reagon deserves a lot of Credit for the breaking of the Evil Empire as he dubbed the USSR
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Boddunan became boring.
vijay wrote:
the number of ads carried by the site have gone up significantly but the rewards for participating in forum and for writing articles is not increased to attract still more participation.
This point was raised with hubpages also. The answer is that sites are out to make money and if one really wants to make money, one should launch his own site.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Feeling Tired all day ? - Some Reasons ...
It is my problem, I am feeling much tiredness whole day. I also know reason of it, not having sound sleep. I have problem of sleeplessness for last 20 years. Problem of sleeplessness disturb our digestive system resultant many other health problem. I am faid-up with this situation, don't what to do.
9 years ago
Bajirao replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Yes I have heard too about many cases where the reason for divorce is sexual in competencies by husband, also sometime women claim her husband being impotent,where he is not able to satisfy her demands.
9 years ago
usha manohar replied to the topic Anti India slogan in JNU, Delhi.
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
vijay wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
When the ruling party for most of the 6o odd years after independence has been practicing communalism and divisive politics , governing for the sake of power, intolerance is bound to set in and now it comes out in the open and the present government has the added difficult task of dealing with the previous governments misadventures ..
By this logic every new government will find previous governments a failure. let the new government make its policies and not search for alibis to cover anticipated failures. If the misadventures of previous governments were so monumental the new government overcame then in such short time. Even bias should have reasonability. Let fresh air blow.
The instances of examples of intolerance are in fact failures of governance for sake of power
So, failure of which governance for sake of power were you referring to ?
The failures in Kashmir to prevent anti national activities for sake of power which a member said is a case of tolerance.
You mean things were better before in Kashmir ? Someone has to rule the state after elections, so two parties have got together to do so...Would it have made any difference if Congress was one of the parties ? Probably worse since they created the mess in the first place and let it deteriorate ..
Why do you always bring focus on Congress rule which is history and has no bearing on the present situation. Good or bad they have been rejected by the people. Now the new dispensation has to deliver the goods. The fact that they are still not coming together to form a government in itself tells a lot. ISIS and Pakistani flags are being openly shown every Friday and no one has been arrested. Should we hold BJP responsible for it irresepective of what happened before. The State is tough to rule and every party is going to find it difficult to rule. I repeat again my observations where in the context that such happenings are being touted as our tolerance which I feel is lack of governance.
I see it as a steady deterioration of the situation in Kashmir over the years because of the previous government which simply cannot be waved away , because it could have been set right ...Now with terrorism becoming a global issue, Kashmir problem too has escalated. It also may be because of the internal support that the terror groups are receiving from within India and as far as the new government is concerned, we all know the change in situation and how it is being worked out ...
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Boddunan became boring.
It surely is a crude answer. Can a website operate on its founder alone. It has to have participation from visitors and that brings ads. So properly sharing is a normal gesture.
9 years ago
vijay replied to the topic Would you like to read and see this?.
Yes her speech was relevant and best. Anupam was at his worst in reacting rather than responding. Suhail also spoke reasonably well focussing on good piints.
9 years ago
Bajirao replied to the topic Why Women love window shopping and men don't?.
I have seen as well many women don't like window shopping and the main reason is lack of time as window shopping consumes more time than required. Now a days women have to manage both house work and job as well, its very difficult to find the time for shopping. Also online shopping has become a trend which saves lot of time.
9 years ago
Bajirao replied to the topic Why Women love window shopping and men don't?.
Yes, that's true.. I have seen most of the men love to shop for electronic items and gadgets.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic marital rape in India.
anil wrote:
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
You are right sir relation between husband and wife much personal and both are not like to share these with others. But I read in newspaper that in some case sex was base of divorce. Here in my city one husband gave reason for divorce that his wife need enough sex and I am cann't satisfied her.
Yes. This happens. some women are more demanding and may be called nymphomaniac. An average man may not satisfy her. I think that this is her physical necessity. Man should allow her more freedom- even allow extra marital sex. Sometimes, man may be more demanding. But man can easily indulge in extra marital sex unlike woman.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic Would you like to read and see this?.
This was a debate at Kolkatta. I heard all speeches. The topic was intolerance but many speakers made this Congress/ BJP affair. The last speaker Barkha Dutt made more most meaningful debate.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
You are right sir relation between husband and wife much personal and both are not like to share these with others. But I read in newspaper that in some case sex was base of divorce. Here in my city one husband gave reason for divorce that his wife need enough sex and I am cann't satisfied her.
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani said thank you to MG Singh for his/her reply to the topic Boddunan became boring.
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani wrote:
vijay wrote:
The quality of posts should also be taken into consideration. Answering every post, passing harsh remarks on persons who cannot defend themselves on the forum like saying someone is a terrorist ad should be whipped or abusing a particular community should be discouraged and not rewarded. Some system can be worked out. Moderators should act neutral and not be seen outdoing members in negativity.
There are forum rules that nobody should post any remark insulting to others. A moderator may sometimes take action. But if some members continue breach of forum rules and even some moderator indulges, there is no way decency can come to forum. Moreover now there is neither revenue sharing nor moderator bonus. So there is also no incentive for moderators.
Now it seems that there is free for all. so you write what you like irrespective of quality and desirability of content. In view of overall environment in the country, this is not so bizarre. If TV channels can telecast anything including lectures by fake baabaas, propagate superstitions, doctored videos and lies, what is wrong if this site also follows suit.
So, if somebody is happy with and finds the site interesting, well. Also, one may try to make this interesting by own contribution. It is possible to bring new topics. Sarala says she used to write articles and also in forums. she can still write articles and earn on that. However now there is no financial benefit in forums. This is administrative matter and we can do nothing. I suggest that if your main object is to earn, just write articles and forget the rest of the site.
I think that is a good comment. Writing articles is also a great form of self expression
9 years ago
Gulshan Kumar Ajmani replied to the topic marital rape in India.
rape is never acceptable- marital or otherwise. But there are practical difficulties in establishing marital rape. It is not possible that the spouses sign an affidavit on judicial stamp and get this notarized before sex testifying that the sex is consensual. The relation between a husband and wife is very personal.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Donald Trump and his Anti Moslem Stand: Any lessons?.
MG Singh wrote:
anil wrote:
usha manohar wrote:
Honestly I dont trust Trump for a single minute because he is a very cunning business man at the end of the day and will look after his interests ! However, anti terror laws certainly need to be tightened here in India because we are much more open to terror attacks
Yes I am agreed it is only election stunt. He is not speaking any thing about Pakistan who is major producer of terrorist.
No I don't think it is an election stunt. He is articulating the feelings in America. Trump is not talking of nations , but communuties. When he castigates Muslims , Pakistan is included. He is worried of Pakistan Nukes. That is the reason he says the US must not leave Afghanistan to save Pak nukes falling into hands of ISI etc.
It is good thing that he worried about Pakistan Nukes. But I think all Muslim community is not terrorist.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic marital rape in India.
Shampa Sadhya wrote:
Jincy Aby wrote:
After marriage men have full priority upon her wife. Marriage is a sacrament that make two people - husband and wife - a single person. In family life, wife do not have the right to reject sex if her husband wants it. But if she is physically tired, do not compel her for this. Husband should behave according to the circumstances. Do not force her for sex if she is physically weak. Otherwise, it will become rape.
Women are not property that after marriage men get the right on their wives' life and body. A successful married family is that where man and woman both respect each other's wish. There are unnumbered families in India who follow this rule and in exchange enjoy the bliss of a happy married life.
It is right that women are not property after marriage but for right my views some differ. After marriage both wife and husband have right on each other with some duties. If one don't understand problem of other than I think relation of marriage is worthless.
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Donald Trump and his Anti Moslem Stand: Any lessons?.
vijay wrote:
It would be worthwhile to know how Reagan broke the Soviet Empire ?
Please read this
http://www.unc.edu/depts/diplomat/archives_roll/2004_07-09/sempa_reagan/sempa_reagan.html
Reagon deserves a lot of Credit for the breaking of the Evil Empire as he dubbed the USSR
9 years ago
MG Singh replied to the topic Boddunan became boring.
vijay wrote:
the number of ads carried by the site have gone up significantly but the rewards for participating in forum and for writing articles is not increased to attract still more participation.
This point was raised with hubpages also. The answer is that sites are out to make money and if one really wants to make money, one should launch his own site.
9 years ago
anil replied to the topic Feeling Tired all day ? - Some Reasons ...
It is my problem, I am feeling much tiredness whole day. I also know reason of it, not having sound sleep. I have problem of sleeplessness for last 20 years. Problem of sleeplessness disturb our digestive system resultant many other health problem. I am faid-up with this situation, don't what to do.
9 years ago