If you are going through a bad phase in your personal relationships. All your friendships seem to have become meaningless. You can’t figure out what is it that makes friendships last long. Why do issues crop up that rob all the trust and faith from relationships.

When there is so much love you take total responsibility for any misunderstanding. For a moment you may express dismay on the surface. but when you don’t feel that dismay in your heart you arrive at a perfect understanding’s you are in a state where all problems and all differences slide away and only love shines thru.

Usually we are stuck in our differences because we have lost sight of ourselves. In the name of love we try to manipulate and control the other person. it is natural that when we love someone ,we want them to be perfect.

you can never see the holes in the ground from the top of a hill. From an aero plane the earth looks so smooth. so also from a state of elevated consciousness ,you do not see the pitfalls in others. but if you come to the ground you always see the holes. When u want to fill the holes, you have to see them yo cannot build a home being airborne. you cannot till the land without looking at the holes, filling them, removing the pebbles.

that is why when you love someone, when you are close to them you find faults in them. but finding faults destroys love. and instead of helping them to fill the holes we run away. When you love someone and see their faults, stay either them and help them fill the holes. This is wisdom.

Have faith, keep loving him and see how he works magic in your relationships.