There was not any of the young people he spoke with who did not want their parents should have some sort of influence on their choice of spouse. Rather, it was actually seen as the duty of parents to intervene and ensure that you find with the right. But that does not mean that young people do not have a say in who they marry:

- It is often a kind of negotiation that occurs between parents and adolescents. The boy has perhaps already met the girl he'd like to marry, and it's about to get his family to "discover" the girl and her family, so you can meet and see each other depends on the families and assess "fit" to each other. There are many different ways to manipulate things, both as children and parents, so that it at least looks like it is the parents who arrange the marriage.

It is, among other things, that it is a way of showing respect to his parents and that they should be allowed to be part of the process of choosing a partner. But it is also a purely practical measure because it is assumed that an arranged marriage is easier to manage than the marriage that is based solely on love.

What is Arranged marriage

In some cultures it is common that parents have the responsibility to find the person their son or daughter to marry. This is called an arranged marriage. An arranged marriage is often described as a relationship between two families and not between two single young.

There are even some who call it a "marriage between two families," although of course only the two young people who are actual marriage.

When it is called an arranged marriage, does it say not just that parents cook for the wedding, bridal gown pays electricity. like. but that they help to find the person their son or daughter to marry.
Parents have the responsibility for that future spouse comes from a good family and will be a good wife or husband for their daughter or Sun Parents also have responsibility for ensuring that their offspring will be presented to potential spouses, so it is not the young people's own "problem" that would look for a spouse in the city, in discos, on education, jobs, etc.

Debate
In many arranged marriages are uploaded to both the young and the parents can come up with objections in relation to whom the young boy or girl to marry. You could say that the parents / family and the young people negotiate the proper marriage candidate, then both the young and the family are happy. The young may look at the most if the future spouse was cute, looks good and is nice to talk to. Parents emphasize that the young man or woman has a good reputation and comes from a good family.

So you could say that some topics are weighted very highly in the assessment of a future spouse. It may include: what country you come from, what family, ie. family you come from and what religion you have. But love also means something.

Selection
Planning for an arranged marriage may appear different. It can either be the young who asks his parents to help in the choice of spouse, or it may be parents, which presents more marriage candidates for the young. Finally it may be that the marriage is agreed by the two young parents, long before the young are old enough to be married.

In arranged marriages, it is a tradition that family and friends gives recommendations and tips for a future spouse are doing this in a sense to help the inexperienced young people on the road.