Positive Thinker:
Positive thinking means believing that out of given posible results (which includes positive and negative results) final result will be positive only and not the negative..its not thinking unrealistically.its thinking of positive solutions out of current list of outcomes. One who does this named as Positive Thinker!
"Positive thinking is expecting, talking and visualizing with certainty what you want to achieve, as an accomplished fact."
Is a famous quote.Be positive and get positive. What you think today you get it tommorow. our minds act on our thinking and it produces result accordingly.every one on this world is a wonder of this world. We all are from the same universal source. We have the same power. But there is difference in the consuming of power.Every one of us heroin some way or another.Every one of us has the potential for extraordinary achievement, happiness and lasting fulfillment. small victories leads to large victories.Positive thinking will create results.And results will inspire you towards greater personal changes.Live each day as fresh day and fill the difference. always live in the present and you will find golden future ahead.you destiny is in your hand if you think positively.
Negative sides of Positive Thinking:
Well enuf of Positive effects of positive thinking.Enough of "BE positive " attitude.Even when we know its not going to work anymore.We just cant believe anything.Surely if positive thinking really were so powerful, it wouldn't need so many books?Many important goals are intrinsically negative. Positive thinking isn't suitable for many important aspects of life and work.positive thinking , on the other hand , can lead to excess - more is toxic.There is difference between positive thinking and impractical +ve thinking.I can't yet say if there are any negative impacts to positive thinking, literal terms; if its positive how can it be negative, lateral terms; if it is positive, there is something relatively negative or completely negative. Remember integers?Would it not be safe to say If the thoughts yielded positive results we term it positive thinking and negative if it was the opposite, the road travelled could be bumpy but if results were fruitful, we would overlook the path taken and if the road travelled was smooth and the results unfavorable, we would tend to remember only the results again.It is not favoring the shades of ever present optimism, instead drawing attention to possibilities of every thought, and corresponding actions. It is the answers to questions we are asked everyday that place positive and negative on a the relativity scale.For example. If you were to cross a road with 2 way traffic (and a divider) , Looking towards the left/right may mean you have a positivity of no traffic coming through from the left/right and the moment you reach the divider, the left/right directions change the meanings.So, the secret lies in thinking on the "positive results" line and being able to alter the flow of thoughts to suit the favorable outcomes. positive thinking actually refers to formulating all your thoughts in a positive manner instead of negative manner, and then working out assertively to make these events come true.. positive thinking does not mean only thinking positively and doing nothing else!!
Goal:
how can a goal in life be negative? the person for whom its a goal, its a positive goal only.. it may be a negative achievement in eyes of society, on moral. ethical grounds, but for the performing individual, its definitely having a positivity.for example, a psychopath finds great satisfaction and contentment regarding his/ her own intellect or ability if he/ she kills animals, humans, or any other kind of Negative deed.This deed is negative for us, Because we can see the uselessness and malice of it, but it wont be perceived in same light by the psychopath him/ herself or, to make it more normal, you want to pull your boss down in eyes of management, so that you can then seize the post by few maneuvers, what you are doing is essentially becoming the villain in some poor person's life, but to achieve it, you need to have positive belief in your ability to observe, determine and react fast and efficiently when the opportunity arises. thats a positive belief the person needs to have on self .
Impacts :
Positive thinking is the fuel is that going to thrust you on the path of your success in whateve you do because if you dont believe that you can do it,you will never be able to do.Positive thinking is the boost for everything success.whenever you r optimistic then you are able to reach at a good heights because there are sometime in our life the situation comes that will broke us but if we will take that situation with a positive way then that will act as a good supporter for his/her success.Not only postive thinking matter we have to also do a lot of hard word with determination you are able to achieve your goal and when you are optimistic then nobody can break you.but it is possible that some time we underestimate the fact that our thoughts may cause some trouble in our life .for example:- if something is imposible and you just have the attitude that you think postive and you can do it,you get in to it and finally end up with nothing ,and after that you realise that you have created a mistake then you are in trouble.
positive thinking makes a person optimistic and think positive..it doesnt mean you become so much over-confident that later when you cant achieve a task you feel vulnerable but instead it entails you to struggle and try till you get success.Success is going from failure to failue without loss of enthusiasm.so positive thinking trails you on path of success and keep you motivated and enthusiastic.Positive thinking tells you not to leave your dreams.Don't get them vanish because of continuous defeat. that will be your dreams whick make you motivated and to achieve them.
It is impossible to isolate a "positive attitude" from all the other things that can affect your life. two people may both have a positive but only one of them has developed the skills needed to actually make it happen. i could swear by my positive attitude and say it does this and that but the truth is, i have a lot more than a positive attitude to make my life go smoother. i have a wide variety of skills and knowledge to go along with my attitude i also have an attitude to "make the most of every situation" which helps me too. but i have to believe, that a positive attitude alone, will never change the reality of a situation, although without it i bet all my skills would not have allowed me to have the life i have now so i would have to say, a positive attitude is an important ingredient in living a better life but it would be like making a cake with only icing,it might taste good but there would be no substance. A positively balanced attitude is more fruitful. It is very foolish to have a fully positive attitude. there's a fine difference between positive thinking in an effort to gain a positive attitude and positive thinking that's based on long term success.when you start out, the question is, what attitude is better a positive, negative or a neutral one? in terms of your attitude about yourself, i think you should always be positive and that will start out as just a positive attitude but it will evolve into confidence if you also develop the real skills to make it happen.This is not the same question as "should we be optimistic, pessimistic or realistic?" i will always say to be realistic but shoot for an optimistic outcome.At some places optimism is more important than being realastic but only where you have nothing to lose like in blue's example if you are severly ill you have nothing to lose by staying on but my friend forced me to read this book and it claims to have changed life of thousands including the secrets that led thomas edison to success.
it gives example of a man who is searching for gold mine after spending a lot of money and labor he found nothing later someone else tried at same place and found it just 3 feet away and the book goes on to say we should never give up as we may be just 3 feet from gold but is that sensible it is a rare chance that it came usually people waste all their lives in it it is like gambling should we not quit when we have lost enough without thinking that next step me be jackpot.
Making Positive Thinking a Habit:
Positive thinking can help us get the results we want in all areas of our lives. When we think of the things we want, we need to think of them and the ways of acquiring them in a positive way. For example, if we want to lose weight and be more fit, we would say, "I will eat healthy food consistent with the body weight I want to maintain," as opposed to "I will not eat junk food anymore," or "I have to go on a diet." Our minds do not usually follow instructions that are stated in the negative. The words "will not" and "have to" are negative, go against our will and result in inaction. To produce results that we want, we need to state what we want to ourselves in a positive way. The words "I want to," or "I will," are positive and imply to us that we want to take action.
Some Tips for more energetic you. i follow this hope it will help you to.
1) Eat Smaller meals throughout the day so that you dont feel hungry and then later binge.
2) Our Brain cells sometimes crave food which is more that our body requirements so take care of that, eat in moderation. Take a small plate and then fill it(its a trick your eyes will see that the plate is full and will provide signal to brain , and brain will acknowledge it.)
3) Eat more fruits and drink water. Water does wonder on your skin.(instead of drinking colas and other stuff with useless calories, drink water or fruit juices..)
Your positive attitude will increase:
There is no need of imposing positive attitude or positive thinking. But what is needed is to accept life as it comes. Life is a like a coin containing two sides, happiness and sadness. What is needed is to extract some good things in both cases.Everyone is affected from the atmosphere around him/her. This distracts our mind and we are thus digressed from our aims.Now when you think positively you attain a pure state of mind, which is free from phoney thinngs also (if you believe in God then) you can say that you are closer to God at that time.It is this pure state which gives us confidence and energy . we call it positive energy so there is no point in loosing.sometimes confidence may be achieved because of stability, but positive thinking helps us earning confidence even when we were unstable for some time , we were not getting success.
I think love really need positive thinking to some extent,but it will rather postive if make it liking by family too.so that there only positive thinking and positive point to acknowledge love.
Implement positive thinking in real life:
The best way to feel positive is to implement what we believe. It is not just by reading books or watching motivating movies that one can feel positive.If we really want to feel positive, then we should help someone else to come out of negativity. There are so many problems in the world today. If we get to see all those problems at the same time, perhaps we ourselves would question the relevance of positive thinking in life.But the truth is that, the actual task of positive thinking is to solve all those problems of world. If we want to use the positive attitude to improve our own life, we can always do that. That is always possible. But one gets to see the real meaning of life being fulfilled when his positive attitude helps in solving the problems of others` lives.Before the creation of a problem in the world, its solution is created. There is no problem without a solution. What actually is required from us is the wisdom to solve that problem. Our positive frame of mind always helps us in exploring the solutions to problems.Positve thoughts open our mind, while negative ones close it. More positive we think, more open our mind will be, and we will be able to solve all problems of life in a better way.In short, the best way to feel positive is to practice it in real life rather than simulating it through any other means. only positive thought makes the wheel of life run. Think if we wont be positive about our future how will it affect on our present life & work!Think if a patient suffering from a disease wont think positive about his life how will it affect his health!I belive, helping others, giving more & expecting less from others,having a novel purpose in life & leading a simple life backed by faith in God will make the whole life positive.