There are times when we feel it’s over and we are just not made for it; when we get dumped in relations, when we lose someone very dear ,when life seems to be so cruel and whatever we did to make it happen didn’t work it just ended leaving us broken and down. From businesses to relations, from competitions to exams, failure can really break hearts. What will you do now? Where will you go? Friends left, and the “only person” is gone, God doesn’t want to answer no matter how hard you beg Him- He seems indifferent!!It seems your life has been devoured by a big bad monster and you are rolling and tumbling in its stinking belly, seeking freedom.

Now don’t sweat, just take a deep breath and look around, everything is exactly where it’s supposed to be, in fact now you can see the reality much clearly, you know now not to take this road again, you know who your real friends are-the ones who stood by you when you needed them most, you know whom to trust, and most important you know life doesn’t always go as you plan. You failed-no regrets-pick yourself up, because everything you did before the amount of time and energy, the emotions you had for someone or something you lost, the hard work or the perspiration- “The Karma” that you gave out to the universe is not wasted! It shall be rewarded! It will eventually come back to you when you deserve it.

Break-ups bring maturity; failures let you re-think your strategies, if you fall down, rise up again-this time harder; just like a football-the harder you bang it on the ground the higher it raises. Karma will eventually get you; the type of energy you give out to the world is always the same type of energy which comes back to you-so it’s better to do good deeds for it will bring you good results. Remember there is no such thing as failure ,only an early attempt at success!!

What I mean is, failing is good for your soul, and it proves you that you are not the only one around! And that the world doesn’t go by your rules, it helps you to reconnect you to yourself- to what you are actually. Save the pain and the frustration, when you get down just remind yourself, this is not the end, and you just discovered another way that doesn’t work and one day your sincere efforts will be rewarded!